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This happened when I was around 10. My family is full of toxic masculinity it drove my older brother into drinking and drugs. I was home alone and wanted to play dress up in my sisters clothes dress, tights, panties and shoes. When I was all dressed up I heard my dads voice he was yelling with a red face " BOY WHAT IN THE HELL DO YOU HAVE ON!!!! IS THAT YOUR SISTERS CLOTHES TAKE THEM OFF NOW!!!" Next thing I knew my dad took off his leather belt and hit me across the back of my legs. I started crying he hit me again " Im going to keep whipping you until you take it all off!! You haven't even started few more whack across the back butt legs etc. Suck it up you damn sissy!!!" He kept hitting me threw the pain and tears I tried to undress but I was hurting I finally got the dress off. " ARE YOU WEARING PANTIES YOU LITTLE FAGGOT!!!!!" Then came more licks 4 in a row I couldn't unbuckle the shoes cause of me being in pain and crying. I finally got them and took off the panties and tights in one swap. I was standing there naked with belt whelps forming on my back and legs. He looked at me and said " Next time you will get it worse no kid of ours will grow up to be a sissy F@&&*t" He gathered up the clothes and left I heard my mom say you catch him. He said yes and I beat it out of him. Mom said good.
Skip ahead a few years we moved to a different house my brother and me got the basement. my brother eventually married and moved so I had the basement to myself and got a new younger brother. I was in my 20s I just beat cancer my dad came into my room he said "Hey I got to talk to you about something." I said ok wh. My dad grabbed me by my thought slammed me against the door. I was pinned and had my eyes closed. I heard " I warned you years ago now the next time I hear any queer talk or you dress up as a woman 1 more time I don't care if its Halloween I will put you threw your closet and when I let you out you better have a place to stay it wont be in my house. Now boy you better look at me and acknowledge what I said." When I opened my eyes and looked at him he quickly let got and backed out not taking his eyes off of me and I didn't take mine off him he never bothered me again. (I have been told over the years by friends, Ex girlfriends etc that I have a look that I get and its a scary look. I asked what the look and all I get is I will never tell and never want to see that again. I had a High school teacher I looked at that way he stayed away from me the rest of the year.) I found out the reason for the attack my 10 year old brother was playing a video game and chose the girl charter and not the boy.
Hi Brandie so sorry for you as close to the same here mom kept this part of my young life away from older brother and dad as abour the same a bad scene would have been at home if they found out ..hugs girl ..
Stephanie
Welcome to CDH. A harrowing story, I am glad you escaped, but traumatic, and undeserved.
Life is not always roses, a bit like Forest gump life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what family members can do or why they do it.
I hope your life is great for you, and I kook forward to reading about your adventures.
Best wishes
Jane
Its great now I came out and never looked back.
Dear God that’s a terrifying story! Please know that you are ok and that you are a beautiful and wonderful person just the way you are.
im so sorry that you went through that but you’re on the other side now and you’ll be ok.
Super big hugs and comfort,
Catherine
Brandie,
You are such a beautiful woman. I mean that from the Supergirl courage, to your actual looks. This site has helped me through a few of my issues, though I never faced the same as you. Gurl, you got some brass behind you. I'm proud you are my friend.
Things like this never go away, but you can take a huge amount of pride in bursting through it all.
Feel free to PM me if you ever feel the need to. There are few I'd ever give my number to in "Vecca's World", but if you need to talk, excuse my rough sounding voice. Sometimes we all need a coffee buddy.
A horrible story, Brandie.
Diane
That's so sad! I know back in those days it was not uncommon to get a beating when we did soh of my lifmething wrong, but I don't think putting on your sisters clothes warrants that response.
I remember getting spanked by my dad with a ping pong paddle many times for things I did, but when I was caught sleeping in one of my moms nightgowns all I got from him was a lecture telling me how wrong that was and to never do it again. That of course did not stop me, but I wonder if I would have ever done it again if he would have beaten me within an inch of my life.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this Brandie. While not the same my childhood had similarities. I was taller than both my parents by age 14. I think it must have somehow intimidated my father who would sometimes challenge me to fight him over something. I was just a kid who didn't understand it at the time.
Thank you for that painful share.
I'm glad for you moving on and not looking back..
Yeah! I always choose the female characters in video games too!!! Who wants to watch a man-character running around??
I wish you all the best.
x
Hi Brandie
l’m so sorry you had to go through that! I just can’t understand how someone can think beating a child is ever right.
I’m so glad you made it through that.
With all you have been through, you are one tough amazing girl!
Lots of love and big hugs,
Lara
Hi Brandie.
So sorry to read of your experience. You are a very strong person. Those of our generation can sympathize because it was accepted and common for parents to beat their children back then. I remember even high school coaches had big wooden paddles they used to discipline students. Today your father would have been arrested for child abuse. I can sympathize over getting beaten with a leather belt. We survived... F them.
So sorry you had to through that.
Hugs, Liara
Back in the day it was the thing to beat children and as Michelle says they'd be arrested for child abuse in todays world. Even teachers too. I can admit I deserved some of the whackings - things I shouldn't have done and was wary to do again! So I feel for you Brandie but it didn't stop you getting where you want to be and you beat your father in that respect.
My father sadly passed before I could tell him but he saw me play dress and never stopped or chastised me.
Brandi, That's absolutely awful. Unfortunately many children grow up with that no matter what the cause is. I am sorry for you and I am sorry for the thousands of children that go through that every day. It's pretty sad that there are adults of both sexes that allow this to go on for any reason. On a plus side I would imagine you are a strong caring person who would never do that to a child and looking at your profile photo you are the beautiful gal that your father did everything in his power to stop. HUGS & LUV, TERI
