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Steph from Massachusetts.....returning member.

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(@jlh919293)
Active Member     Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

 Hi there everybody, I am Steph and I am a returning member. A few years back I was on the site and met many lovely ladies which I really enjoyed. And then with her. Where I needed to get rid of all my private belongings, and left the site as well. I am back here and looking to connect with people either locally or from a far. 

 

 Just a little about me… I’ve been trying on women’s clothes since I was a young teenager. Once I was on my own I would sometimes wear ladies undergarments under my clothes, but I have never worn anything in public. I recently made some lovely purchases of undergarments and decided to buy some breast forms as well. Now that I have them, I would love to buy some sort of blouse or top and that  means I guess that I am starting to think about going out in the real world. This is very exciting but very daunting as well. 

 I am married with kids, and nobody knows I do this. I could also use some advice in this regard as well. 

 Can’t wait to hear from you all or reach out to you as well. 

  Heart  Steph

 

 

 

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@jlh919293 

Hi Steph

Welcome back 🙂

There are lots of girls on here who are in the exact same situation as you. I'm sure it won't take long for them to start getting in touch.

I dress full time at home (I'm single) but will be 'going out into the real world' following a makeover in July. It IS daunting ... and, yes, it's very exciting too. I'm pretty sure that once I've done it I won't want to put the top back on to that particular tube of Pringles 🙂

The site has had a bit of a makeover since you were last here, but I'm sure you'll still be able to find your way around. If not, just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@jlh919293)
Joined: 12 months ago

Active Member     Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 3

@ellyd22 I see you are in the UK. I used to have a friends on here, Tara R, and I would love to find her.  Is there a good way to look?

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@jlh919293 

Hi Steph

The only UK 'Tara R' in the member directory is Tara Ryan. She's in South Humberside. Could that be her?

Ellie x

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Lady
(@jlh919293)
Joined: 12 months ago

Active Member     Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 3

@ellyd22 that is her.  I just private messaged her but it doesn’t look like she has been on the site for a while.  Thank you for your help!!

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@jlh919293

She was last on the site on 12th December.

I'm sure she'll log on again at some point and see your message 🙂

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@jlh919293 

Hi Steph, a warm welcome back!

I'm sure you'll soon become reacquainted with old friends, and make new ones too. 

 

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Lady
(@denises924)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 210

@jlh919293 

Hi Steph~
Welcome Back to CDH! It's so great you have returned. There are so many lovely ladies here and loads of information and discussion. I'm looking forward to seeing you around.

 

Denise
❤️

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@jlh919293 

Hi Steph,

Welcome back. Yes, the site has probably changed a little since you were last here, but many of the people you knew will still be around, along with a lot of us newer people.

The place itself is still the warm, supportive place you’ll have known though.

Many of us dress in secret as you do, myself included, and yes, the thought of going out is quite daunting isn’t it? 

You’re in the right place to get advice on all aspects of dressing, so feel free to ask anything you want to know about

Lucy 

 

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(@bianca)
Joined: 8 years ago

Noble Member     GB
Posts: 1264

Welcome back Steph.

B x

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4016

@jlh919293 Welcome to CDH, Steph!

It was a nice step to honour your friend by adopting her name. I did the same thing with my mother's name.

The rest of your situation is a bit more tricky. You say that you are dating, but how much free time do you have to dress? Are you secure when you do dress?

If you can safely shop without revealing Steph, then maybe you can start wearing unisex clothes in public. That way you at least have somewhat of an out. Get people around you used to that first, to see how you can go further.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hello Steph, welcome back. I am sure you will soon be acquainted with the new style and make great friends.

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Steph.

It is nice to have you back. I find myself in a somewhat similar situation. CDH is a frienly, understanding and suppertive communiity, where you can find useful information, tips and advices. 

Welcome back Steph!

Gisela

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Duchess
(@robyn1408)
Joined: 2 years ago

Reputable Member     Cape Cod, Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 135

@firefly welcome back Steph. I think you’ll find that so many of us here have been exactly where you are, and lived to tell the tale. Personally I’ve purged multiple times in my life and left CDH as part of those purges always to come back. This is simply a part of who you are. Once you come to terms with that you’ll find great peace. I’m in Massachusetts as well, feel free to reach out anytime, happy to share my story if it would help you. 
Robyn xo

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Lady
(@amysmissy)
Estimable Member     Warwick, Rhode Island, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome back!

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Steph nice to meet you and so happy you made it home where we always leave the porch light on to show you the way home.. Maybe a few things have changed but a lot still the same and yes rekindle old friendships and start some more .. You know girl we are here for you and please stop back by your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you  around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Steph,

Welcome back to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Steph -

Welcome back to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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