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A Day in the Life of Jill Quinn, or My Further Misadventures

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(@jillannquinn)
Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

So, last week my wife and I went to a local wig shop so that I could purchase a new, high-quality wig. I told the owner of the shop that I am a cross dresser, and she didn't bat an eye. It's a lighter brunette than my other wig and comes down to a little past my shoulders. It's silky smooth and beautiful. Yesterday, I dressed up and took it out for a spin!

I wore and extremely pale pink bra and my C cup forms under and ivory-white long sleeve blouse. I really love that blouse. I tucked and wore a tight pair of panties, black pantyhose, butt and hip forms, and a black knee length skirt with black Tea shoes with a four-inch (10 centimeters for my sisters abroad) heels. And I carried my purse which is also black. I hope I looked as cute and well put together as I feel I did. I hadn't dressed in a month, so this felt really wonderful, especially after the stressful week I had at work.

I decided to go back to the store and have the owner, Carol, make sure I had put it on correctly. She made a minor adjustment and gave me a few pointers to style it more naturally. Then I tried on another wig for a future purchase. Afterwards I headed home to meet my wife.

She was coming home early from work to pick me up so we could go to court for one of her sons who had made a dumb mistake. Now comes the interesting part of the story. I only had 15 minutes to change from fab to drab, and I knew I couldn't do it that fast, with makeup and nail polish to remove and undressing and redressing. Now lately I've been feeling more and more fed up with hiding my femininity and dressing. It's not that I want to be seen as much as I don't want to hide anymore. So, I went to court as Jill!

My stepson knew I cross dress, but he hadn't yet seen me dressed, so this was the first time. There were four other people with him, none of whom knew anything about me as Jill. Well, they do now! We sat on benches outside the courtrooms discussing his case, and for the most part, I sat there quietly as the elephant in the room that no one wanted to address. And to be fair, the day wasn't about me. So, I didn't mind. But my stepson did say he liked how I looked. That was very nice of him.

Finally, we were called into court. I sat next to my wife and one of my son's friends who showed up for support. Less than 10 minutes later we all walked out as the charges were dropped. He was VERY lucky. His friend and I chatted for about 15 minutes, and I never tried to soften my voice. I was just me. Jill with a deep, baritone voice. It was really very pleasant.

Then we all went our separate ways. My wife and I went for lunch at a local spot. The server addresses us as "ladies" when he brought our food out. Another new experience for me. Being referred to as a lady was a sweet compliment. Then it was time to come home.

But in all my travels yesterday, with all the people I saw, four who knew me, not one of them had anything nasty to say. No threats. No intimidating looks. Nothing bad happened except that the sandwich I ordered was way too spicy for me. That's it! I hope this experience may give some of you a little more courage to venture out your front door and see the world en femme. I love all of my amazing sisters and I thank you all from the bottom of a heart full of gratitude and love.

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@kimdl94)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Blearmill, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 173

@jillannquinn 

what an event filled day!   I am so impressed that you decided to just not hide anymore!   Good for you!!!

Now that the ice has broken, do you plan to dress and go out more regularly?

Hugs, 

 

Kim

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@kimdl94 well, as I said in another reply, I’d have to tell my family and friends and some of them, including my son, are very conservative. Such a revelation may be more than any of them are willing to tolerate. But I’m getting more and more to the point of not giving a damn. If and when I come out fully, I’ll be sure to share with you ladies what the fallout is.

As for dressing regularly, no, not yet anyway, simply because I’m very hairy and removing that volume of hair would overload the local landfill and it would be a giveaway that something is up. Also, my wife loves my hairy arms, chest and legs, though she has given me her blessing to remove it all. She’s awesome like that!

Hugs, Jill

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(@debbiedd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     los angeles, California, United States of America
Posts: 1460

@jillannquinn Oh Jill sounds like you already broke the ice with this bold move hon. All other outings should be easier for sure. Do take the opportunity now of body shaving since your wife has given you permission and see the difference of experiencing it.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@debbiedd shaving all of my vast forest of body hair off will have to wait until I fully come out to friends and family. I just don’t know when that will be. But I appreciate your enthusiasm and encouragement. Thank you.

Hugs, Jill

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2144

@jillannquinn 

Isn't it great not to have to hide your feminine side, Jill. 

Today I went to the medical clinic to get blood tests, McDonald's for breakfast, then Target and finally the mall. All as Cassie.

I can agree that it is so great to out as Cassie and be accepted as just another woman out shopping. 

Cassie 

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@loneleycd I still hide from friends and family but I don’t know for now much longer. Six months? Two years? I don’t know but I’m sure it will happen which is something I couldn’t even envision a year ago.

And it sounds like you had a great day out too! Good for you! Keep doing it and just being you.

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@joanarbour)
Joined: 9 years ago

Reputable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
Posts: 167

@jillannquinn WOW what a way to introduce Jill! So happy that everything went well for both you and your family.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@joanarbour Thank you very much. I was relieved too. 

Hugs, Jill

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Excellent story, I presume your step-son has learned his lesson.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@rebeccabaxter Thank you. I certainly hope so but the doubt it. He has trouble with understanding the consequences of his actions. At least this was by far the worst thing he has done, which was driving without a license, insurance, or registration for the car he was driving and causing an accident.

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Aside from the court issues,which turned out well, what a pleasent day. Thanks for sharing. It was just another example of how life goes on when the world sees us dressed. 

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@jjandme It really was! I felt a little uncomfortable sitting there in court but not nearly as bad as I would have just a few months ago. Like I said, I’m getting real tired of hiding and I want to experience things as Jill if you choose to do so.

Hugs, Jill

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(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Nice story Jill!

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@d44 Thank you, Fiona! I’m glad you enjoyed it.

Hugs, Jill

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Duchess Annual
(@robertaf)
Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Going out is just that easy. It will get easier every time you try it. 

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@robertaf I was really surprised at how much easier it was this time than last time and every time before. It was almost as if I was walking out the door in drab mode. And it’s the ladies such as yourself that inspire me to find my courage to walk outside beyond the safety of my home. I can’t thank you enough for that!

Big hugs, Jill

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Posts: 1770

@jillannquinn 

I hope you will find what myself and a number of other CD's I've heard from have experienced - that the majority of women, young, middle-aged or mature will prove accepting or tolerant to some degree. As long as you dress to blend, are polite and courteous, are honest about your CD'ing if asked and have your makeup and mannerisms down fairly well, you will hopefully find that you can be treated as just another woman by a good number of them. It happened to me again this evening when I had a pleasant conversation with two mature women sitting on benches in a riverside park. Just 3 women having a chat. I love when that happens.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@d44 I always try to dress with class and I’ve always had good manners. Mannerisms and makeup however, still need a lot of practice, but I’m working on them.
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Duchess Annual
(@robertaf)
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Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
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@jillannquinn It's been said "Nothing to fear but fear itself". Most fears will never happen, its just the way we humans try to prepare for the unexpected. Like most fears, they aren't really worth worrying over because they never happen.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@robertaf I can agree with that statement for the most part, but as for how my family will react, I base my fears on their own statements and attitudes.

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Jill -

Thank you for sharing your story, it sounds like a wonderful day out. 

I haven't tried venturing out yet, however, I am starting to open up a bit about my dressing. I told a lifelong friend recently and didn't get a reaction one way or the other which was nice. I'm feeling more comfortable about myself and opening up to select people is on my plans. Maybe at some point going out will happen. If I've learned one thing on this journey - never say never.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@cdsue I sincerely hope you’re able to go out en femme one day soon. I wish you luck and give you my support. I’m sure the world will be a better place when Suzanne walks in the sun!

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@kerrismith)
Prominent Member     Belvidere, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

That is quite a story Jill.  Thanks for sharing with us.  I don’t know if I could be that bold but I have been out a few times as Kerri.  It is an exhilarating experience.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@kerrismith You’re so right, it is so exhilarating! My boldness shocked me, but I didn’t see a way around it given the logistics of time to change and time to travel to the courthouse.

Hugs, Jill

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(@justnikki)
Prominent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Wow, what a great story! I've been lots of places en femme, but never the courthouse! I hope to keep it that way, too but it was sure fun to read about your experience. I also feel strongly about not hiding so that really struck a chord, too.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@justnikki I’m so glad you enjoyed my story, and I hope I never have to go back to any courthouse ever again. Are you considering coming out so that you won’t have to hide anymore? Like I said in another response, I’m not sure when it will happen, but I’m feeling like it will eventually happen. I look forward to being that free!

Hugs, Jill

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Thank you for sharing a wonderful and very interesting day out. So many who have gone out in public have said how easy it has been but when it comes to family, light the touch paper and run! At least you have a supportive wife which is a great comfort. as you say one day....

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@ab123 Yes, I’m very blessed to have her. But I do dread my family members reactions. I’m confident that none of them will handle it very well, especially my son.

And I’m glad you enjoyed reading about my little adventure, Angela. It’s alway great to hear from you.

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@sroyer)
Estimable Member     Ontario, Canada
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi Jill,

What a wonderful personal story...there is much discovery ahead.  One being able to take items off the clothing racks and boldly try on clothing, accessories, make-up and shoes in stores that fit your taste or looks that will compliment your (new) oufits and the ones at home and without feeling being a stranger in the woman's aisle when shopping.

Happy journeys!!!

Summer

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@sroyer Thank you very much, Summer, that was very sweet of you to say.

 Hugs, Jill

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