All cards are on the table now!!!

So last night my wife and I were having a few drinks and watching TV. We got into some deep conversations about my childhood and I figured there was no better time to see how she is handling me Underdressing and wearing woman’s panties. We had the talk about a month ago and so far so good. I do notice when I’m getting dressed she avoids looking at me in my panties other than that everything has been normal. So I wanted to know how she was feeling. So I asked her “How are you handling me wearing panties everyday now.” She responded ” It doesn’t bother me at all I, I think your worried more about it bothering me than I am. I really don’t care about you wearing panties. If your happy and comfortable then wear them. Just know I really don’t care and haven’t put much more thought into it, but” She then goes to ask ” I do have a question tho, How long have you been doing this and why now are you wanting to wear woman’s panties now?” This was a tough question but I know I had to put all my cards on the table now!! I took a deep breath and answered, “Well, When I was little my sister and I would play dress up all the time. I went on explain that over the years there were spurts of wearing panties but it would fade in and out.” She was a bit shocked that I have been doing this all along and had no idea. I asked her if she ever suspected anything and she asked “Why would I have suspected anything this just started again right??” I told her at ” At this point yes and no, I have bought and worn panties periodically over the last few years I kept it a secret because I didn’t know how to talk about it or tell you. When you found the panties last month it was the perfect storm to be honest and now I guess I don’t want to hide anything else from you. I like wearing woman’s panties and I want to only wear woman’s panties going forward.” She sat there and looked at me for a few seconds and says “Baby I don’t care if you wear panties but I don’t know how I would feel if you wanted to wear dresses and skirts.” I kind of laughed and said “I’m not into dresses or skirts but leggings and tops maybe.” She laughed and said “Are you serious, you want to wear leggings and woman’s tops? You would like to be able to dress up like a woman is that what your saying? I told her “No not all the time, but I like wearing leggings and comfortable tops. It’s not only about the woman’s clothing , I like to wear comfortable clothes when relaxing.” she then responds “You wearing woman’s panties is enough for me right now. We can talk about the rest another time. Maybe work towards that but I’m not ready for that yet. I don’t know what I would think about that but we can talk about it another time. But now I have to ask you this and want an honest answer, do you or have you ever worn my panties and clothes when I’m not home?” I responded “Absolutely not, I think that’s kind of weird and is going to far.” She smiled and laughed a little then said “Honey all of this a little weird and too much but as long as your not wearing my panties and clothes I really don’t care what you wear. I’m not ready for you to be walking around the house in leggings and woman’s tops around me or the kids. I don’t care what you do when your alone. You just need to take baby steps.” After that she stood up said “I need another Big Ass Glass of wine” she kissed my forehead and went to get her wine. When she came back out we didn’t bring it back up and went on to watch TV.

I’m very happy she is taking this well. I know there’s an adjustment period but I think we can work through this and hopefully we can share my crossdressing and have fun with it. Having our initial talk has started to open up new lines of communication. As she says Baby Steps and we will make this work.