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To day I went out for my first time as Jessica. The only place I was going to go was to my therapist. However, my wife ask me to bring her lunch. I told her she would have to meet me outside because I was coming drrssed. In my stellettos, blouse, and makeup I headed out. I felt so good seeing my painted nail as I tapped to the music. I stopped at the fast food location and ordered us lunch. A little nervous I headed to pay then get our food. Nothing was said so I remained feeling happy and free. I arrived and my wife sat in vehicle with me and we had lunch. Since I was not sure a safe place I went back home until my appointment. When I arrived I went in and sat looking through a magazine while waiting, a couple of office people from another office seen me. I wonder what they thought but didn't look at them just kept to the magazine. My therapist came out and first did no know I was there until it dawned on her. We sat and talked about jessica and my feeling and how I will progress and needing support. She was glad to see I was talking to the girls here but wants to find me something local. I then went home and cooked supper. A beautiful day even though I cried due to the confusion that comes from society.
wonderful day indeed. And having several experiences all in one outing. Happy to hear of an amazing time and thank you for sharing this with us. 🌹
Thank you so much Jessica. That would be a great way to go out dressed for the first time and I hadn’t thought of it. It’s perfect! Now if I had the rest of the accessories needed to become the finished product! Never thought I’d talk about myself as an object, lol. Then I could dress and go to my counseling session as Danielle. Oh wouldn’t that be fun. Love ❤️ and hugs 🤗
Danielle💋👠
Hi Danielle, I don't have everything I want to wear. Right now I'm borrowing from my wife. But going to my therapist I thought was one of the safe places I could go. It was a little funny that she did not know I was there until she thought a second about who was sitting there. If your therapist makes you feel comfortable yes this is a great way to get out and see how you feel. I know I felt good being me driving and being able to be totally open.
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Jessica
Jessica,
🙁 This was a happy story until you said you cried. You really touched me. I’m so sorry you felt sad.
Did you get the license plate of the mean society people who did this to you? I will hunt them down, and make sure they never do that to you again. I can work up some serious momentum swinging my purse. Gonna put the Gucci on their mean old faces!
XOXOXOXO
Victoria
Hi Victoria,
I'm sorry I didn't explain my crying correctly. I cried this day because I felt so great but knew I could not be this way every day of my life. This feeling made me feel lost, alone, and scared. I discovered I love being Jessica for I feel so natural and free. However, do to society standards I am not allowed to be my self. Thank you for feeling sorry with me.
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Jessica
Jessica-
This sounds like a wonderful day. You were able to go out, buy lunch, eat it, and then go to the therapist all while showing the beauty of you. That's so cool.
Jessica thank you. Yes agree it was a happy to feel that type of freedom. Planning on getting out again this week and hopefully goes as good.
Congratulations on a job well done, not an easy task on what you took on today.
Lisa:)
Hi Jessica,
Congratulations and Wow! What an incredible first outing, thank you for sharing it with us. hugs, Michelle
... I cried this day because I felt so great but knew I could not be this way every day of my life. This feeling made me feel lost, alone, and scared. I discovered I love being Jessica for I feel so natural and free. However, do to society standards I am not allowed to be my self.
Thank you for clarifying. 🙂
Honey, I know this is really hard to believe, but society standards don’t have any legal authority over you. 99% of its power is created out of our own fears. I learned this myself very recently.
I walked thru a hotel lobby on the Las Vegas strip with no wig, no makeup, and no cares in a gorgeous black and white bodycon mermaid knee length dress, 3” heels, long acrylic lilac nails, and my bling riddled purse slung over my shoulder. I didn’t get arrested by the society police. I heard one guffaw that stopped as fast as it started. Otherwise everyone I encountered went out of their way to be nice. It was a little wierd how many people went out of their way to show they didn’t care, and be super nice to me.
Honey, YOU WENT OUT!!! That’s more than most people. You faced a big fear, and you went 300 on it. The more you do this, the easier it gets. I think you’re going to be pleasantly surprised that you will be doing this more often, and having more fun.
Victoria
I took the bike out today (Sunday morning) to the local eat n park (Family Restaurant) I had leggins on my first pair very nice indeed. I had black shoes open toe an straps, my nails painted red with glitter, mascara, and a mans polo top.... No one noticed.... I keep making little adventures like this....
Lisa that sounds like a beautiful day you had. I am so happy for you to had a ride in the park as yourself.
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Jessica
Victoria I love you for telling me all this. You bring tears of hope in my eyes. I can see why you say you the happiest girl in the world
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Jessica
Jess good job girl.
You know or you may find that I am bold in everything I do, including being a lady. I live in the Seattle area, but our civil rights are guaranteed. I go where ever I want dressed the way I want. I like using the men's restroom, I have my reasons, but my only fear is going into a bathroom and there may be young children present. I try to avoid them.
The other morning, about 3:00 am I drove to a 7-11 to get a snack. I had a fairly long shirt on, a bra, wig, make-up and panties. The shirt covered my panties when I was standing up walking. Some poor homeless drug addict was in front of the store and a policeman was tending to her. I just walked by like it was non of my concern. I sat in my car and proceeded to eat my snack. Next thing you know a flashlight is shining in my car right at my panties. Sitting down apparently pulled my long shirt up above my panties but at first I had no idea why he was bothering me.
He started off all wrong with me. I took the window down and he say, "Dude... where are your pants?" I about blew. I guess anyone can call anyone dude, but he is putting himself into an immediate confrontation talking to me like that.
- I told him the shirt was long, I was wearing it like a dress. I walked right by him doing that. It takes no genius to recognise that your dress or skirt will hike up when you sit in the car. I am a lady and I would have fixed my skirt sooner but I had hands full of greasy food and you can't see me unless you point a flashlight at my panties. Which is a violation of my privacy. He had absolutely no probable cause as my panties were covered when I was put of the car. I don't think that having exposed panties is indecent exposure anyway. I was getting really mad. That bully cop got away from me as fast as he could and continued bullying the homeless person .
Someone also stated it, you have rights. That's not to say some redneck or whatever might commit a crime against you. In can happen to any one anytime. I personally don't worry about it. I think of going out dressed as an adventure and cherish every chance I get which is usually over and over again every day.
