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Hi Girls, I know it is different for everyone here, but I wonder what your ultimate feminine fantasy or dream might be? Mine would be to have my wife go from accepting to encouraging. she would give me clothes and makeup tips, go places with me while I am en femme, and engage in girl talk with me. Perhaps your ultimate feminine dream is different or even similar? I imagine there is a wide variety of hopes and desires in this regard. Hugs, Maureen
@maureen76 My dream is waking up with a profound sense of freedom, unburdened by social anxiety or self-consciousness. I could just be myself, move through the world without concern for others.
C💋
@carolinecd306 Yes---that would be nice---to be free to be yourself without fear
@maureen76 I used to like to dream of being entered in a contest for girls only, by my Mom who then takes her time to train me to be feminine in preparation for the contest. I would have to go girl full time before the contest for several weeks. The contest goes really well. After the contest I tell my Mom I want to stay a girl and she happily accepts me! “ and she lived happily ever after”!
@maureen76 I used to like to dream of being entered in a contest for girls only by my Mom, who then takes her time to train me to be feminine in preparation for the contest. I would have to go girl full time before the contest for several weeks. The contest goes really well. After the contest I tell my Mom I want to stay a girl and she happily accepts me! “ and she lived happily ever after”!
@geniv_cd That's a great fantasy---you must have gotten your start either by sneaking into mom's drawer or with active encouragement from her?
@maureen76 as well being accepted my fantasy is to wear a full vintage outfit (40s/50s) swing dress complete with suspenders and stockings and petticoat. Always think womens vintage fashions look very classy and feminine.
Lov you ideas, Lizzy I have to agree that would be perfect 💓( fantasy is to wear a full vintage outfit (40s/50s) swing dress complete with suspenders and stockings and petticoat. Always think womens vintage fashions look very classy and feminine. )💓
Could I join you Lizzy ???
Huggs
@lizzy89 I would love to join you as well I just love vintage dress even more Victorian from the way back that's my favorite great topic
My fantasies are numerous and I would not know in what order to list them:
my most abiding dream has always been to be a fulltime housewife.
(My late wife was keen but from an existential point-of-view, this was never possible).
During the years I worked regular hours, however, the weekends provided a part-time opportunity for me to assume this role - even if only in woefully short bursts.
I also dream of working en femme in a nail or beauty salon, giving women pedicures. Sadly, although I have done lots of self-study/online courses in mani/pedi, I simply am not good enough to be formally employed in this industry.
I have also for a long time wished to work as a housemaid for a busy professional woman since at least, my housekeeping skills are highly developed.
Unfortunately, my own very irregular work schedule makes it impossible for me to be available to a prospective employer on a regular enough basis.
Love,
Katherine
@katherineboesemann Yes Katherine---those are amazing dreams you have, and I share many of them---particularly the housewife to my wife fantasy---it is wonderful to serve my wife while dressed as her housewife
@katherineboesemann Yes, being a 50's housewife is one of my dreams as well. The fashions were so incredible and feminine----the nylons, garter belts, petticoats, lipstick. hairstyles---all incredible
@maureen76 growing up as the son of a 50’s housewife and discovering her wonderful clothes was my introduction to my femininity. The thrill has never gone away.
@maureen76 Here is one of my ultimate dreams/fantasies. I start seeing a therapist about my cross dressing and over the course of my visits, she sees that I'm very honest, kind, and able to follow her instructions very well. At the end of my time with her, she would make me an unusual job offer. She would want me to work with her as an assistant, helping her with other cross dressers and transgender women. But I'd have to be en femme myself everyday and the starting pay would be more then double what I currently make. I would accept of course, and she would advance me a substantial amount of money to pay for a full wardrobe of professional looking women's clothes, shoes, and all the wonderfully feminine accessories! I would be Jill everyday at work and dressed like a classy lady, and helping others like us, to realize that they're not bad and freakish for their feelings. Wouldn't that kind of person been a godsend to us many years ago?
Hugs,Jill
@jillannquinn Jill that is a wonderful and unusual fantasy---but the amazing things about it is that it is centered around helping other sisters come out and accept themselves. It shows what a concerned and caring woman you are---hugs Maureen
@maureen76 My dream is to with a girlfriend who doesn't mind my female side and possibly go further with me transitioning.
@maureen76 Hi Maureen, my fantasy would be to be the heroine in one of Amanda Hawkins' stories, having a little magic worked upon me with mesmerizing results! But I'll settle for feeling comfortable in an understanding environment where I can be myself any way I want to.
@maureen76 Hi Maureen,
I guess my ultimate fantasy would be to go away to a hotel for a weekend with another Crossdresser. We could share dressing and make up tips and go out on the Saturday evening wearing our most glamorous clothes, make up, wigs & shoes for a meal followed by a (hopefully) romantic evening/ night back in our hotel room. Maybe one day? ❤️🙏
@maureen76 My fantasy is to meet a woman who says she doesn't need a husband, what she needs is a good housewife. We start dating and after a while she asks if I would be her wife and suggests we move in together while we plan the wedding. After moving all my things, she looks at my wardrobe and says this will never do. She says we need to throw out all that disgusting clothing and get you some proper things. For the next entire week she takes me shopping for lingerie, skirts, dresses, cute casual clothes and party dresses. We get a makeup consultation and buy a ton of products to try. We also purchase several wigs and tons of shoes and purses. She takes me to look at jewelry and has my ears pierced and we buy lots of beautiful pieces including earrings of course. I'm concerned about the cost but she says she wants her wife to look stunning and it is her job to be the provider. We buy several 50's style house dresses, petticoats and cute aprons. She says these will be perfect for my household chores and I agree since I always admired the June Cleaver look. The best part of the week was the time spent trying on wedding dresses and I try on many different dresses before finding that perfect one.
The wedding is spectacular and I love being the center of attention and told what a lovely bride I make. After the honeymoon my queen tells me that she does not want to see any male clothing in my closet and if I choose to dress in a male style it must be outside the home and the clothes I wear must be from the women's department. In our home I am expected to make an effort to look my prettiest at all times and strive to be the perfect housewife. I happily agree to all her requests. She is a wonderful loving partner who appreciates all I do to make her happy like keeping a spotless house and making delicious meals for her. She shows her appreciation by surprising me with little unexpected gifts like jewelry, perfume and sexy lingerie.
And they lived happily ever after.
@michellemybell what a wonderful and romantic story---That is my dream and probably the dream of so many other girls here---to be a pretty 50's housewife to a loving mistress
@maureen76 Maureen, thank you for posting such an interesting topic. It made me think what i really want: do I want to dream about it, or do I want it to become a realiy. Where is my fear? To be caught wearing my partner's tongue? Not be accepted bby her after she catches me in the act? As a matter of fact, she almost caught me yesterday night. What an intense moment. So, here is my fantasy: I am wearing her tongue in the kicthen, and as I was preparing my coffee she notices the laces from the tongue. Then, she comes quietly behind me and embrace me saying: oh sweet heart, I have always known you have some femine desires.
Hi Maureen , my fantasy would be o have a night out dressed , starting with dinner then on to a show , would start by picking some nice sexy undies then a nice outfit and perfect make-up , it's a dream that may or not come true but never say never .
@sugden Hi Sarah---that is a very nice dream---simple and straight forward---Hugs Maureen
A simple one for me, Maureen. I live in a semi-detached house and my elderly next door neighbour died recently and the house is going through probate. The daughter who I know enough to chat with, and lives around the corner, is setting the house up for renting out, and will decide whether to sell it later.
Wouldn't it be nice if a like minded soul finished up living there?
Emma x
( lol, I think that counts as a fantasy ! )
Let's hope the fantasy becomes the reality because I've already thought of some distinctly less fantastic alternatives 😱
Allie x
@emmat Hi Emma--- that is a fantasy, I wouldn't have thought of---unique and personal ---Hugs Maureen
To be honest, the prospect of a new next door neighbour is always a bit of the unknown. My last neighbour was a lovely old fellow, the bottom line is I'd settle for anyone who's half reasonable ( as far as I'm concerned , that is ).
@emmat it is always important to have nice neighbors and get along with them---as the old saying goes---"they know where you live" ---Hugs Maureen
"ultimate feminine fantasy or dream might be?", censored 
@leslienix Now, now Leslie---we do have to abide by community standards ---LOL ---you naughty girl---Hugs Maureen
Similar indeed or a genie lamp to transform me into a big chested women lol that would be one heck of a dream for sure ☺️🤗
If we are going full out fantasy I would love to wake up to a pair of real breasts. But I do love your fantasy Maureen. Hearing the words….I saw this and thought of you so I bought it, why don’t you go try it on and then we will go out.
Another dream would to be able to afford to go to a conference either the Erie gala or Vegas. They sound like so much fun
@staciebobacie those are both great fantasies Stacie----I like the words one best. If you are getting breast did you also want the full transformation as well? Hugs Maureen
@maureen76 I’ve thought of that as I learn more about Stacie. I would love to try it and feel full woman but I wonder if I would truly like it and have regrets.
@staciebobacie I 'm aboard !, I wish I could be In one of these events of one week like the SCC in Georgia or anyone I saw here( Erie Gala, etc.)and the money to afford it!!
In that very same week, to have vacations and some training to have the excuse to go there, without my wife suspect, that's would be a dream come true, meet some of you in persona and going out for shopping, dinner and girls things!!!
One more on my list, there are more, many more, but I picked this one because it can be possible to happen.
My US VISA expires in 2026, so I can travel safe in the next 2 years.
Who knows if some day I could get an sponsor and travel safe ????
Hi Maureen, a fantasy of mine is I am actually the girl my mother wanted me to be and had a dream about it. I was in middle school and a classmate and I had a sleepover with at my place. She and I did our homework together, helped me with chores, made dinner for my mother when she came home late from work, had girlie talk as we brushed each other's hair, watched a movie and got carried away watching the kissing scenes. Mother discovered us on the couch asleep. She placed a blanket over us. Morning. My friend and I .....embarassed.....put our clothes on and made breakfast for us and mother. She came in with a big smile..........hugged and kissed us both ..............over breakfast we talked about .....last night.............how we like girls instead of boys ................then I woke up!!! I wish I was her girl. I think she knew there was a girl inside her little boy. karley
@delaware That is a sweet story Karley and a poignant fantasy ---Hugs Maureen
@maureen76 For the longest I tried to figure out who the classmate was in later dreams. She "showed and taught me things", said I was the sweet and pretty one, I would cry in her arms as she stroked my hair. After awhile, I realized that classmate is my SO. karley
I don't know if dream/fantasy are the right terms, mayb just goals, but two things come to mind. Both are very acheivable, and may some day happen. The first and easiest is to have a full transformatiin session and photo shoot. Logistics and cost are factirs, but mostly the questiin is do I want to spand the time and money to capture my 66 year old self on film. Fifteen or twenty years ago, (better even further back,) sure, but why bother at my age and looks?
The second is to have a special weekend with my wife. It would involve shopping en femme for special outfits starting with lingerie. We then both get professional make up, go out to dinner and then a play or comcert before returning to our hotel for a fun finnaly. While my wife is perfectly fine with my dressing, she prefers I keep it at home, so while she would likely do it if I ask, she would be marginally accomodating.
@jjandme Both of those are great fantasies and both doable JJ--- not only for you but also for me as well---although the second one would be a little more difficult in my case---but still doable given time---Hugs Maureen
@jjandme hey I'm 66 as well J J. My two recent makeovers were life-changing for me. Hopefully I look a bit younger in my pics. Just do it honey xx.
@chrisfp99 wow, I would have never guessed your age in your pics, you look so much younger, and very pretty as well. It gives me hope.
@jjandme thank you for the compliment. These people are professionals. It's not cheap but I'm planning on having one a year. One of the experiences of a lifetime xx.
@chrisfp99 yes Chrissie, from the pics of your makeovers it truly was one of the most amazing transformations I have seen here in my few months at CDH --- you do look younger and very, very pretty---Hugs Maureen
@maureen76 Thank you so much Maureen. Validation from the girls here is really very important to me xx.
@chrisfp99 No Problem---You deserve it ---- one of my heroines -- here---keep on being Chrissie!!
@maureen76 Maureen, I intend to, although as you'll know that comes with major challenges at the moment xx.
@chrisfp99 omg you're stunningly beautiful my fantasy would be to look as good as you, I think I'll have to consider a make over now
@krissykitty Krissy, you're very sweet. In my real life I can't really dress at all. The two makeovers I've had have been life-changing so thank you for the compliment. I'm very proud of my pics. I can highly recommend the experience.
Well, to spend a day as a bride, have wedding makeup done. wear a tiara and pose for photos was one of mine and I have done just that recently. I had some photos printed yesterday, whilst in the shop, a couple of people commented on how beautiful the bride looked.
I'm working on a couple more ideas for photoshoots, I love modelling and would love to be asked to pose for a couple of clothing brands who's products I buy.
Hugs,
Anna x
@annaredhead Wow, I will have to see those pics---that is great!!! To be a bride is the dream of many a girl --- it must have been wonderful---Hugs Maureen
@maureen76 It was amazing. I've posted one, will post more but didn't want to flood the gallery.
Hugs,
Anna x
I have two....to have an accepting and encouraging SO. I'm a closet girl and I find it incredibly difficult.
The second is to fly in to see my GG friend whom I "met" in this site. She is fantastic and I would really enjoy having her meet Darcy in person.
@darcy97 Hi Darcy----To have a genetic woman not only accept us but encourage us is a dream come true---Hugs Maureen
My dream would be that my family accepts me and that i would have the freedom to be me 24/7 without consequenses.
@christin73 Christina, That is a dream many of us here share---Hugs Maureen
Girls, you know me. Just an occasional opportunity to slip into a nice dress is a fantasy for me at the moment xx.
Mine is simple,one is to turn heads like mine did when I saw a beautiful woman, and to have someone call me ma’am
My dream is to wake up everyday as Lauren. I want to just be myself without any thought or hesitation, and feel free to go anywhere and do anything this way. I hate the fact that I am not full time and I need to think about and plan the time when I am my authentic self.
@lauren114 yes---to be ourselves without hesitation would apply to many of us here
Hi Maureen,
Great topic. Mine would be to move through this world as Jennifer all the live long day( and night of course!!). That, and having my family accept me as who I am.
Hugs,
Jennifer
@jenngirl76 my sister and me used to play dress up as very young children, how much fun to continue right upto now, and i agree with you...
