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I normally have my weekly grocery shopping delivered by the store,but due to being away I decided to pick a few items up after I had been home first.
I occasionally shop as Faye but never in this very large store, so I was a little nervous. I had no need to be as on entering I passed the store security officer and received a welcoming smile and “ Good Evening “.
I was midway down one of the aisles when to my horror I caught sight of my ex office manager walking towards me. I continued my shopping but was inwardly telling myself to leave that aisle and return later, to late she was almost side by side with me,her wire basket against mine. I assumed she had been working late as she was in a smart skirt suit that I recognised as seeing her in once before.
” Why do they have such a short sell bye date ?” she suddenly said. I realised she was talking to me and I replied “ It is so annoying” hoping that my voice was not recognisable in any way as I walked on.
over the next few aisles we crossed paths, two women shopping and then at the self service checkouts but did not acknowledge each other.
walking to my car I could see her loading her shopping into hers, did she recognise me, did she recognise my car, the answer I am sure is no, but I wonder how many others here have found themselves in a similar situation.
Faye
I haven't experienced that yet... harrowing experience
About 20 yrs ago I was shopping in a big store in a mall. I was walking and I saw a woman pushing a baby carriage. I immediately recognized her as my friend's wife. She looked at me and continued walking. I was so scared that she had recognized me. Nothing ever happened of it. But I was so afraid.
Haven't had anything like that happen. I would have cut my shopping short and left at the first sight of her. Her asking about sell buy dates was really creepy and thought she was checking you out .
Wow how brave of you. I think unless someone has an idea you may be there in fem that they would have no idea it was you. They may say that is a cross dresser but I think our looks if we do a good job of being feminine covers our true identity in an open public area like that, so no one would recognize us. I have not been in that situation but I go to a group meeting in fem and non of the girls had seen me in drab before. They asked me to go to dinner but I was not ready in fem so I cleaned up and went to the restaurant. I chatted with a few of them and they realized I was Sara. But later a couple of them said that the other girls I did not talk with asked who I was and thought I may have been a friend of one of the ladies or a partner. LOL From that and other similar situations I know I look different enough unless someone knew I was gong to be there in fem they would have no idea it was me. Just stay calm and be your feminine self and I think you will be ok.
Sara
