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I find when I've been dressed for a very long duration of time I get very used to it and often feel sad to take off whatever it is I'm wearing. I wouldn't want to remain dressed forever literally though as I expect some of the things I wear (like corsets sometimes) would be very uncomfortable when I'm trying to sleep! But, yeah, it's nice to do it for long enough for it to feel normal, definitely.
@larissaevans oh, Larissa, I totally agree with the corset statement, but I still so do want to continue wearing all of it. But I know it’s probably not healthy to wear a corset for too long a period of time.
@jennconn I love corsets when I'm wearing something form-fitting, otherwise I don't bother wearing them, as yeah they are a bit restrictive! I never wear one too tightly, just enough to bring things in a bit 😊
@larissaevans to me wearing a corset is like getting a full body hug that never quits, and it makes such a huge difference in creating that hour glass figure that we all want.
Oh,yes. The longest I've been able to stay dressed was about 96 hours. Never went to 'man-drab', just changed clothes daily (or more often!) and nightly. And wore different dresses, slacks, jeans, tops, skirts, blouses, shoes, pajamas or nightgowns, etc. Changed makeup slightly. And did lots of normal household chores - washing, ironing, cleaning, cooking (for me only), dishes. etc.
And I loved it, and absolutely hated to give it up...but well, I had to. And haven't had the chance to repeat that long of time since.
@chloec Chloe, that sounds like so much fun. I’d love to be able to have a few days to try it.
It's my turn to chime in on this topic 🙂
I am very happy to say that I, like LizK, actually get to stay dressed forever! I have transitioned to living as the woman I always knew I was born as. I am intersex, an intersex female. I was, quite literally, "born both" and now I enjoy the rest of my life as the real me!
Hugs,
Ms. Lauren M
@reallylauren I’m happy you are living the life you were meant to have Lauren.
Yes Jen, it happens to me every time. When i travel , I'm dressed for days on end. It gets harder to go back to him, with every event. When younger i thought i was a male who became a female imposter. Not too long ago i realized that it ws the other way around.
My last day before coming home is the toughest, as i have to get my head and outlook in order, so that i can go back to him. I absolutely love being her, as it now feels so normal.
For me, it's complicated, and I don't understand at times, but accept. I "feel" feminine internally at all times, regardless of my appearance. But I have had two "breakdowns" when it was time to allow Michael back. The first was a surprise, as I didn't anticipate the emotions taking over. It was never that I didn't want Michael to come back, I just didn't want Michelle to leave. But at this time in my life, being Michelle full time isn't realistic. But I do like Michelle better and who knows in a few years. Thanks for asking this question Jennifer.
@michellewayne I’ve not met Michael, but either way, I think you are just perfect. Just remember that.
YES! I wear romantic lingerie to bed almost every night and I love it, I wish I could just stay in it forever!
I always hate going back into male mode. I look and feel so much better about my self when fully dressed. My wife and I make sure we have at least one day a week fully dressed as girl time for us. When I am not fully dressed I am always wearing woman’s jeans, panties and my bra (if I can hide my bra with a jacket) everywhere we go. I never want to lose touch with my feminine side and I know it makes me a better person.
I am such a lucky woman to have so much acceptance from my wife. Life is so good for me.
Thank you for this Jennifer, for it is topic that never gets old. One thing I am immensely grateful is while I am probably a whole makeup bag short of being perfect I am able to experience this on a regular basis.
Yes! There have been occasions when I have wished to stay in femme mode forever, but that remains a dream for now.
I've been getting that feeling more often lately, but mostly when I've given myself "the works". Sometimes, like tonight, I just took a few things on, no makeup, sometimes no wig, sometimes no heels. Although tonight I wore a pair for about an hour. Still having trouble balancing on them.
When it comes to weekends, though, very often a planned one day session spills over into the next day. Those are the hardest to end.
I see I'm not the only one who gets physically uncomfortable with some of the "equipment". Wigs and wig caps give me headaches, I can only stay in a pair of heels for so long, and sometimes.my bra gets annoying too. During the course of these multi-day sessions I'll change outfits and wigs and heels several times. That mitigates some of the discomfort.
All that said, I still have a hard time shutting down completely. In a way, these sessions never end. My toenails are still painted from last weekend.
Rayna
Such a wonderful topic Jennifer. I know exactly how you feel and I feel this way every time I get dressed.
I love wearing Fem wear, I would dress all the time when I can sometime you can't wear panties and a skirt
Erika
I do wish I could dress and explore that side of me more,but I do like to get back to Rich.Even though there is this female side in me I'm not sure if I could sustain it for hours.Yea male clothing can be a bit boring but it does fit my Rich personality well-lol.
I could dress 24/7
🎄🎄🎄 Hi Jennifer , Sure that would be wonderful to stay dressed for every , A nice dream ..
That would be nice ???
Huggs
Stephanie👠
