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I believe we all share certain milestones. We was born, first day of school, first kiss, coming out etc. Here is my first time in public see if anyone can relate.
I put on my bright red Supergirl boots and wig. I did one last check in the mirror to check my make up wig and costume. Everything checked out and it was time to go. My shaking hand was on the hotel door I was nervous I told myself to breath. I asked my self do you really want to do this? Your clothes is right over there you can change its not to late. I said not this is what I want but I yet to turn the door handle. Right now I'm safe on the other side is the big scary world a world of the unknown. I slowly turned the door handle and said out loud well in for a penny in for a pound. I then stepped out into the world and for the first time I was crossdressed in public as Supergirl, Brandie was born into the world. As I slowly walked down the hotels hall way trying to calm my nerves my worst fear happened. A man was in front of me in a dimly lit hallway he turned around when he heard the click clack of my heels. He looked dead at me then he smiled and said "I LOVE that costume you look great!!." With that one comment made me feel great like the weight of the world was lifted off me. I walked through a busy hotel lobby and got complements and pictures taken with me and of me. When I made it to the car I sat there and thought yea I can do this I got this.
@brandie Brandie, well done you, very well done. I really want to take those same steps and your story is helping so much.
They say it gets easier each time…so all the best for your future adventures out in public. We are so proud of you.
hugs
Christine
@christineth It really does I have been out several times since then. I now get request from local comic book stores. For me show up in costume for free comic book day.
@brandie That first time being all dressed up and readying for that moment to show off your femme self to the world, brings up all sorts of emotions. You build up the nerve and courage to open the door and leave the house get out of the car or whatever. That's the big and defining moment. This is where you retreat back in or shut the door and proceed. Those are very intense but wonderful and defining moments.
Congratulations, Brandie.
The first time is always magical. You have to follow the inner impulse before the nerves betray you. You feel the adrenaline flow and your heart beats stronger. Then you walk out and, suddenly, everything happens. You are happy.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Gisela
Well done Supergirl! You got this.
Alice
My first time was when someone left some lace up high heels at my house and I could finally have my high heel fetish up close and personal. Once I tied them up I needed to add to them to feel like a woman. My favourite as I got more used to is was wearing a thong in public and someone looking at me lol I only had myself to look at myself lol x
Oh yeah, I can relate. It’s the turning of the dreaded door handle. I was in a hotel and going to meet up with some other girls. I was most concerned about getting to the lobby where I was convinced that I could hang out unnoticed. So, I pulled the hotel door open, went out onto the hallway to the elevator and pushed the button to go down. I was hoping that no one from my floor would be getting on there either and luckily I was still alone. Then I had hoped that I could be alone in the elevator too. So the doors opened and lucky me again the elevator was empty. My last hope was to get to the lobby in the elevator all alone. But then it happened, the elevator stopped on a lower floor and a man got on. But the amazing thing happened next. Well, what happened was nothing, he didn’t care, so when the elevator stopped, off I went for a full day of adventurous firsts.
