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First time with bra and forms

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Lady
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(@jwhite)
Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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Yesterday, my wife picked out a bra and a forms for me online. The bra was from Torrid, but it wouldn't have been delivered for 10 days, so I bought it online and picked it up in person at the local store. This morning Amazon delivered the forms. I have them on for the first time, will be wearing them with stockings, and heals for the rest of the day at home. My wife was impressed! Without the support and encouragement here at CDH, I wouldn't be this far. Thanks a bunch!

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@jwhite Hi, Jamie, that's great that your wife is so supportive 😊

Enjoy!

Allie x

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@alexina I am surprised by her support. When we had our first discussion on my CDing she did not like the idea. We are taking it slowly.

xxx

Jamie

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
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Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
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@jwhite 

It’s great that she’s supportive, and as you’ve read from the replies, a lot of people would love to have that.

You’re also quite wise to take things slowly.

Forms are great aren’t they. 
I’ve got one pair of D cups, and I wouldn’t be without them now

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@lucyb112 Hi Lucy,

my wife and I have been traveling since Monday morning and I wore the bra and forms on Saturday. I can still feel both. Yes both are great! Can’t wait to get home to put them on again.

xxx

Jamie

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
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@jwhite So happy for you that everything is going so well and with tyhe support of your wife. Wonderful.

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@ab123 Hi Angela, the support of CDH has really made a difference.

Jamie

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@jwhite 

I'm glad that you've found encouragement here to be the woman you want to be. It's worth its weight in gold. Having that encouragement from your wife is priceless. Well done to both of you!

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@jacquelinelarkspur Thank you Jacqueline for encouragement and and support. Yes, I am excited with the support of my wife.

xxx

Jamie

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
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@jwhite Congratulations on you first bra and forms. I'm sure you know very well by now what a thrill it is to wear that.

When I bought my very own first bra, I was so excited. I made breastforms from old pantyhose. It was such an incredible thrill to wear a bra and have breasts while dressed like Daisy Duke. Such an intense, euphoric and incredible experience.

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@pattyphose Patty you are so right! Wearing the bra and forms was incredible and I’m looking for more new experiences.

xxx

Jamie

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
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Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
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@jwhite When I put on pantyhose, I immediately begin to feel nice. Then I slip on some heels. They are a special experience on their own, but they do seem to make the pantyhose experience even better, and the pantyhose makes the heels experience better. They are great individually, but together, they are incredible.

Then put on a bra. Mmmm. Pantyhose heels and and bra is so yummy. Then put breastforms in the bra. Like the pantyhose and heels, they make each other better.

Then slip on a pretty dress. The dress seems to pull everything together creating such a euphoric and pleasant feel of femmness. It's so enchanting and wonderful. You think it can't get any better until you put on a pretty hair wig. You are femme. You are a girl. You look at yourself, maybe in a mirror and you are overwhelmed at the pretty girl looking back at you. You feel like you're in a dream and fantasy.

You enjoy yourself for a while, then do some makeup. You are amazing. You are pretty. You are girly. You can't possibly feel any nicer or better, or feel more excitement and thrill. Maybe you can. Get your best look on, get your nerve up and go out in public.

As scary as I found that to be, I've experienced some of the most incredible and intense thrills when I had the nerve and courage to do it.

Hope you have many new, great and wonderful experiences.

 

 

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@pattyphose hi Patty,

Thanks for sharing your experiences. It’s very encouraging for my next step. Beyond my bra and forms, I’ve got stockings, camis, and panties that I’ve been underdressing. My first pantyhose just arrived and I’m looking forward to my first time with hose. I’ve also been making up, my last experience my wife complimented me on how nice I looked!

I really appreciate the CDH encouragement.

xxx

Jamie

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
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@jwhite That is so great Jamie. Stockings and pantyhose are wonderful, as are panties, and a matching bra and panty set worn together can really intensify the femme experience. And wearing everything together seems to make the experience even greater.

I started wearing stockings, pantyhose and heels at 4. By 5 I was wearing everything. Even back then, I got so much joy and pleasure from the femme experience. Hope you get the same.

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@pattyphose Patty, I’m sure I will with all the CDH encouragement.

xxx

Jamie

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
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Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
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@jwhite yes our site is very welcoming and helpful.  I have met many kind and generous sisters here. But, having a participating wife is 90% of the battle. You see by the numerous responses that many would love to have your situation.  Thank her and tell her how much you love her everyday!

I have 2 pair of forms, A/B, and D.  I think you will want 2 or 3 sizes depending on what you wear.  Also once comfortable with your new “ twins”, I would recommend trying adhesive  and going braless, especially at night. I think you will find this sensation the most close to having natural breasts.  Some forms have a reusable adhesive backs like Amolux Diamond.  ENJOY!!!

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@missylinda Hi Lorraine, thanks for the terrific suggestions. 

Jamie

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
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Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
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@jwhite your topic got the fog moving in on me.  Just ordered another pair , C this time.

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@missylinda Hi Lorraine. I'm glad to know I can help the economy!

Jamie

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@jwhite my wife just ordered for me a second set of forms, B-cups, and a pocket bra for them. They should arrive Wednesday assuming porch pirates don’t get to it first. I’m very happy that your wife is supportive of your cross dressing. It certainly makes things much easier.

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@jillannquinn Hi Jill, My wife just suggested that I’ve found the place (Torrid) to buy more bras and panties. I’ve also looked at their dresses, blouses, and slacks for possible purchases. I appreciate I can purchase online and pickup in drab later that day. We’ll need to continue to share as we look like we’re on the same path.

xxx

Jamie

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@jwhite I’ve been to Torrid with my wife a few times now, but I’ve never found anything to my liking. But I don’t mind looking! I buy most of my stuff from Bloom Chic. For panties I buy mostly Vanity Fair from either Khol’s or JC Penny’s. They’re very cute and girly and ssssoooo comfortable. What I really need is a good pair of jeans and three or four pairs of shoes.👟 👠.

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@jillannquinn Jill, sounds like fun. I need to go to Kohls for drab clothes as I’ve lost 15 and everything is getting to big.

xxx

Jamie

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Duchess
(@amydoll)
Estimable Member     Leicestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 12 months ago

Sounds like you have a very supportive wife 🙂 

What size forms did you go for? I remember it being a tough decision

Amy X

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@amydoll I am surprised by her support. When we had our first discussion on my CDing she did not like the idea. We are taking it slowly.

I got B, but they seem much larger. It's a very interesting feeling!

xxx

Jamie

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
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@jwhite  @amydoll

Amy's question was exactly the one I was gong to ask 🙂

I initially went for C cup, but then later invested in D cup forms as well.

At the time, it felt hugely daring.

Now I alternate between the cup sizes depending on the outfit. I just go with what feels right.

At first, the D cups seemed HUGE and I wondered whether they were a step too far 🙂

Then I sort of 'acclimatised' to them ... with some looks they now just look and feel totally proportionate and natural 🙂

We are a supportive site.

You have a supportive wife.

I hope that your bra proves similarly supportive.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
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Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
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@ellyd22 My initial purchase was E's. Though this was because my first option was this 'wearable forms' kinda thing. And I bought them based on my chest size - E's were what you got with a 42" chest since it was all one piece. The seemed huge in the box, but once I had them on my frame they only seemed large.

I subsequently bought pocket bras and got some D forms. These are my go to, but I also bought some Bs to go with some outfits where the Ds look...erm...egregious. lol

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
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Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
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@melodeescarlet I had the same thoughts with the size E's I bought. Fun but ludicrously big. Love the egregious thing though, I think I am going to rename them size egregious 🤣 🤣

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@sashabennett Sasha, I'm not pushing my CDing, so I doubt I'll move beyond B for a while. Egregrious should like an appropriate name.

Jamie

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@melodeescarlet Melodee, thanks for the advice for my next purchase, I may go bigger.

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@ellyd22 Hi Ellie, As I was purchasing the forms online I really wasn’t sure what size so I went conservative with B. When I opened the box, I said to myself — WOW if that’s B what would D look like. The B felt perfectly and fit perfectly into the bra. Thanks for the encouragement!

xxx

Jamie

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@ellyd22 Thank you, Ellie! After wearing them for about six hours, they did feel huge, especially when my arms bumped into them. As I don't have an outfit yet, yesterday I was wearing one of my long-sleeve polo shirts, which my wife said looked good.

My next step will be a dress or blouse/slacks combination. I need to consider appropriate attire for my age (72) and would appreciate suggestions. Torrid seems to have my larger size so that's where my wife and I agree shopping can happen. 

Many thanks for all of CDH's support!

xxx

Jamie 

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Lady
(@jillannquinn)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 627

@ellyd22 I’ve had my C-cups for nearly two years now and I love them! They look great with everything except one blouse. They look sort of cartoonish and silly in that one so that’s why my wife bought me a pair of B-cups. I can’t wait to try them out! My next purchase as far as forms go, will be a pair of D-cups. I already have at least five bras in that size so I might as well have the boobs to fill them. 

Hugs, Jill

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@jillannquinn Hi Jill,
I’m thinking ’ll stay with B.

Jamie

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Baroness Annual
(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Jamie,

Congratulations on getting your wife’s support! 
Isn’t it a wonderful feeling putting on a bra with forms for the first time, and seeing the transformation?!

Happy dressing!

Wink Lara

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@secretpassions Hi Lara, Yes the transformation was terrific!

xxx

Jamie

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@secretpassions Lara, yes, the transformation was amazing. As I said to @ellyd22 appropriate attire is my next goal!

xxx

Jamie 

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Good to know, Jamie.

I am really glad for you.It is a really nice feeling to wear breasts and bras.

As my bra band is 48 (some 46 works for me too) I was advised to buy D cups and I am satisfied.  The breastplate breasts size seem to be a little bigger than my D breast forms. And breastplates feel better when you move around, especially braless. Now I have found some tips to repair my breastplate but it would have to wait some time.

It is good to know that your wife support you. And CDH is a very special place. For sure.

Gisela

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@firefly Thank you for the kind words Gisela. 

Jamie

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
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Good for you, @jwhite ! Having a supportive SO is really so crucial to a positive experience and exploration of this journey! Given the path you've had with her so far, be sure to keep her informed - that line of communication is key! 🙂

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@melodeescarlet Agreed, we're communicating well, and my wife's suggestions are very much appreciated. 

Jamie

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
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Jamie -

How wonderful for you that your wife is supportive. That was nice of her to order you a bra and forms. Very happy that you like the way they look and feel.

My wife is supportive and helps me with my dressing. It took a long time to get to where we are, so be patient and let her drive the train. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@cdsue Suzanee, thanks for the advice on patience. 

Jamie

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Duchess Annual
(@blondsherri)
Honorable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
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Oh Jamie, the shock alone for me if my wife bought me a bra would make me pass out, but after I came too the thrill of her encouragement would send me over the top. You're a very lucky girl to have such a supportive wife, and I do remember the thrill of my first bra, putting it on looking in the mirror, realizing that it was mine and I could wear it when ever I wanted. It was a silver grey with matching panties, unfortunately it was to small and very uncomfortable to wear but it was my first and I loved it!

Sherri

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@blondsherri Sherri, my wife, helped me with the sizing so it was not uncomfortable, but she gave me the appropriate squeeze! I need to get matching panties -- next purchase likely.

xxx

Jamie

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
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Congratulations Jamie on your new figure 🙂  And that's wonderful that your wife is so supportive, especially since she was so doubtful at first.  Looking forward to hearing more as you progress - enjoy!

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@finallyfiona Hi Fiona, Thanks for your and CDH's support. This journey looks like will be a success.

Jamie

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Congratulations Jamie!

 

I have several bras I purchased from Torrid, and I am very pleased with them, especially my strapless bras I purchased from them.  Very glad to hear your wife is supportive, so is my spouse.

I was given my first bra, which was a training bra, at the age of eight, by one of my female cousins. She told me I was old enough to start wearing a bra on the days I was a girl. 

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@catgurl Hi Peggy,

I really appreciate all of the support and suggestions from the CDH girls. I’m thinking Torrid will be my go to for shopping.

xxx

Jamie

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Lady
(@lillie)
Reputable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
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Yes congratulations.  Remember my first and it was great.

 

Lynne

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@lillie Hi Lynne,

It’s been two days since I had my bra and forms on but it still feels like they are there! I’m traveling with my wife and will be underdressing when we get home. It’s likely I’ll get more bras.

Thanks for your and all of the girls in CDH support.

xxx

Jamie

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(@Anonymous 47410)
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Congrats on both your supportive wife and on your new forms.  I still get a thrill when I pull a dress on over my breast forms and looks down and see my own breasts on my chest.  

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@maggied Hi Maggie,

My wife and I have been traveling since Monday morning and I wore the bra and forms on Saturday. I can still feel both. Yes both are great! Can’t wait to get home to put them on again. I need to purchase my first dress, I’m taking my transformation slowly getting my wife’s approval at each step. I think my next purchase will be a long black slip.

I greatly appreciate all of the CDH ladies support.

xxx

Jamie

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
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Hey Jamie. Congratulations on your first bra and forms! I can hardly ever dress as my wife knows nothing of my feminine side (you're a lucky girl) , but I've got 10 days to myself in May and will be getting a few new outfits. My bra size is 42. I'm going to be getting my first breastforms and I'm going with a B cup like you, as I prefer a more modest look.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
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@chrisfp99 Chrissy, I hope you’ll share pics in May! I hope I’m able to be fully in girl clothes sometime this year! I love all of the support of the CDH girls!

xxx

Jamie

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
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Jamie, I'll probably post a pic or two but nothing too close up. I'm pretty inexperienced! But I also have a full professional makeover booked, my second, so I'll share some of that. Can't wait!

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Lady
(@jwhite)
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@chrisfp99 hi Christie,

I can hardly wait to see your pics in May!

xxx

Jamie

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