Struggling with husbands cding

Hi Genevieve, My Mother In Law Just said to me an hour ago " Can't we all just get along" after me complaining she ruined a brand new white top I just bought. never worn. She accidentally washed it with something pink and they were not mine. After all we are all civilized woman until a cute top is ruined then its everyone for themselves. Its still cute maybe a little cuter than i wanted.

Luv Stephanie

Hi Deidre and welcome from another wife.  As has been said, we have our own group & forum we can use on addition to the main forums so please request to join.

We have a wide range of experiences and are there to offer friendship, advice if it's wanted, a place to vent to others that have gone through the same range of emotions and all sorts and we are a friendly bunch😃

You are not limited to the Wives forums, you can post on the open ones as well, some of us do both, but sometimes we just want to hear from others that have felt the same way at some point, or get advice on how we have made things work from our side of the fence and that's OK as well.

I don't see there is a "problem" with the Wives forum/group at all, I get that those who CD want to know how their other half feels, quite rightly, and that's where conversations between partners would always be encouraged.

However, having somewhere we can talk to others who have a shared experience and understand how WE may be feeling without feeling pressurised into accepting anything is vital.  Most dressers on here would never think to put pressure on a wife/SO to accept more than she can at any given time but it does happen, and sometimes even just a comment like "go on, give it a go, you may like it" can be taken as putting pressure on and make a wife/SO feel guilty and inadequate and like she is failing as a wife/SO and it's not what you need or want to hear.

I post on both the private and public forums as there is a balance to me, but I also scroll past quite a few posts I don't want to look at because they don't apply to me so I scroll on by.

There is also the Genetic Girls forum where anyone can ask the GGs anything  so tthat is there as a middle ground I suppose.

Hi Deidre  and welcome to C.D.H.   there is lots of info here and us ladies are very friendly people.  i see that you have had a lot of girls message you and hope it helps you out with your  husband x dressing.   i am a x dresser also and wife knows of it  she lets me dress up when no other adult child is home. she will let me dress up but no help with make up or let me sit in same room as her, she has seen me dressed up and getting dressed up and even putting on make up.  i am some what passable but rather not go out doors,  maybe on Halloween i would for i can get away with it.  real woman x dress all the time and nothing is said. so what is the big deal with us x dressing and feeling feminine, seeing what its like to be a female> the clothing is much better fit and looks great. well hope you can learn more from this site and learn to be more supportive to your husband on x dressing. 

Hi Deirdre I have sent you an invite to the SO group

Hi Deidre,

Welcome to C.D.H.
Alice

Wives and significant others in our lives’ play  major roles in one’s crossdressing journey.

Hi, the questions below should help you see things from a Significant other’s point of view. When I came out I didn’t even think of how this would effect her. I only knew of this ever scratching need to present as femme in some way. This is a complicated emotional rollercoaster. Some of the questions can’t be answered by you alone, only together will they be answered. Communicate well and remember to include your Significant other. no secrets allowed here.

-Samantha Roarke-

I'm a CD wife, and hopefully can help, offer support.

Hi miss Love nice to meet you and thank you for being here you are a gem in our girly world just wanted you to know you are loved ..

Stephanie Bass

Anyone who "gangs up" on someone here  wont be here long if I have any say in it......