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In the last few weeks of this year, thoughts have been on my mind about whether 2017 will be the year I come out to my world that I'm a crossdresser. We often put so much effort into events, even planning our own weddings and funerals years before we're ready. For a crossdresser, seems appropriate that we should actually plan our coming out party, even if it's till years before we'll be the guest of honor.
Last night, I had an unusual dream...I'm dressed in a black cocktail dress, with sheer black tights, and sparkly black pumps. I'm peeking through a doorway, seeing lots of people I know having fun, all dressed up for some important event. Anxiety hits and I duck back into the Mens room, casually walk up to a urinal, and notice that there's another guy in this bathroom looking at me oddly. I start to wonder, do they seem me dressed as a woman. I quickly find a mirror, and see myself with my mostly guy-looking face, yet accented with beautiful makeup, and a feminine hairstyle, all coordinated with my outfit, looking more beautiful than I have ever imagined. Then I realize, this is my coming out party!
What a wonderful dream (well except for
the men's room part). To look in a mirror and realize just how beautiful you are. Then to share that with all your friends and family. I hope you can make your dream a reality in 2017, if not 2017 then soon.
Coming out..... When this actually happened, was like taking the weight of the world off my chest. For me, it wasn't done in such a grande fashion as in your dream, but to a few good friends at a time. Most of the people whom I let know in the beginning all ready knew when I let the cat out of the bag......didn't hide it as well as I had thought. Hopefully some day you will experience this glorious event.
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