All cards are on the table now!!!

So true. Thank you for your response.

Sounds like you have a very kind and understanding wife, Michelle. I also wear panties 24/7 and have for almost 2 years now. My wife knows and has totally accepted that part of me. She also knows I wear other articles of lingerie (bras, slips, garter belts, stockings, etc.) put prefers I do that when she is not around. I would like to get a few dresses, skirts, and heels of my own but for now that is far too much for her to take at this point so I will pause that wish for now. I am hopeful that she will come around and allow me to wear more different things around her, but like you, I am moving at her pace. I know this was not easy on her, but I love her, and want to make sure she is comfortable as we move forward with this together.

Hugs,

Emily

It sounds like she's having a very good reaction to the situation. Keep working with her!

Also, if you catch her wearing any of your things, even guy things, just wink at her, kiss her, and tell her how good she looks! It might set you up for the same treatment if she catches a glimpse that she is kinda into.

That's a great idea. She is starting to come around. She went out the other morning and I started my day. I was brushing my teeth wearing only a T-shirt and my panties. I didn't notice her and she comes up and smacks my ass and says "Nice panties". It was the first compliment/comment she has made about me wearing panties. While I was getting dressed she was in the room. She usually avoids the room when I'm getting dressed. I guess it was her way of avoiding seeing me in panties.  She goes on to say "I find it cute you match your panties to your outfit everyday." Which I do, but didn't know that she has noticed. I ask her "What else do you think about me wearing panties?" She tells "Again honey I don't care what kind of underwear you wear. It was a bit strange in the beginning but it doesn't bother me. I'm getting use to it. I told you it would be a process. Now, hurry up and get ready we have to go." So I finished getting ready and we went about our day.

I agree with her that when I first told her about wanting to wear woman's panties, we were both trying to adjust. Over the last 7 weeks we both are becoming adjusting. I was very nervous in the beginning which I think made both of of nervous. I think she was trying to avoiding by acting like it was nothing. I think together by talking and doing we have both found a balance and acceptance.

Be careful sister.... that question from her... "You would like to be able to dress up like a woman is that what your saying?"... I've been there with my wife, and it's the crux of what she understands being a CD is.

From reading lots of posts on here, we CDs either want to pass as women, transition to being women, dress in women's clothes part-time, or we want to wear feminine clothing and look like a guy.... of course it's a wide spectrum.

It's the part "like a woman" that she may have stuck in her head and end up competing with you in a way since it may lead to her questioning her woman-ness.

Just be on guard, go slow, find ways to talk, and be willing to take the right risks. I wish I could rewind decades and do it all over because my wife's question still returns "So you want to dress like a woman?" while shaking her head in a berating manner.

I definitely think your on to something. There have been some changes in her since I came out to her about wearing woman's panties. In the beginning I could tell it was bothering her or that she was trying to understand. Over the last month or so, she has been dressing a bit more sexy to work. (We work together) She's been wearing a lot of leggings with obvious panty lines showing which she never did before. Tighter fitting clothes. She also wears these dress pants that look like she's showing over her panties. Yesterday She wore these white pants that make her ass look great but also you could see her white and pink lace panties through the pants. She has been a lot more revealing with her tops as well. More cleavage has been showing and bras always show through here shirts now. I've been noticing this a lot as of late. Maybe I'm over thinking it but, I'm noticing something.

Thank you for the advice. We are progressing slowly. She is becoming more comfortable with the idea of only panties. So I think were headed in the right direction.