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Fantasy Job

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(@jillannquinn)
Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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Hello Ladies,

I recently came up with what can only be described as a silly fantasy job. But it feels so fun that I thought I'd share it with all of you and see if any of you can relate. But be warned, it's a silly cross dresser fantasy. So, it goes like this.

Having decided that seeking a therapist might do my good if only to reassure myself of who and what I am, I set any appointment with a very good local therapist. I see her once a week for three months and always dressed as Jill. At the end of my time with her, she is so impressed with my honesty, progress, and willingness to listen to her recommendations, that she offers me a job in her office. Now this isn't your normal clerical position, nor is it a typical handyman position. No, my job would be to help her with other cross dressers and transgender woman and men. And the pay would be more than double what I currently make along with some fantastic benefits.

The catch? Well, there are two of them. First off, I'd have to tell my family and close friends about my cross dressing, and second, I would have to dress as a woman every day for work except when dealing with a transgender male. That would be open for dressing either as a man or as Jill depending on the therapist's instructions. My job is to show them that there is nothing wrong with them for feeling the way they do (nearly all of us have lived with the shame at some point in our lives) and to show them that they too can live without shame and guilt and still lead productive lives. Of course I take the job, after all, I may make some dumb mistakes but I'm not that stupid!

The doctor is thrilled that I'm coming on board and gives me a $5000 signing bonus so I can go out and buy a whole new wardrobe right away! Imagine! New shoes, dresses, skirts, blouses, pantyhose, jewelry, and wigs! Getting manicures and pedicures to look my best, and matching purses to outfits. And I'd be great at the job because I'd love every minute of it. 

I'd end up spending as much time as Jill, and maybe more, than I do as Eric. The work would be rewarding and fulfilling. Oh, to have THAT job!

I hope you all enjoy this. Thanks for reading.

All hugs and no shame for all of us, Jill

 

 

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(@Anonymous 91116)
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@jillannquinn 

Dear Jill,

I feel, as much as this may be a "fantasy," it would be a very beneficial and positive role in the community to have. The same way, it much easier to speak to someone of a common background, having a crossdressers as a therapist/counselor is ideal. Not just in title, but in dressing too! The clients won't feel judged and more open to sharing/receiving (both feedback and makeup tips).

"My job is to show them that there is nothing wrong with them for feeling the way they do (nearly all of us have lived with the shame at some point in our lives) and to show them that they too can live without shame and guilt and still lead productive lives."

I feel this is a lovely paragraph which sells the idea. We may live in a brutal and heartless world which will probably always remain this way, but having this variation of therapy will change many things for the better. I hope this piece of "fiction" travels far and wide and plants a seed of idea to grow.

May this fantasy not remain one, but become a reality soon!

With all my appreciation and support,
The Bluest Belladonna

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@bluestbelladonna 

Thank you so much for your kind words. I too believe that such an assistant could be very helpful to both the therapist and to the patient. Such a person could lend credibility or credence to what the therapist tells them because they're living proof. 

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(@finallyfiona)
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    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
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@jillannquinn Now that is *some* job 🙂 Yes please ...

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@finallyfiona yes please, you and me both!

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Lady
(@denises924)
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Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
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@jillannquinn 

Hi Jill~
I love the topic and all the great responses.

My fantasy job would be TV Meteorologist. They are always so pretty with gorgeous hair and makeup and dress beautifully - always in pretty sheath dresses or nice skirts and blouses and of course heels or boots this time of year. They get to have their makeup done each morning which sounds lovely. I always wonder about how many dresses, outfits and shoes they must have since they dress up almost every day. Of course, in my fantasy job, I would also have the confidence to be on TV and actually know about weather, which is a bit of a stretch. In short, it is always nice to see well-dressed ladies and it would be wonderful to have a job that required it.

Thanks for listening to my silliness😊

Denise
❤️

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
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@denises924 Definitely this!   I'd love this or a traffic reporter!

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Lady
(@denises924)
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Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
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@lauren114 

Yes! Great call - either would be wonderful!!

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@denises924 Silliness? I’m over here mentally kicking myself for not thinking of meteorologist and your spot on reasoning. Thank you so very much for sharing your own beautiful fantasy!

Hugs, Jill

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
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Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
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@jillannquinn I have had my fantasy job for a little over a year now, as some of you know I have been working at Torrid 3 hours on Sundays.  Unfortunately last month I was let go because I couldn't give them anything more than Sundays.  BUT looking at my full-time job and my age I think this may be the year I retire. BUT financially I believe I will need a fair size income to make ends meet. SO I am thinking of going back to work at Target where I retired 6 years ago, but only if I can work there as Cassie. 

 

Cassie 

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@loneleycd that sounds great! I hope Target hires Cassie!

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(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
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It is a nice fantasy. Thanks for sharing it.

Gisela

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Lady
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(@jillannquinn)
Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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It was my pleasure, Gisela.

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(@Anonymous 91116)
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Along the same lines, myself and a few local girls, some of whom are members here on CDH, worked with a local therapist for an extended period time with the goal of expanding her knowledge about CDs so that she would have the expertise to counsel CDs and their spouses.

We would meet weekly with the therapist as a group, and a few of us brought along our SOs.  It was really a win-win situation, since, as CDs, we enjoyed the sisterly companionship of each other, and at the same time, the therapist gained valuable information about the world of crossdressing.  The information the therapist learned she put to use in her practice when counseling CDs and transgendered patients. 

Moreover, the privacy of the professional office suite allowed a few of the girls to come dressed who normally only dress in the privacy of their homes. 

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@catgurl that sounds so wonderfully amazing! I can see how it was a win-win for everyone involved. Thank you for taking the time to help her help others like us. I imagine that was very fun and satisfying.

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
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Jill -

What a lovely fantasy. It sounds like so much fun to be able to do that and be helpful to others at the same time.

I do some of my therapy sessions dressed and it is amazing how it makes me feel. My therapist compliments me on my outfit, addresses me as Suzanne and it makes it a bit easier to discuss my femininity. She has a private office so I am able to change when I get there and again before I leave. It would be fun to show up at her office dressed but that isn't going to happen any time soon. Maybe some day, only time will tell.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@cdsue I very happy you liked my fantasy job. And part of the fantasy is that I would get to help others like us. Where would I be now if I had gone to a therapist 20 years ago who had such an assistant? Probably living life with a greater balance between Jill and Eric and feeling more contentment and joy. So, to help someone else feel that way sooner, instead of when they hit their 50’s, 60’s, or later would be its own reward.

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
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Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
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@jillannquinn I've had that same thought many times - where would I be now if I had known/pursued my dressing years ago. Unfortunately we'll never know but can make the most of it now. It is great that you would like to help others figure out who they are sooner in life.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@cdsue Making the most of what we have whether it’s time, money, or occasions to dress is important and it’s what I believe we’re all trying to do. I’ve always wanted to be of service to others since I was little, and having my fantasy job would allow me to do just that.

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
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I am sure we all have that fantasy Jill and in my case there is an element of reality. As a child I had fantasies of being an Air Hostess.

When I was in my 50's I was really coming out and had plenty of support. Through that one of the friends had a shop and asked if I would consider helping her there. It wasn't a grand affair and it was to help me become confident in dealing with people. I took up the offer and that led to a permanent job when I retired. From there I have had various jobs and every one as Angela. 

As for the therapy side I received a call from an ex work colleague from my previous career. They were still in the job and asked if I could contact a Trans person who had approved the idea to help them and give advice. I did know of this person so it was more comfortable. The individual wasn't happy with the support at work so agreed to meet. It was an interesting experience for me and helped the individual through some serious issues and they are now happier and working towards the final steps of transition. It helped that I had a lot of information about legal and procedural matters along with my personal life experience.

Fantasies can become realities in some way - just believe.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@ab123 Thank you Angela, for sharing your story. It’s stories like yours that inspire me to keep pushing my boundaries even if the steps seem imperceptible at times. I’m sure the woman you helped is immeasurably grateful for all your help. It’s possible she wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for you. Maybe someday I can help someone in a similar manner.

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Duchess
(@reallylauren)
Noble Member     Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
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Hi Jill, some fantasies can become realities! I always dreamed of being able to live and work as a woman, and that became a reality for me two years ago.

I always knew I was supposed to be a girl, and came out as a trans gender woman where I work. I have always been very feminine so nobody was surprised, many said they already knew. So I transitioned and have been working at the front desk ever since, wearing all the items you mention along with perfume, full makeup, my hairdo, pedicures and manicures.

I actually got to live my dream and the fantasy became a reality!

Hugs,

Ms. Lauren M

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@reallylauren I am very happy for you! It’s greatly inspiring to know that some people really do get to live out their dreams!

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(@Anonymous 91116)
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Hi Jill,

Given the importance of the female models in the clothes catalogues from my girlhood, I would love love love to be a clothes model! I remember obsessively studying the pages, picking out the outfits I would wear and feeling the strangeness of finding the women attractive but more importantly, wanting to be them! X

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@charlottewendyrose Damn. I hadn’t thought of that job. I bet that would be very enjoyable for girls like us! Great call!

Hugs, Jill

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
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I'd love to be a model. I've done a few photoshoots (but only a couple as Anna) and the day is such fun, working with the photographer, the props, the outfits.

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
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Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@annaredhead The more I think of your idea, the more and more I like it. If I could do mine as a full time job and yours as a side hustle, that would be so amazing!

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
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@jillannquinn It would be just brilliant. Fingers crossed for us both.

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