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Hi there my wife as finally been told that I like wearing remake cloths they make me happy and just the way they feel proplem is my wife not happy with this and could cost my marriage I got 3 great kids 3 10 and 13 I told love my wife she is struggling with it I told her she does not wish to see my dressed which is a Shane as could be fun I really not sure wht to do .
Hi from cornwall.
Very difficult to b honest with three children.
Could some comprise be agreeed.
Liven in plymouth for three years.
Not easy but lots of support on cdh.
Hi from ni
Sam x
Yes I do feel bit guilty as for my children there no way they will see me wearing woman cloths my kids and my wife are my world but I don't wht to stop something I enjoy I'm actually got to go round my mum's place and play round with make up could be interesting.
Hi Simon, it's a hard subject to spring on your wife , girlfriend & family. Your kids are still young, it's going to be a struggle, but if your committed to what you feeling, you have a friend in me. Jennifer
Hi Simon
Last time I checked, wearing clothes is neither weird, illegal or grounds for divorce.
Gender dysphoria is now being taught in enlightened schools - it's a thing that people are being taught to accept at last.
Patience and time are needed, and here you will find 33,000 therapists!
I hope all goes well for you!
Love Laura
<p style="text-align: left;">Hi simon</p>
Do you have a enfemme name
Sam x
Hi Simon,
First off, well done for having the courage to come out to your wife, I recently did the same thing and I know how hard it is.
My advice would be to take it slow, remember, you have known this side of you all your life, but it is completely new to your wife and probably not something she expected from you. It may take her a while to get her head around it. Be available answer any of her questions honestly, try and keep communications open, but don't force the subject.
There are lots of good articled on here and even an SO group that may help her if she is interested in learning more about this "new to her" aspect of you.
There is also I book that I will be getting for myself and my wife soon, "living with crossdressing" I have heard is discussed in a few interviews and is sounds amazing and a great resource for partners trying to figure out what this is all about.
Good luck, and if you want to chat any time feel free to fire me a message.
Cheers,
DeLora.
Thank you DeLora for mentioning that book.... it looks like something I want to have on hand when the day comes that I have the talk with her....
Hugs
Hi Simon,
Welcome to CDH !
There is plenty of others here who have gone through what you are facing right now. The ladies here are very friendly and supportive. I suggest you take the time to get to know some of them. Plenty from the UK too.
Hugs
Autumn
Thanks all for the advice I had a good chat with my wife as I felt things where getting bad she was thinking of taken of her wedding ring but after good heart to heart chat I convince her nothing to worry about we even laughing in the end I even put some cloths on to showed her had a small smile and we left it at that we see what the future holds and least she knows no .
Welcome Simon!
