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I have noticed when I am out how much women compliment each other. When I go out I get complimented also and it feels good. When I was dressed as Wonder Woman at Superman celebration I got complimented all day of how good I look and how they like my boots. That was before they realized I was a CD. One came up behind me and said you look so good in that I turned around and said thanks she said. "Oh my god you are a guy that's even better!!" Just a observation has this happened to anyone else??
Yes girlfriend I have gotten complements too but mine were differnt scenario. During Trick Or Treating last year while I was performing I got told yeah work it. I was called beautiful. I was called a she once too. My specific sister in law called me fabu. So my complements were a differnt situation then yours. But I remember seeing your photos from that. Oh wait that was someone else hun. Still way to go hun. Keep enjoying and getting complements like me.
Just the other night when I went out to pick up some makeup the cosmetics associate gave me a nice compliment. When I’m out and approached by sales staff I always come clean that yes I’m a crossdresser which I figure as soon as I talk they will know anyway. So as I was picking out some mascara and she came up to ask if I needed any help she loved my outfit and said I dress better than most women that come in. I think they appreciate when you’re honest with them and most have mentioned how they think it’s great how we can be out and courageous enough to be ourselves. Made me smile all the way home.
It doesn't hurt that you are cute as hell! And very photogenic. Supermodel smile. I'm so jealous!!
Gwyn
Yes, women compliment each other. When I'm out, I always try to compliment the ladies I encounter - sales staff, waitresses, other customers in the shop. It usually brings a smile to their faces , as well as a return compliment to me.
Complements are truly wonderful to give and receive! At work, where its 95% women, I'm always complementing my co workers on something, their footwear, scarf, hair, beautiful tops, dresses, etc.
They always love it, and in return they'll often complement me on my top, scarf, lip color, nails, eye makeup and hair, the most common comment I receive is how classy I am, that always makes my day!!
Hugs girls,
Ms. Lauren M
I have noticed that as well. At a distance I think I am passable, but up close I think it is pretty obvious I am dressed en femme. Yet up close I get nice little comments from women which is their way of saying "you go girl, you be you." If they disapproved there would be no point of saying "I love your dress", or "I love your hair", et cetera. They could just as easily make it sarcastic if they wanted to be biting.
I have received comments quite a few times. Sometimes though I wonder though if it is not just to here my voice to see if I am a "Man"
Women are very good at making compliments, a stranger coming up to you to say they like something you are wearing is really nice.
In my early days of going out I wasn't attuned to getting compliments and when I did I wondered whether it was because they saw me as a crossdresser and the comment was a form of subtle encouragement or, as eluded earlier in the posts, a way of getting me to speak to confirm what they were thinking. As time went on I realised it was a compliment and an affirmation that I was looking good.
One fun compliment I got was a subliminal one. It was summer and I was wearing a lower cut top and some cleavage was showing. At a checkout a young guy was at the till and while I was doing the transaction I was sure he was looking at my boobs. On leaving my friend confirmed he was as she said he couldn't keep his eyes off them!
Happy days for an, as then, fifty something Gal!
You girls are beautiful and so lucky to get compliments.
I don't get out fully dressed often but do take care of my nails, hair, skin, facial appearance, and underdress wearing fem tops but I never get compliments. I always get SIR even on occasions when fully dressed. I'm just not passable so enjoy your fem characteristics you lucky ladies. This ugly duckling envies you girls... lol
My wife and I went shopping this past Sunday, when we walked into a store the nice young lady said welcome in ladies ans then later complemented me on my outfit and hair(wig). it was such a great experience.
I have gotten compliments more times that I can count, most recently at a coffee/wine bar. 30-something Mom with two daughters went out of her way to tell me I was beautiful and that she loved my hair.
To be honest, I thought I looked pretty good for a mature woman, but as with all compliments, I tend to take them with a grain of salt. Part of me inevitably wonders if they are just being kind.
Hi Brandie,
I am out in public cross dressed often. Compliments from women are very common, whether it be for jewelry, the dress I am wearing, my shoes, make up, or just my overall appearance. Moreover, the fact that I am a male does not seem to factor into the equation, if a woman wants to compliment me for something. For me, I find the compliments are validating.
On the flip side, I am much more likely to compliment a woman, when I am cross dressed than when I am in drab clothing.
On rare occasions, I get compliments from men. I take these with caution but always say thank you.
I have not had to chance to go out fully dressed as of yet. I do keep my nails done and painted on the weekends. I have got many compliments on my nails and asked where I get them done (I do them myself at home). I hope to be able to go out dressed at some point and look forward to interacting with other girls.
All my encounters and compliments have been when going to a crossdressing events located in Las Vegas Nevada, Port Angeles, Washington, San Jose and Sacramento California. Yes I have received several compliments when out dressed from both women and men. Uber driver in Las Vegas my first time riding in an Uber dressed said you look absolutely amazing such a beautiful sexy outfit too around Halloween in 2017 dressed as a gangster girl. Women have approached me in bars in Las Vegas and have said you look sexy or way to go girl and have bought me drinks when dressed in Las Vegas. I received 10 times more compliments when dressed as a woman then I have ever received as a man. I have had more drinks bought for me as a woman then ever as a man. Women have said how do you do your makeup tell me you look beautiful, women have said they love the dress, jeans and or top I have worn when out. I have received compliments from men saying they love my look that I look good, sexy, classy when dressed as a woman. I have received compliments on my hair (wigs I have worn several times). I have had women ask questions about crossdressing and why I do it and they say they think I am doing a great job and be you. Weird how it works more compliments when dressed as a woman than a man.