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This is a cool story not an embarrassing one. I dropped my No. 1 most important human, my kiddo off at school at 8:30a. With her mom taking her on Spring Break that means a week and a half to dress and I got started immediately. I didn't know she had early release for Spring Break, so I was definitely not prepared for a knock at my door at 12:30.
I was actually relieved it was just my baby mama, and not someone else. She's seen me dressed before when we were together, but not in almost ten years. I had to nervously tell her over the phone, "okay, well... just so you know I'm dressed." She didn't care. We talked normal w me dressed in a tight leather mini skirt. Makeup, nails, etc. She gave me a compliment. I showed her a couple other blouses I coordinate that color with.
She is a better person since we broke up. I am a better person since we broke up. I would never get back with her, but it's nice to have an important person in your life in your corner. We may be exes, but bc of our kid we will always have to get along when we get old and have to negotiate over Christmas and grandkids.
@nicolealamo It's always nice to hear a story like this once in a while. It's wonderful that you have this kind of relationship with someone you are so intertwined with! Thanks for posting Nicole.
I'm really happy for you, Nicole. Relationships like the one you have with your ex are priceless.
I'm close with my last two exes. They see me regularly and both are fully supportive of my transition. I'd say our relationships now are better than when we were together. My life is better because of them.
Liz xx
@nicolealamo you are blessed Nicole, heartwarming story. My ex & 2 babies mama is also my only confidant & also the sole person who knows everything about me. I feel exactly as you describe and appreciate her as a still a true friend. Thanks for sharing, enjoy your weekend.
Riki
Awww you have written a nice story about your 12:30pm knock at the door, i am glad it went well for you. Kind regards Gwen
Thank you for sharing this, Nicole! It's encouraging to hear that there is still a measure of support, even if the relationship has taken a different path.
Hugs,
Shawna
Hi Nicole!
I am just glad it worked out and that your child's mother was able to get them from school. You are lucky that you and your ex can get along for the sake of your child. I had 2 children with my first wife. She made everything a battle when ever she could. I feel lucky that the kids are grown up and I almost never need to interact with my ex.
Hugs,
Autumn
@augustvaliant Yes. Absolutely. It wasn't always this way. It took a lot of work to get to where we are. But it is so much easier, and better for our kid too.
It never goes as badly as one fears it will. I'm glad you have that understanding with her. 🙂
That's lovely to hear it went do well Nicole.
It is nice to hear of ex's getting along especially for the benefit of kids. Just beware that your dressing could be used against you should the relationship sour.
She tried to make it an issue before, but it didn't stick. My kid is at the age where she can pick who she wants to live with as long as both of us are capable.
