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Ashley took a giant step today.

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(@cdashley)
Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

OMG ... I did it. I’m actually very emotional writing this.  I went out in board daylight fully dressed ( casual mind you) Jeans , top , breastforms , makeup, some nice perfume , a cardi sweated and a small bag. Wore my flat ankle boots there but changed them out in the car for my heeled boots.  Parked the car , and with absolutely no second thoughts got right out of the car and walked through the parking lot to the door and walked right in.  There was actually a few people already in the store but even that didn’t stop me.  Walked  over to my new friend ( an amazing sales associate which I’ve posted a picture with her in my photos). We chatted for a bit and she let me know how proud she was of me coming in dressed this time as we have met before while I was in drab.  She filled the fitting room with a ton of things and I tried it all on showing her after each one.  I ended up buying most of the things she had picked out. Plus she also found 4 super cute tops for my wife.  You have no idea how I feel right now as I’m super happy with self for making the next step.  After years of guilt and fear and now starting to act as I feel I should be.  This is a huge part of who I and learning to accept it rather then fear  it.  This was one of the biggest moves I’ve ever made and realize I should have done this a long time ago.  Thanks for listening ladies.
Big hugs and kisses to all.
Ashley.

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(@bianca)
Noble Member     GB
Joined: 8 years ago

Well done Ashley, and thanks for sharing your wonderful experience. The first of many.

You are do lucky, we are still locked down here, even the changing rooms in superstores are still closed😢

❤️Bianca

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(@cdashley)
Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Thanks so much Bianca, your very sweet hun.Lock down has  stopped a lot on my end as well. But took advantage of things being open in our area.
hugs

Ashley❤️

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Ashley,

Congratulations on your courage to walk outside and across the parking lot into the store.  Sounds like you had lots of fun shopping!

Alice

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(@regine)
Noble Member     Simcoe County, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Good for you, Ashley, I can only imagine your feelings.
So very proud of you
Hugs, Regi👩💕

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(@trishl989)
Prominent Member     Bury, GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Ashley, your day sounds incredible. I bet you were walking on air. I've seen the pictures honey, you look fab. It'll be the first of many adventures in sure.

Love Trish.

Ps give the sales assistant a big hug from me. The world could do with more people like her.

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(@cdashley)
Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Thank you Alice.  It was a wonderful time I’ll remember for a while.
Hugs

Ashley

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(@requaljoanne)
Honorable Member     New South Wales, Australia
Joined: 4 years ago

Congratulations Ashley.  Now that you have taken the first step, all others will come naturally.

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(@cdashley)
Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Thanks so much Requal!

Ashley

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