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I went to Barns and Nobel today. I just had a bra and tight tee under my jacket. I wanted to just walk around unzipped but it was not the right place. Any suggestions for a small city in the west? It is fun just walking about the house.
Wear your bra with a women's button down blouse. It's not as apparent and you will soon see that no one cares. You can wear this at Walmart, Kohl's, walking around a mall and other retail stores. After a while you will put on a t-shirt and bra without giving it a second thought. I find front closure bras don't show in the back like a back closure bra does and I think they are way more comfortable. I also grocery shop in bras and again no one cares. as a matter of fact just got back from buying groceries and had on a black lace bra and a navy button down blouse with long sleeves.
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Carla
Thank you for the advise. I can't wait to get a button down blouse. So do folks know you have a bra on? I drive around with just my bra and tee shirt. That was fun. Hard to say if anyone noticed. I have also driven around with my bra and cami that must be more obvious.
Jamie, wearing a bra under your tee does feel nice; and even if anyone should notice the "bumps" on your chest, you will get no looks or comments. Now, you need to find the style of panties you like, and add them to your wardrobe.
thx for the reply. I plan on going out again. I might drive up to Denver and walk around downtown. Maybe a blouse and yoga pants. or tight jean.
I have been wearing panties for a while. I have 10 pairs. I like the bikini style. I wore panties to work last week. That was fun. I just like saying the panties. I just wish I could share them more.
Everything I've been wearing this weekend is femme, except my jacket - and I'm looking for a nice one!
Ladies Converse - can't tell them apart from men's - ladies Levi's (softer material, shallower pockets, shorter zip) and no-one is the wiser, including SO.
Full complement of soft t-shirt with flamingo print, and obviously soft cotton knickers and soft satin bra.
I've got a convincing jumper on the way, but jackets are a little harder. I've got to like it, so it's no good just picking something that looks male...
The dilemmas of dressing incognito, in staelth mode - such a fun game!
Mind you, I've seen plenty of much younger men just going for it, with femme clothing, make-up, nails and dyed hair.
You really can dress how you like these days, and hardly anyone will bat an eyelid.
Love Laura
I bought a blue button down blouse and skinny jeans. I walked around small a park in my new clothes. Not tons of people but it was public none the less. I need to work on my sizes the blouse is a little small and the jeans could be tighter. The c cups i was wearing seemed perfect.
Just not sure where to keep all these outfits I am getting.
Haha!
Indeed - it's an adventure not simply finding your size, but what works on you.
I love short skater dresses, but looking back at old pictures I took of myself, few of them suited me very well.
The other dilemma of where to store the clothes, yes, storage is a rare resource, and female clothing is so pretty...
Downsize regularly - not purging, but anything that doesn't really work, send to a charity shop or something.
There will always be more clothes to fill the gap and then some...
Love Laura
I uploaded a photo of my new skinny jeans and blouse - not sure how to link it here. Wondering if you think I could go out incognito in this.
Welcome Jamie!