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May I comment here? I'm new and don't want to seem too presumptuous.
I enjoy my work and I own my business but the stresses of modern life led me to discovering my feminine side as an outlet. And I've started exploring that. I have the time and resources.
I started dressing about 5 years ago, picking up things here and there, ordering some items over the internet. It's almost like becoming another person and it makes me feel so excited and relaxed at the same time.
I'm just not very good at it though, could never be in public, (Though one does sometimes fantasize about a little romance), so that why I've signed up here. To pick up some tips about how to proceed and maybe to make some friends.
Thank you
Allana
Hi Allana. welcome and feel free to ask things, the girls here are quite friendly just be careful with your terminology lol. Yes, the feelings you get can make it very addictive and practice makes.....better, nobody's perfect. Enjoy life and you, all of you. Looking forward to reading and seeing more of you around the site.
Allana, Help is a browse away, you need to grade but we'll worth it. A weath of information in our forums from ladies like yourself with their stories through their journeys .learning from one another with tips and advice on everything. One only gets better in time as they say practice, practice, practice . Girls here love to help and support with some making wonderful friendships . Enjoy your time here.
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Allana and welcome! You have found a great place to help you through support and friendship. There are wonderful ladies here so please check out the articles, forum posts and visit the public chat. I am happy to have another sister here! Please reach out if you have any questions or just want to say hi. hugs, Michelle
Hi Allana,
I have not read all of the replies yet, so if I repeat what others say......
......Welcome to CDH! This is a great place with great people and resources to help you through your questions and thoughts!
I've been dressing off and on for years. It is fun and exciting and a great escape, but you may find it's more than escape, and more a lifestyle and discovery of another part of you.
About a year ago now I reached a point in life where I said "screw it", I'm doing what I want, to a degree. (Sometimes I'm too sensible!).
I started dressing what I call "hybrid mode". I wear womens jeans exclusively, I wear panties, tights, hose, cammies, etc. on weekends. (Can't at work, :(. My SO (wife), also does not approve and is "unaware", I do all of this.
Even wear womens shoes/boots. This is my way of "being out", for now. Maybe go further later on. My point however is, do what feels comfortable to you, and at whatever level feels right. Like many, I do have to consider where I live (which is pretty liberal however....), and I do have anxiety about running into people I know.
You may go further, you may not, but have fun exploring this! For me, it is great albeit difficult at times. It's worth the satisfaction "I" get out of it.
Looking forward to hearing more from you!
R.