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Hi dear sisters
This month of September it was a carrousel of emotions for me.
Event #1
To start off I had an incident at my house that almost cost me being exposed fully clothed!!! One September morning, I got up early and waited for everyone to leave for work. Once everyone left, I started making preparations to cross-dress for Odeth to appear on the scene. Everything was fine up to there, I tried on a pencil skirt and a flowery blouse and put on makeup, I put on my wife's shoes and I looked out the front door of my house, "everything is fine, no one can hear anyone and everything looks very calm for a Saturday morning." I decided to take a little walk outside the door, in my front garden area and where I park my car. It was a feeling of nerves and excitement, my heart was beating a thousand miles an hour, what an idyll!!! I could finally walk like a woman in my own house and no one was watching me!! My house is the last house on the block, at the end on the left side of my house there is only a huge rock wall that the construction company had left as the end of the neighborhood, after that wall is the mountain, and from there the forest... not bad I thought, I'm going to walk through my yard next to that wall, there no one could see me since there are no more houses or neighbors on that side. I take my walk, I felt butterflies in my stomach, what a feeling!!! Well it's time to go to work, I thought, so I head to the front garden to enter my house. Horror!!!! The neighbor on the right side of my house has gotten up and is in her garden, with a direct view of my house!! Damn!!! I thought, now what do I do??? I hid from her sight and went back to my yard, the adrenaline was shooting up again. I look out again and now she started watering her garden!!!, "Well maybe she'll leave, she'll just finish watering her plants I said to myself" Wrong!!!! Now my neighbor's husband comes and lays out a hammock!! Couldn't things get any worse? In fact they did, the neighbor across the street from my house comes and they start talking and talking. Murphy's Law, why me!!!?? I just have to wait, time seemed to have stopped!!!! I waited 3 hours, fully dressed, made up and with a sun that was burning me!!! Sweating profusely and it seemed like my neighbors weren't planning on leaving for a while. If my wife goes out early today she's going to find me like this!!!, so I had to find a window and remove the glass blinds from my window, one by one, and remove the metal mesh that serves as a mosquito net, I was there for almost half an hour, but it seemed like an eternity!!, I could finally get into my house, and with the inconvenience of entering through a window in a skirt!!! Mission accomplished, I could now change and take off my makeup as soon as I could. I got dressed to go to work and when I go out,...there's no one there!!!??? My neighbors had finally left.!!!
Event #2
I was crossdressing as usual in the morning, I was picking options to wear, I was so exciting and I tried about 4-5 outfits, the last one it was a red gown, so beautiful and I took it a nice's pictures that maybe some of you already saw it.
I was intended to seego out and watch if nobody is there , my neighbors, always my neighbors, I thought. In the very same moment I am going to open the door , I hear stepa in front of the door, I barely see by the windows and , my brother -in-Law is in front of the door and is trying to open the door!!!
As fast as I could , I ran in a gown to the restroom and locked the door.
My brother-in-law entered to the house and shouted if someone is in house, I responded,I'm at the restroom, OK ?
Once in the restroom I undressed me and took a shower and remove all the makeup, hide the gown, bra, panties and shoes.amd came out like nothing happened here!!
So after this stressful events I ask all of you, my sisters.Have you almost being caught by someone in your home or outside ?
Do you have created a backup plan for what if...??
Kisses and hugs
Odeth
@lujan2099 I was out in the garden once when the neighbour popped his head over the fence, "Hi, doing a spot pf gardening then"? There was no way my size C boobs weren't noticed but nothing was said. As it happens he is no longer there so it's not likely to come up again but it says to me that people either don't notice or don't care if they do.
@lujan2099 I did have one episode last year while I was still just a man experimenting with womens' clothes, where I'd gone out in a dress for a drive in the car, while the neighbours were out. They got back before I did and I had to get out of the car in my dress in front of their living-room window! But they didn't see me.
When I knew early this year that I wanted to start going out in public in a full femme presentation, I actually went and knocked on the neighbours' doors and told them to expect to see me presenting as a woman.
Then when new neighbours moved into the house opposite this summer, I introduced myself to them as Fiona and told them they might occasionally see me around the place in male mode 🙂
Woow, as I said before, what a lucky have this kind of neighbors , mine are very religious and even when I used to assist to the church, these people is extremist, everything is a sin, so there is no way to introduce them as a Odeth, even when my wife doesn't know about her.
Hi Odeth,
It is a thrilling experience, as a closet crossdresser myself.
I was caught once many years ago, not a good experience as I was very embarrassed. As of today, I am still in the closet to my family but I go out in public as Carla.
I actually like to keep it a secret as there is some allure and excitement to keep it to myself and my CDH friends.
Woow
Being caught is stressed, few weeks ago I decided to tell my daughter of 20 years old about my crossdressing, she was in shock but she have me his confidence and accepting me , however she still processing it and prefer not see me crossdressed, only in pictures.
For me it is and advance ,maybe my wife one day could accept me and I could tell her about my actual crossdressing, she think I'm not doing anymore, so it will be hard tell her or she found me doing it!!!
Hi Odeth,
My scariest nearly-caught moment happened quite a long time ago:
THE FRENCH MAID INCIDENT (mid 1990’s)
I attended a conference in Cannes, France. In my hotel room I unpacked quickly and changed into lingerie – nothing else. Then there was a knock at the door and a woman’s voice in French, followed by the sound of a keycard and the door opening. It was the chambermaid, but by then I had rushed as quickly and silently as I could into the bathroom and closed the door. I stood there nervously for eternity (actually just 2 or 3 minutes) hoping she would not come into the bathroom! Then I heard the maid exit and the door close, so I emerged cautiously. I never knew whether she was aware that I was in the bathroom or not.
Hugs, Rebecca x
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This incident was originally described as part of my response to the post:
@fembecky I would guess that the chambermaid suspected something was up as when I have been in my room the help always check the bathroom to see if there are towels needed, etc. Best, Marlene.
I am sure you are right. At the time I was too freaked out to recognise that, but it did occur to me much later.
Rebecca x
@lujan2099 I have a friend that I share books with and I'm always worried that she will just show up at the door when she knows I am home but never been in a situation like that, thank goodness.
Tia
Wow that would be stressful!!! I glad you did not get caught
You have no idea !!!!
I was scared !!!, at the beginning it was fantastic, be out as a woman !!! Although it was in my backyard I felt it so nice!!!
@lujan2099 I think that is part of what excites us girls. The fear of getting caught!!
I think that is true, you want it and the same times you doesn't...
The feeling is in another level!!!
@kimberlyannvictoria Maybe for some the thought of getting caught is a positive thought, but decidedly not for me! Best, Marlene.
I got caught fully dressed by my loving "DADT" SO last year, roughly about this time. It was just before her birthday, so my timing was definitely off!!
It was the old "she came home" early trick
She also found some jewellery some years ago, so that's where the DADT comes from. "She knpws but does not want to know"
The only back up plan I have is not to dress at home, mostly in my 10ft sq storage unit, (with light and power) or previously on charity volunteer overnight trips
Caty
Oh gosh Odeth what a trauma! I suppose the lesson learned is to have a back up plan before you embark on any dressing adventure, no matter how small.
It's happened to me and probably many girls here and we reacted as you did, blind panic but luckily get away with it.
I remember many years ago when taking my first steps outside my place. I walked into the dark walking along a sidewalk when a car came along and caused me to panic. I saw a side street to my left and quickly crossed a small grassy area to get into the street. In my rush I didn't see a shin high fence and went straight over it landing in a crumpled heap and ruining a pair of tights. If I ever wanted to draw attention then that was a way to do it, the car carried on and my panic was not warranted. The car just drove by and probably didn't even register anything other than a woman walking along. Lesson learned, just act naturally.
Hi Angela
Probably I would have reacted in the same way as you did, the scare and nerves always plays against us,
If I were in a place were nobody knows me I would react in different way, but in a place with many people known, hard to tell,, thinking calming I would think like you say, what if the other person I saw just a woman walking ??? Except if you came close and talk to this person, probably he never would imagine you are this person except if he is very close and he check our legs, ohhh the legs always compromise our identity if you don't use leggings or good pantyhoses.
Kisses
Odeth
I mentioned this in an earlier post, but I was seen by my neighbour across the road as I was getting into my car as I didn't realise he was sitting in his. There was nothing I could do, I was seen! I bluffed it out, I didn't really look at him or acknowledge him in any way and just tried to give the impression that I had every right to be there and I was just a woman, going out in the car, that belonged to his neighbour (honestly though, why would this be happening?!). There is no way this worked, I'm absolutely sure that he knew who it was, dressed in all their finery. The thing is, if I don't bring it up, they probably won't either; it'll a little thing between us that no one wants to mention, I'm quite happy to leave it at that. That is, until he sees me again, then the cat will probably be out of the bag.
Don't let your misadventures stop you Odeth, you go girl!
Becca
yes I was caught at the weekend. I thought that no-one was visiting so I was wearing leggings, T shirt with my 38B bra with boobs and a necklace plus some make up. Then at the backdoor I hear my neighbour, she has come round to walk the dog. Nothing I could do so brazen it out which was no problem as her reaction was "you look pretty". When she came back from the dog walk I explained my situation to which she is very supportive.
So it goes to show you never know how people will react, but having said that there are some friends who I'm sure would be negative.
Hi Randi
You are such a lucky girl!!!
My neighbors are christians and they have group always gather in his house, so is not an option to talk with them, the people here is not supportive at all, I wish I could migrate to another country, because of that.
My closest goal is migrate to Canada as skilled worker, once there, the things can be better for my crossdressing.in general.
Kisses
Odeth
@lujan2099 Is that a real possibility? Are you actively looking at the prospect?
I'm told Canada is a good place to live, if a little cold at times.
Yeah , actually I am watching the opportunities but requires money and a offer to an employer, that is the safest way to go there.
I'm learning french because Quebec has advantage in this programs but requires speak french and English
If someone would willing to hire me would be a fast way to move to Canada.
@lujan2099 I understand what you are saying, but among Christians there are many, many cross dressers; me for one. Best, Marlene. PS Evangelical Christians may not be so accepting.
@marleneroberts yes, you're right my wife and I are evangelical, but I cannot say in my church I'm crossdresser, forbidden totally!!
I was once in full Cerys mode. It was summer. Short skirt, T-Shirt, black tights, jewellery, make up... Full Cerys. I'd been pottering around the house all morning. It was a Saturday. Doing various chores. I had just finished vacuuming when I remembered that I had left something in the car. Without thinking, I went out to get it. I opened the boot (trunk) of the car took out what I wanted and closed the boot. "Morning. What a lovely day".... it was my neighbour from across the road. We stopped and chatted about various things. We talked for maybe 10 minutes. Another neighbour popped out to walk to the shops. She also said good morning.. Chatting over, I returned to the house. It was then that I remembered what I was wearing!!!!!. Nothing was said for over a year. I came out full to friends, family, work and neighbours. I talking to my neighbour about this this and he said "Yes I remember chatting to the other you last summer" 🙂
These days, I do not hide Cerys away. She is free to do as she pleases. I'm very lucky to have a loving and supportive wife. There are a few rules, but generally, Cerys can be herself as often as she likes, for as long as she likes. No more hiding from neighbours. No more getting caught.
Coming completely out of the closet took many years, mainly due to my wife's concerns. It was a huge step, but I don't regret a second. Life is so much free-er. My wife is comfortable being out and about with me. She actually enjoys charity shop shopping with me.
Whilst I understand why many do not want to, or are unable to introduce their other side to the neighbours, I highly recommend it. Life is so much better now!
Cerys
@dazzler I would love to get over myself and do just that, to come ou5 to the neighbours. But other than my fears, it is also something that my otherwise completely supportive wife is also concerned about. Maybe one day….hugs Christine
I dress at home in front of my wife. However, I do need to be careful as the rear wall of our house is glass and I think one of my neighbours may have spotted me. Nothing as close as this though.
Anna x
I was on a trip in France with my brother and several friends. At the end we mostly went our seperate ways. I headed to Nice and went shopping and bought a new dress and lingerie which I wore that evening and had laid out in my room. The next day I was going out for a walk. As I stepped out of my hotel my brother and one of the friends were there and decided to stay at the same hotel and were there early and wanted to use my room to hang out in until their room was ready. I knew I had all my things out and obvious so told them to go to the front desk and see if their room was ready, knowing full well it wasn't, then dashed up to my room to put things away before they got there.
Once they left Nice, I got to wear it there and later in Scotland.
Once I was coming home from a shopping trip fully dressed. My garage opener would not work. This required me to walk around to the front my condo to get in. I ran into my nosy neighbor. He is an old man named Joe. He asked me who I was. I told him I was Stephanie (Paul's girlfriend). I thought he would figure out it was me and tell my neighbors. I was so scared!. A few days later I ran into Joe again when I was in guy mode. He mentioned he met my girlfriend and she was very lovely!
@stephaniegirl226 how did you handle the voice??
It is something I have to figure out how feminize my voice.!!
Thankfully my voice isn't very deep. I also I speak quietly
