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I went out en femme for the first time on Tuesday night to see my counselor. Wore large sweatshirt to get out of the house, applied makeup in the car put on my flats and strode confidently the two blocks downtown to her office. "Wow!" Is how I was received by her. Afterwards I went to get a soft drink at a fast food restaurant (drive through). I wasn't sure if any of my kids friends worked there. Not sure if I passed as I didn't practice my voice prior to ordering. The young lady chuckled a little when I took the drink from her. Oh well doesn't matter at this point. .... little steps!
What a nice experience! Thank you for sharing.
All right Hannah ! Yes I agree. Little steps lead to bigger ones. Way to go !
A wonderful experience, I imagine, Hannah. You are right, every journey is a collection of small steps taken in a common direction. I wish thee the best on your journey.
Mac
Well done, Hannah! It only takes one little step to begin a long journey. It sounds like you are on your way.
I desperatley want too experience going out dressed i am very close too doing it but i am terrified, i need someone too go out dressed with i long too do this for peace of mind and sanity. Im sick of doubting myself being femme
Happy for you Girl! Once you've started going out it will only get easier.
Marianne
I have always been my true self in my car or when no one is home. I feel like a coward for it and I am frightened to be the real me.
Yesterday was the first time I left the car to put fuel in. I was at a pay pump and wore a skirt, flats, tights with my makeup and hair done. My heart was racing and I just wanted to scream oit that I am a woman.
All I need is someone to hold my hand and guide me through this range of emotion.... little steps.
Thank you so much for your nice comment, i hope it does get easier. Xx Paula.
Hannah. How superb. I live in New Zealand and first went out in public in my early 20s in our Capital city, Wellington. I was desparately nervous but oh so excited. My first evening out I walked in a local park at Dusk. I was over the moon when an older man (probably about 50ish......my age now !!!) opened a gate for me and called me "Miss" and when a little boy nearly ran into me on his bike and his Mother told him to "Say you are sorry to the nice Lady " both were such a thrill. I avoided a group of young men (early 20s) who were drinking and being rather loud. I felt a little vulnerable which was actually a little thrilling in itself !!!
Heres to many more happy adventures for you.
Marie
How exciting Hannah! I am very happy for you and this will give you self confidence your next time. You have the looks and clothes to pull it off! Keep up your lovely smile and you will have no problem going out the next time☺
I registered at an extended stay hotel near an upscale mall in my area, dressed and went for a walk. I passed dozens of people and was extremely nervous. I made it. What a thrill!
Cissy
Awesome Hannah!Here is link to MY first time interacting as Cyn in public! https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/it-all-started-with-a-vanilla-milkshake/
Thanks Cyn for sharing! "It all started with a 'Mountain Dew'" for me!
Awesome!
i was out of town so i took a baby step
wore gap baby boot stretch jeans
red lacy bra and panties
discreet femme top
went to dinner
i m sure people saw my bra straps IF they looked closely
