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I go by Loren. I am 24 years old, I would say I'm bi, but when I'm in girl mode. The only thing that's on my mind is -men-. Anyway I've been dressing for some time now going out and all that. Back in May I was seeing this girl for a while but we both decided to end it, and since then I've been feeling lonely. So I decided to go out en femme and I met a guy who is very interested in people who cross-dress and we've been going out together since. it's been casual so far and we have had sex but as of lately he's been hellbent on trying to convince me into living with him as a fem 24/7, a part of me really really wants to. But there's also a part of me that's still attracted to women and wants to give dating them another shot. It's a whole lot right now and I really don't know what to do and it's been killing me what do you guys think? Should I give it a try or not?
Hi Jordan,
I think if you really like that guy and he also likes you then you should go with him. The more you'll think about the more you'll get confused, and that guy he already knows you if you'll be looking for anyone else maybe you've to convince that person to be with you. So i would suggest you should accept what is coming to you.
Love
Perhaps it may come down to your feelings .... love ? Like looking for any relationship , ultimately it's love that's desired , if you think it may lead to love then explore but perhaps don't move in .... for the same reason Samantha said.
Call me old fashion, but I personally would not live with somebody unless I had a deep serious relationship with him/her. The fact you are still curious about dating means you are not that committed and are more just curious to see what it would be like to live en femme. You can do that without moving in with anybody. Bottom line...take your time to explore your options. You have a life time ahead of you, so continue to explore it and find where you feel most comfortable.
Lovely response JJ xx