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Hi everyone, I hope you are having a wonderful week before the Memorial Day weekend.
I have been asked to put together a little private shopping party at a local lingerie shop in my area. This will be a special event that will be for cross dressers only. I have read so many posts about girls WANTING to go out enfemme, but not sure where and be safe. So, I am providing a one time opportunity for you girls that have never been out but would like to go out, be enfemme, or not, and have a chance to hang out with other girls in our wonderful community. This will be in the New Hope, Pennsylvania area. It will be discreet.
I have a special relationship with a lingerie shop that hosts private shopping events for women. The store manager has offered me a chance to host my own event with the caveat that only crossdressers will be there. This will occur after the store closes at 6pm. The event will run from 6 to 8 ish. We have the store to ourselves for lingerie shopping and they also sell other women’s clothing as well. So you will be able to shop, try on clothes, get properly measured for a bra, without the uncomfortable worries of cis women staring or watching you, no judgements. You can come in drab or enfemme. But it is much more fun enfemme. This is a shopping and social event. Come see how much fun cross dressers have! I hope to have a nice combination of first timers and experienced girls. The store manager is excited to have us. If you have never been fitted for a bra, this is a must. There is nothing better than a properly fitted bra.
After the shopping, I am arranging a get together at a local bar that will host us with some food and drinks. The bar will be at a hotel so if you wish to stay over, you can do so. To give you time to make plans, set up your excuses with your SO’s, take off from work for the day, I am looking at either August 1st or the August 8th. The date depends on how many commitments I can get. I would love to get around 12 to 18 girls. I know it is vacation season, but then again, less crowds locally, and makes it safer and less people for us to navigate. Please feel free to private message me or respond to the forum. I will privately let you know where the events take place. If I post the names of the businesses here on the forum, I risk this post showing up on a google search and the discretion goes out the window. We don’t need the whole world knowing where we will be. I hope some of you will be willing to give this a try. This is my first time hosting something like this, I will try my best to make it special.
Hugs,
Abby
Dear Abby,
I would love to partake in this and am committed to this event; I just hope the pocketbook allows me to do so. I've become friends with Sophia Taylor (@sophie85) who mentioned this to me a short while ago; I believe I previously messaged you about this. This will be a first time "en femme" outing for me and I'm excited to do so.
Thank you so very much for all the "behind-the-scenes" efforts you're putting into this. I have no doubt you are making this one special and memorable event for everyone who attends; I'm sure you'll be a fabulous first-time host!
Looking forward to hearing from you soon.
Thanks so much!
Bobbi Jo 
p.s.
I will give notice ASAP if I have to cancel due to my financial issues.
@abbyabby Hi Abby, I'd almost certainly rsvp yes if I could, but I will be away on a trip on those dates. I will still follow in case the date ends up moving earlier or later for any reason. Jill
@abbyabby I live just in VA, and I would love to assist to this! I sent you a private message !
@abbyabby This sounds very intriguing! I'm about 30 minutes from New Hope. I have never been out in public, so it would be a huge step for me, but I am interested if I can make it work with my schedule (8/8 would possibly work for me).
I wish I lived in Pennsylvania, I would sign up in a heartbeat but I live on the opposite side of the country. Oh well maybe it will happen over here. Have a blast, Lacy
I think it's wonderful that you are doing this. What a great way to help others peek out of the closet. I'm not anywhere near your neck of the woods but I would gladly join you if I was.
Thank you Roberta, surprisingly, I am not getting much response. But we shall see.
@abbyabby Its surprising at how few of us actually put some effort into trying to get together. Perhaps its like going out for the first time. Its a scarry thing to do.
Abigail, this is wonderful of you to do! I hope this will be everything you want it to be. Very thoughtful.
Thank you Michelle. I hope it will too. I am excited to be able to offer this opportunity.
What a wonderful idea. Thank you for arranging this sounds like fun.
XOXO
Suzanne
thank you Suzanne, I hope you can come. Seems like you are not too far away. Just up I-95 for you.
It's a great idea, Abigail. It is a wonderful way to help others in our community. A few days ago I walked alone on the streets en femme for the first time of my life and I can't describe how good it feels. I wish I were there. I'll be back at home in a couple of days.
Have fun!
I’m definitely jealous. I would love to dress up and hit the streets of Vancouver. Pennsylvania is indeed too far, though.
I would love to hit the streets of Vancouver. I have never been there, but plan on it in the next five years. Unfortunately, it will have to be in drab, since my wife will be with me, lol.
How special is that and nice. So nice of you to set that up. Wish i was closer.
Emily
Hey Ladies! I just Love this idea! I will be attending, assuming Abby gets enough participation.
I've been to the area and it is VERY LGBTQI+ friendly. There are a lot of wonderful small shops and eateries plus the nearby river has some parks and paths to stroll down.
There are a number of places to stay overnight for those (like me) who want it.
So, girls, build up your courage, ramp up your enthusiasm for being the Femmes that we all are and take the plunge and join in the fun!
PM Abby with any specific questions.
Leah
Hi Abigail
We haven’t spoke in quite some time.
An evening in a lingerie shops sounds wonderful. I just went by Sweet Blossoms on Main St. I remember we talked about how much fun it would be to spend time with other girlfriends there or any lingerie shop.
I’m now living at Jersey Shore and I’m racking my brain to see how I could make this work. I just don’t think it will. But I’m holding out hope.
thank you for setting this up. I hope you get enough girls to make it work and have a fabulous evening!
my Best
Natalie 💋
