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This topic was suggest by another girl and I find it intriguing. For those of you who have accepting or supportive wives----How would you describe their general personality aside from their attitude towards your cross dressing? In other words, what are they like as a person?
@maureen76 My wife is kind. She has a huge heart always does for others first. She is understanding and accepting. Takes alot to offend her. She is timid but as she has gotten older she stands up for herself.
@cdgabrielle Gabby---your description seems to fit in to how many girls here describe their supportive wife
@maureen76 well my wife is a very loving caring person. She is also very open minded and accepting.
As long as l am happy she is happy. We are very close emotionally too. She cares about others too. I am a lucky person to be married to her and she loves to spend a lot of time with me. Xx Jane
@candycross It seems many supportive wives share the qualities of being loving and caring which is probably a big part of why they are supportive in the first palce
@maureen76 when l was with my former wife, l never felt comfortable telling her my fantasies of crossdressing, however my wife now is so much more open to my feelings. I am very lucky, we both love making each other happy and love spending all our time together. I feel very privileged
@candycross yes Jane---you are lucky ---- all of us who have accepting or even supportive wife's are lucky girls
I'll start off--my wife is accepting of my dressing ---it's cool---it's my thing---but not really hers----her general personality is that she is practical, somewhat spiritual although not religious, she tends towards the conservative, but she is very open minded towards all aspects of life, I don't think she has lesbian tendencies nor is she bi ---
Perhaps, there are not many supportive spouses---I wonder what the percentage of us who have supportive spouses is?
Maureen, my wife as yours is accepting. We had a play day yesterday with hair, makeup and dressed together. My wife is loving and very caring, with a soft heart. She is not into me being feme in bed. She is not Bi or lesbian, thou she has had an encounter in the past when young, just not her thing. Lucky all is good.
Lynne
@lillie Hi Lynne --- It seems your wife is more supportive than mine---but they do share the quality of being loving and caring --- and not lesbian or bi---although mine has never mentioned any experimentation ---thanks for responding
My wife and I are best friends against the world. We always have each other's backs, we go out together but we usually holiday separately because we don't like the same things -- my wife loves travel and I hate it, so I get to stay at home and look after the dog while she goes to India, or South Africa etc. on her own.
We've been together for 37 years. There have been ups and downs but we have also had wonderful adventures together. We wouldn't be without each other.
Coming out as a cross dresser was a little awkward for a few days but now my wife often encourages me to dress even when I wasn't going to bother.
We've had a lot of fun with my progress as a cross dresser and we have grown closer because of it.
Becca
@rebeccabaxter That's a wonderful story Becca---it sounds like both of you have the ability to compromise and work things out especially when it comes to vacations
First off, I have a wonderful and amazing wife. We have been together over 40 years now and it only gets better. Her attitude is "they are just clothes". Whuch for me is true becuase I am a guy in a dress type dresser. We have very similar likes, buy enough differences that we have some of our own rhings to do. We both love outdoors and whime she is not as obsessed as I she will, hike, backpack, ski, climb, paddle, etc, etc, etc. When we rebuilt our house after a fire the only "disagreements were about shades of color, buy we always chose the same color. We were both in the same profession, but were employed seperately.
Whe she would be perfectly content if I never dressed, she is supportive and whike I have given her veto power she never uses it. In fact I kiddingly blame her for the progression of my dressing. She is wonderful.anytime I have expanded my dressing and the evening ends well and passionately, which just encourages me more.
@jjandme Sounds like you two are super compatible in your choice of career as well as what you like to do for recreation ---which helps explain 40 years together---my wife and I are 44 years no --- I think the key is ability to compromise
Gosh, where to start? Amazing. Heroic. She has been completely supportive of me from the word go.
I told her very early on in our relationship, but I wasn't dressing fully or going out then. However when I decided that I did want to do that, she never blinked or asked me for reasons or for anything in return.
She's the best. ❤️
...and I forgot to mention she is beaitiful, brilliant, sexy and fun.
my wife is accepting, she used to be more supportive and participating but not as much now. She is a loving and caring lady and a people pleaser. My dressing has never been her thing nor excites her.
My wonderful and dynamic dancer wife has been a great ally and companion during my intersex journey. She will help me get ready for a presentation and constructively critique my appearance along with sharing her jewelry and makeup. She is a fierce advocate and has been my best friend for over 40 years. She is witty, smart, passionate, fun, spontaneous, generous, creative and kind. She is the type of person that people want to be around. I'm lucky that she married me. Marg
