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Very new to this from Boston

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 Zara
Lady
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(@robbiet66)
Active Member     Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hello. Just beginning my crossdressing journey.  I have been fascinated with the lifestyle for a while now but just starting to get my feet wet.  Totally closeted but do enjoy dressing a bit during my alone time.  Haven't ventured into hair or makeup yet but wanting to soon.  I have a large build, so any help with that would be appreciated.

Thanks for welcoming me here.

Robbie

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 8 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 958

@robbiet66 

Welcome to CDH from way down south in Georgia, Robbie!

First off your experiences here will give you the confidence and ability to be your true self. 

Lots of helpful advice on, clothes, hair, makeup etc. We speak all things feminine here. 

Tour around the CDH site to find places to purchase what you're looking for that are friendly to girls like us.

We are also a chatting bunch of sisters, so don't hesitate to ask questions. You'll also make a lot of friends too. 

Welcome to the Pink Fog!

Fran 🥰 

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@robbiet66 First welcome to CDH  you will find everyone here will be more than happy to help you on this journey.   Second dont let being large slow you down. lots of us big girls here to ask for advise.  remember its all about the Bass bout the Bass no treble lol.  experimentation is the key and have fun above all else. Have a great day RC

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Posts: 5985

@river Yes girlfriend you rang ha ha ..

Hugs Stephanie Bass

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@fishingr8  Heck ya of course I was 😉  . When did Base become Bass And when did an instrument become a Fish ? .. Im so confused now. lol. Confused Face  Cheers RC

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4983

@robbiet66 

Hey Robbie

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community - the best CD/TG site on the internet. It's a great place to make friends. I signed up in July 2023 and I've loved every minute of my time here since then.

It isn't crucial, but have you considered selecting a female name for use on the site? You'll notice that the vast majority of our members do just that. It makes it easier to communicate with each other, breaks down barriers and preserves the whole aura of femininity. If you would like to change your site name, and don't know how, let me know and I can help.

There's lots to explore here. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Ellie x

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Joined: 4 months ago

Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Posts: 132
  1. @robbiet66 welcome you'll find people to be very welcoming here. Like you I am closeted but since posting on her gaining more confidence on being open about my feminine identity. YouTube is good for makeup tutorials by the way.
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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3865

Welcome to CDH, Zara!

Posted by: @robbiet66

Hello. Just beginning my crossdressing journey.

Since you are just starting to dress, set aside some time to plan. When can you dress? How much is your budget? What clothes interest you? Where can you stash your new clothes? Will you continue to hide Zara or do you plan to tell your wife? You can refine things like this as you get more experience and your plan progresses. Have fun.

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2016

@robbiet66 

Hi, Zara, and welcome to CDH, the best crossdresser community you'll find anywhere.

We are a diverse bunch, in terms of ages, experience, life goals and freedom so you have masses of knowledge to access, just ask.

I just started practising with makeup a couple of months ago and can now certainly respect the skill and artistry that gg's possess! Youtube has lots of makeup videos, including quite a few by guys, that I've been following, with varying degrees of success 😊.

Anything else you need , just shout, we'll do our best.

Allie x

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 Leah
Baroness
(@leah63)
Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome,  check out amazon for many items,  easy to order and return if need be.  Keep an eye on the size guides

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome to CDH nice to meet you I definitely check out Amazon or even SHEIN SHEIN is very cheap place with lots of choices I bought many items from there and don’t feel to bad for an item I hate that costed 3 dollars they also do returns 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Zara,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

As you begin your journey you may be overwhelmed.  I see you’re from the Boston area.  I find most people are absorbed into their own matters so likely don’t notice or care.  But you have access to Lane Bryant and Torrid who are CD friendly.  The associates are happy to help with sizes and some basic ideas to help you feel comfortable with you size and features so something to investigate in drab mode.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Zara nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Zara as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@theapat)
Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hello Zara,

Another, Mass-hole! The more the merrier. 😉 Pleased to make your acquaintance!

My name is Thea, I'm from Central Mass-just a Mass Pike away.

Looking back, joining CDH was one of the nicest things I could have done for myself.

I'll best summarize my overall experience-an EXPONENTIAL PROGRESSION supported by some of the BEST GIRLS on the PLANET.

Sincerely and With Love,

Thea

 

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(@princessroxanne)
Trusted Member     Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Joined: 4 months ago

Hi Zara! Welcome in!

I like corsets as a way to deal with my gut fat. Just a word of advice though, don't go for the cheap ones, save your money and get the best quality possible. You will save money and heartache in the long run.

But hey there is also value in just running with whatever you've got! Don't let the small imperfections like that be too much of your experience. We do all this outside stuff for fun and validation, but as corny as it sounds, the real beauty, the one that people see, comes from the inside. You gotta make that je ne sais quoi shine!

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Duchess
(@sandie9832t)
Reputable Member     Santa Cruz, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Hi Zara!

Welcome to CDH! I'm Sandie. 

Do check out local thrift stores and Goodwill in your area for femme clothes also. That way you can budget your money. 

Hugs,

Sandie ❤️. 

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 1 month ago

🍒🍒 Hi   Zara   , 

 Just wanted to say.   Late  Welcome to CDH, !!!!

 It's  been a while since you joined, a few months ,   and the busy Holidays are over,   and Survive them ,  and a new year 2025 ...

By now we have probably starting to know you way around CDH and meeting new Friends ..

Any time you like to gurl Chat ,  ???

Huggs 

Stephanie 👠

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