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My ex did. She once said to me that she came to understand how hard it had been to raise the panty wearing especially as I told her early on about that. The nighties were a later conversation
Hi Jasmine,
I do hope you will "take the plunge" and tell your SO soon. If you stay in this relationship, you will probably be caught, eventually, and women often this lack of trust more personally than their objection (if any) to the Dressing itself. And a favorable response will open up a whole new world for you, in ability to express yourself.
Hugs,
Bettylou
Sorry for the late reply. She somehow thought I would know she would accept me no matter what. I can assure you I didn't. I was terrified.
My SO also wants a tatoo..great idea to use that as a springboard
Hi jasmine!!
I'm not a seasoned vet at this by any means...but I do know one thing, as hard as it might be in any circumstance. Honesty is the best policy by far and it will purge you of whatever you are holding inside. Speaking from experience, lies pile up, even with the best and most noble intentions ( like self preservation). Prepare yourself from the worst and you may be pleasantly surprised. Bieng able to have my partner know and understand me a little more clearly has completely changed my outlook on life. Bieng able to explore together is a rare reward but worth the effort. We all deserve to be loved unapologetically. Much love and respect.
Melina 💖💗❤️🦚
I agree that honesty is the best policy (although the oof joke is that insanity is the better defense). In my own limited experience your so is appreciative of hearing the truth early on. After I had the talk with my ex before we got married she was happy to be told rather than discovering it and I also told her it could just be panties if she was not comfortable with more. I let her decide how it would proceed if at all beyond lingerie
came out to my wife this week. Had no clue how she would react. She was so cool and may be into helping and participating. Best thing to do no more hiding and so exciting to be out in the open at home.
