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Today is Thursday the 28th. As I've noted before I live in the same house as my X, she has the upstairs and I the basement. I was up my normal 5 am, dressed in fem to do my morning routine. Wore panties bra and forms, jeggings, nice floral top, and my coral colored tennies with my favorite unicorn socks. The X didn't get up until 9:30, I gave her a few minutes, then I walked into the living room and asked her if she would have strong objections to me being dressed in fem all morning. No objections. So I spent the next couple of hours cutting and installing shelf covers to put into our brand new kitchen cabinets. All this time she seemed to be getting comfortable with me dressed. I think I am moving to being dressed 50 to 90% of the time when it is only the 2 at home.
That afternoon we needed to go shopping for a couple of things for the new kitchen. During the ride she asked my I didn't continue to wear the fem clothes. I think this was another one of her statements to try to get me to quit. BUT now I am working up a couple of different ways to accomplish that.
. . . Cassie
One step at a time. Keep putting one high-heeled foot in front of the other, Cassie!
Much love,
Raquel
Cassie, this sounds like great developments! So happy for you to be dressing at home, even with SO. She seems accepting instead of tolerating?
As to the question in the car, you seem to feel it is a question for challenging you, as opposed to accepting you. Yes, it's a great opportunity to create a positive dynamic, but it might not be helpful to your ultimate goals if your intention is to "outsmart" her.
If it were me, I'd look at it as the opportunity to find out how SHE feels about it. In other words, she handed you a "hedgehog" (a prickly question), and you can hand it back. Such as, "That sounds like an interesting idea. I don't think I would do that without talking to you about it first. How would you feel about being seen in public with me?"
Enjoy the baby steps!
Hugs Lawren
