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Ok so last weekend I had a bitter nasty breakup with the S/o. Who would never accept this side of me. She burned all my clothes when she found them after I told her I’d gotten rid of them. Well we haven’t been getting along for a couple years I’ve only stayed for my sons sake but I’m miserable. I started talking to a friend I met. She’s 500 miles away. And in a similar bad situation. So s/o found out and it was world war 3. I was locked out without my truck keys in pajama pants and a t shirt at 11:00 at night and she wouldn’t give me my2 cats or dog either. So after the cops were called etc I at least got my keys and was able to drive back to my house 3 1/2 hours away at 3 am. I laid low for a couple days and got a lot of support from friends cause the ex posted all her crap on Facebook. Well with all the Coronavirus cancellations I’m not going to be doing any trade shows for my business for the foreseeable future either. So I’m just going to hole up in my shop and work. Need to do some errands and meet with my lawyer Monday and otherwise I’m free so. That means I can be Bethany 80-90% of the time now. It’s so relieving. I don’t have to go anywhere see anyone and can actually feel like the real me. Soo. I did some shopping online. My only pair of talker boots which were from Walmart Is falling apart so I got 4 pairs of size 12 woman’s boots. 3 mid calf and one knee high 3 dresses and 3 pairs of faux leather pants and a faux leather dress. I love the look and feel of leather on me. And as soon as I get a big check I’m expecting from a client I’m getting the girls again to replace the ones that were destroyed and want to get some I can attach and sleep in as I love the feel of having boobs. Maybe one day I’ll be able to fully transition and have real ones I’m just so happy right now in spite of all the darkness everywhere in my life that for an extended period of time I can really be me
Hi Bethany
It sounds like you have had quite a week with everything that happened to you. Just remember that now you can be yourself and don't have to hide anything from your S/O anymore. That in itself should be a load off your mind. Enjoy your new found freedom. Its time for you to start living for yourself
I am sorry that you are having to go through this hard time. Based on some of what I read this may be the best thing in the long run. It is not good for any of your family to be in constant fighting. Do get a good divorce attorney to help you through this.
Although my circustances were not as dire as yours and I really did not want a divorce, in the long run I am happier and will probably live longer. It is expensive and there will be changes to your life. I now present as a woman about 90% of the time even though I am not "out" to my friends and most of my family.
Good luck. Carole
The great news is I’m not married to her. We were engaged and my house I’ve had for 20 years and everything is in my name. She really has nothing she’s been supported by first her parents then me. And she’s spent me broke practically no matter how much I made she’d spend it. And was so high maintenance I couldn’t get as much work done either so financially it will be a great move though I think this Coronavirus will really affect my business. Luckily I didn’t put that or the house in her name too. So I’m really free to be Bethany
Bethany so sorry to hear of your situation. mywife wants no part of my femme side, but lets me store my clothes at home. I have a place outside the home i can store clothes and change there. We very rarely talk about it. Its not perfe1ct but it works for me.
