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[Solved] Conforming to My Feminine Identity

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(@rochelle13)
Eminent Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello again Ladies!

After getting the kindest feedback on the story I shared about going on a first date as a crossdresser woman, I have decided to tell another one. 

After a very successful date night with my boyfriend, I decided to take things to the next level. Now I fully acknowledged that my boyfriend and I had originally met as two males, but to have experienced him treating me as a woman showed me that further possibilities existed for our relationship. It was on a Wednesday afternoon that I invited him over to my apartment for dinner. I was specific in saying that I wanted to cook for him, but excluded the part that dinner was going to be with “Rochelle”, not my male self.

After throwing my homemade casserole in the oven, I quickly rushed into my room and started to get dressed up. Since my boyfriend had seen and clearly enjoyed my feminine form, I felt a surge of confidence and knew that I had to look pretty. The outfit I chose (after receiving recommendations from the lovely CD gals in this community) consisted of a little black dress, black seamed stockings attached to my corset, and my favorite high heels with red bottoms. (And for you ladies who are like me and have a slightly larger midsection, let me tell you that a corset will do the trick!) Also, being a gal that normally likes to dress rather conservatively, I hesitated to wear a shorter and tighter dress that barely came down to my thighs, but I genuinely wanted to feel sexy for once and so I did. After finally getting into my outfit and doing my makeup at the most novice level possible, I waited for my date to arrive.

 
Unlike the first time, when my boyfriend arrived at my apartment, he walked in with a bottle of wine, and a singular rose. I have to admit this threw me off guard because I had never seen him act this romantic when we'd go out as two men. 
Furthermore, I was very surprised that he had predicted I would be waiting for him as “Rochelle”!

He then proceeded to compliment my outfit as he looked me up and down.

We eventually got to eating our dinner, drinking our wine, and discussing our strange relationship which we agreed to continue exploring together. 

Ladies I have to say this, in a sometimes hidden and underrepresented community like ours, it becomes a GAME CHANGER when you enter a supportive relationship. I truly appreciate you gals for always showing the love, and hope you can experience similar feelings too! 

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(@lauren114)
Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Congratulations Rochelle!  He sounds like a great guy.   I hope your relationship continues and gives you everything you want and deserve!

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Lady
(@sweetmelissa)
Estimable Member     Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 1 year ago

So happy for you Rochelle. To be recognized and treated like the woman that you want to be must be so fulfilling. 

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

I hope the relationship blossoms like the rose he presented to you.

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(@jussjess)
Active Member     Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

What great news! Congratulations, it sounds like you have found true happiness! 

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 Lea
Lady
(@lea-jhene)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Congrats Rochelle, that's such a beautiful story. Fingers crossed that all continues to go well for you!

Lea

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Rochelle -

What a lovely evening for you. Hoping your relationship continues to grow'

XOXO
Suzanne

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 J J
Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

It is wonderful to hear all is going so well. 

First off, your outfit and presentation sound lovely. I doubt anybody could resist...you go girl.

Secondly, have an honest, open dialog with your beau. I know nothing about gay relationships, but communication is important in all relationships.

I see how you can be worried since I assume gay men prefer men, yet you can be the best of both worlds. I truly believe our spouses and SO are the lucky ones as they have the best of both worlds. I hope your BF realizes that.

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