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I grew up with 4 older sisters. So when i was 11 I tried on a pair of their dirty panties in the laundry.. Age thirteen I was experiencing feelings ice never had before. I had my own computer so I searched dabout crossdresser and got Mrs and more intrigued. I began to explore more and even got more infatuated. I thought it was a fetish but I began to be more and more intrigued. I'm 27 and still dress when I'm alone sectectly I I feel the urge more and more. Love feedback. Would love to hear some feedback
Raquel why a person feels compelled to dress is anybodys guess . for sexual, fetish or comfort it really doesn't matter . For me it's emotional Feelings that overwhelmed me. Just to escape from the real world and step into a fantasy world becoming softer and senitive to experience a feminine persona . I sorry dear the urges only get stronger. I held holding back many years this feelings to me cause me all kinds of emotional turmoil. Always grumpy, not happy in life, just miserable and many more. Surpressing is dangerous to one's health . Many may say experiencing these feelings is just not right, but really what is right or really acceptable. So if you feel the urge to pursue and explore further do it if feels right. And always remember if you have close ties to someone think about them. Enjoying such a venture is so much satisfying sharing your journey together 🌹
Sounds similar to me in terms of the urges, the fetish aspects in the beginning, and now just normal day to day.
Yea I keep my dressing very discreet and only dress when I'm alone and I don't tell anybody about it. I was with my girlfriend for two years and she found a picture of me dressed and she left me.. And it just makes me feel stupid that that's how i lost my love of my love we were perfect for each other the sex was amazing everything was great life was great.. Now I've been single for a year and I'm still confused a bit as to my dressing. If i never would have dressed than i could still be with her. Just sucks. Thanks for listening
I'm sorry dear about your loss didn't realize. It happens all to often. But there a good side many have found friend who will understand and accept. It's a search I hope you discover. Don't blame the dressing and certainly don't blame yourself. If dressing makes you happy embace it not much in the real world will. Best to you 🌹
Thanks Stephanie
My brother used to sneak into my room and put on my petticoats and skirts that I wore western clogging and dancing in the 60's. My mom and I kept scolding him when we caught him dressing, but he just kept right on doing it. So my brother at 10 yrs old became my new sissy sister and wore dresses at home forever. I saw him several times in his room rubbing the front of his dress really fast, swinging his petticoats back and forth. And I found out later that he was getting himself off. I thot he was really weird, but I ask him once and he said he got the urge to do it and couldn't stop. He said it made him feel good inside. If that make since at all.
<p style="text-align: center;">It is a hard struggle because you are having a subjective moral battle with your self. Growing up amongst 4 other females probably didn't help (or maybe it did lol). So what if you enjoy the feeling of nylons on your skin or the lipstick slide across your lips and like to dress in clothes that are of a femine nature. There are women out there that don't care if guys crossdress and aren't into the perversion of that domineering feminization. Patience dude while you figure it out or force yourself to get out there with your war paint and stockings and interact with people (respectfully of course) and maybe you'll find that chick that appreciates your personal fun. I've been doing it on and off now for 30 years, I ain't care what they say and yes my good friends do know about me. Stop fighting your self, if you want to wear the Female Armour go do it because you're not hurting anyone and all those haters can GFTS. Peace.</p>
Its great that today we have the use of the internet to explore about cross dressing. In the 50's and 60's people didnt know what cding was, so they just categorized them as gay or weird people. I'm glad you found info on your exciting hobby. Have fun being who you are.
Thanks Terissa. Feedback was great and motivating even though its easier said the. Done! I'm resisting the urge to dress and My family members as well as friends is making it harder to be myself. I am very scared of the negative judgement along with the criticism. Your advice was very helpful and supportive and I appreciate it a lot! 🙂
Bob.belee. I totally understand and yes I agree it is weird.. That's why I feel weird its an urge I've had since I was a preteen and haven't been able to shake off. I've had numerous panties and girl clothes that I three away because I said I'm done this isn't right its weird. I'm a guy I shouldn't be dressing like a girl. The thought of it is wrong but so wrong when I do it and I feel girl . Its not like I chose to want to like crossdressing. Its just something I can't resist. I keep going back to shaving my legs and dressing up with my wig and skirt feeling girly.. Everyday I feel guilty afterwards.. I'm happy i found this site to be able to talk about my feelings because I haven't been able to talk to anybody my whole life about this feelings that even in still trying to understand. I'm attractive. Get pretty girls. And still dress up when I'm alone. Wearing my girlfriends clothes and make up and just feeling all girly I love it. Its like a guilty pleasure I can't seem to get rid of. I have so many mixed feelings. Its stupid that i have to hide something that makes me feel so good.. 🙁
It's hard enough having a straight relationship if it's full of secrets and it's best to be yourself with honesty going into a relationship and you'll be happier for it. It's advice I wish I had someone give me twenty years ago or maybe they did and I didn't listen. That would have been so me. lol
That about sums it up for me! Started preteen and just have he’d it return over and over again.
Got married, great now I had a wardrobe to play with. Divorced, ugh had to buy my own stuff. Get custody of my daughter I’m out. Gotta be a Dad. Oops wearing panties to work.
I have a better handle on who I am now, so I am trying to enjoy any moment I can be feminine and keep trying to take new exciting steps when I can.
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I started my brother when he was 5. He kept wearing my dresses, so I dressed him like me and we grew up as sisters.
You should have stayed single its more fun to dress everyday as a girl.