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I was chatting with a GG friend she asked what words are you going to use when you go out as Brandy? (I had no idea what she was talking about). She told me if you go out as a woman looking a woman you have to be a woman. Its like an actor has to play a part and that is what you will be doing playing the part of a woman. You have to let your self be treated as a woman walk, talk, and act like a woman if you don't your cover will be blown real quick. I admitted she was right, In all of my excitement of going out for the first time I did not think of that. When I realized my mistake It hit me when im out dressed I need to be aware of my surroundings more. We all do this in guy mode we will go any where and not even think about it. I have walked into many situation in guy mode all blissfully unaware of my surroundings gang territory, Biker bars, Clan meeting, Snake handling church, and many more. Two other time I was invited to join a occult . As Brandy i can not do that and have to be aware of whats going on around me. I told her thanks I did not think of all of that I got allot to think about. She said I tell you what when I come to town I want to take Brandy out on the town and teach her a few things.
Friend is right Brandi when dressed as a woman be a woman. Even if say have car troubles. Have to really forget all guys things. Oh wow snake handling church be fun to watch. lol But would be a real girl don''t like snakes don't like spiders lol scream like woman for sure.
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Donna
I'm sure you practiced your walk,crossing your legs when sitting , your brushing the hair from your face .
Now its time to think .
What would a woman do ?
I usually try to act vonarable because you are . Your not moving anywhere that fast in heels and a dress . You never know what to expect . Anything can happen . You'll notice women are always looking around . They are not being nosey they are aware
Your GG friend sounds like a true friend; I hope you take her up on the offer, and thank her properly for the help. I know I feel safer as Bettylou when I'm out with my wife, rather than alone.
Hi Brandie sound like you GG friend has some good advice for you and yes take her up on an outing could be lots of fun and you will learn a lot from her good luck ..
Stephanie Bass
Snake Handling church? You can’t live too far from me... I can point out a couple up in the mountains because I have had to do work at a couple.
... Advice to the uninformed - The box under the front pew is not where they store the extra hymnals....
I have had a couple of GG gf's that have I have gone out with as well as a few CD friends whose wives/SO's have joined us. Even as practiced as I am, it is always good to have someone there that can tell me to walk slower or take smaller steps.
Their calm guidance should always be very important and much appreciated. And if you haven't yet, partying like and with a bunch of girls can truly be quite an experience.
PaulaF
Brandie I am happy you have your friend to help and guide you. I regularly go out during the day shopping and running errands and have become quite comfortable but do try to stay aware of my surroundings.
I would love for you to report back on what she teaches and shows you that may be valuable to the rest of us. Have fun and learn lots!
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It is important to me to act,think,and behave as a woman when out en femme. It's half the excitement
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