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Hi I’m new to crossdressing haven, curious if anyone out there gets these extreme feminine feelings every so often, even stronger than normal. I wear panties 24/7 as a coping mechanism but when I get these feelings that isn’t enough. They come out of the blue and last 2 to 3 days and may return a week later or a month later no set pattern. When this happens that’s all I think of till it goes away, I look online at pretty sun dresses and nighties and fantasize about wearing them, it’s extremely exhausting! Would love to hear some feedback.
It sounds like you're experiencing the pink fog. Best thing to do that I've found is to go all out, even if it's just inside your home for a few hours when it gets that bad.
I resemble those remarks, darling!
You're right. Underdressing is just a coping mechanism.
Nothing compares to being fully femme, replete with makeup, wig and forms so the whole illusion is complete, including inside the mind and soul - to the point that it is not an illusion, but the preferred reality.
Love Laura
Hi Michelle, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online community Luv. The strong feelings you get are not unusual for many crossdressers. Whether you use the popular term - pink fog - or what I like to say - the urge - it normally won’t leave you alone until you satisfy the need. Isn’t life grand! Hope you enjoy your membership and get to know some of our fabulous members. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall or a private message will get the fastest response. - Blessings
Oh yes indeed and it’s exhilarating!!
Welcome to CDH Michelle!
❤️💖
Hi Michelle, it often becomes more than just a desire wondering how they will look and feel on you. At some point just order the item(s) and try them on. For me after reading the stories here it just became overwelming to just get dressed in fem first walk down the street, then go to a park and stop at a table there for a little while. Last fall I've gone to a few stores in fem ( its a lot easier to do with the covid mask on. I have also made the jump to telling family - so far 3 of 4 brothers. Now I am looking forward to doing even more and coming out to others.
Go as far as you want, find your own place .
Sandy
I sometimes am overwhelmed by my desire to be out and dressed as the woman I am. I don’t think I will ever be out but the desire seems like I will go crazy if I don’t. “Talking” with you girls helps to calm me knowing that I am being accepted as I am.
Hi Michelle
I certainly do recognize the feeling. And the only thought I have when I’m going to work is to come home and dress like and be a woman. I have come out to all my siblings, closest friends, home and at work. And guess what, nobody has been surprised. So now, if anyone ask me if I’m crossdressing/transgender I will tell them YES. Because that’s who I am and has always been. I love being online looking and buying female clothing. I don’t mind buying them in person in a shop either. I have done that for the last 35 years. So now I don’t care what people think.
I have a big wardrobe full of wonderful dresses, skirts and tops. My male clothing fits in three drawers.
Lots of Hugs
Lily-Rose
Understandin i have a serious shoe fetish at times,other times its just anything lace.
Hi Michelle i get where you are coming from i have the same urges and desires too, they get very strong at times, when ever i read a magazine or paper i always turn to the women's fashion pages first i like to see what the latest fashion's are and what they would look like on me x
Hugs Rozalyne x
Hi Michelle,
Welcome, Enjoy the pink fog!
Alice
Michelle to a cder its all about the clothes. Well at first then we realized that there's more to it. Myself also in recent years started a desire to dress , myself with panties and hosiery at first. I just a few yesrs I have move to full dress of sorts . Joining cdh has helped me overcome embarrassment and Shame and build my confidence to levels I thought a little while ago wasn’t possible. you’ll enjoy being here and the ladies here are wonderful to interact with. Talk to some of them share each other’s stories and develop beautiful friendships . support is everywhere and with an acceptance to move forward in this life we have chosen. Very happy meeting you . Welcome. .
Stephanie 🌹
I love those feelings Michelle.
It confirms who I want to be, and who I am.
Enjoy those glorious feelings of being a woman.
Hugs,
Lee Ann
It starts by enjoying the pink fog and surrendering to its pull. Next living at home and learning all the details of being your fem self. Soon it's stepping out and enjoying the world as the other you and finally coming out so there is nothing to hide . So liberating . You find the real you and never been so happy.
Totally know where you're coming from Michelle, when the pink fog engulfs me I can do nothing else but be Diana, there's no going back (for a while at least) once I slip those stockings on then.... better stop now - expecting company, but I'm with ya girl! Love Diana
