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Recently, as I said in my introduction, I came out to my SO about my dressing, and she has been supportive of it. While I've been navigating these new waters, some things have come to light. We went shopping, and while it was awkward at times, it wasn't bad, and I think we both enjoyed it. We have also had our first intimate encounter while I was dressed, and it was kind of unexpected. While I was admittedly nervous at first - it ended up being rather intense. We then kind of took me out in public, sort of dressed, but at night, and I stayed in the car while she ran into the store. It was just leggings and a T-shirt, but that was enough. I have come to realize, and confirm with her as well, that not only is she accepting and supportive - she's into it. We talked about this last night, and she told me right out that she was into it, and the conversation went other directions, like how she knows my sizes and can shop for me even when I'm not with her. So, this, over the period of a couple of weeks, went from an absolute secret to, basically we do whatever we want in our home - and a little bit out of the home. I am definitely still processing all of it, but this is a pretty exciting chapter in my life right now, that's for sure. I know I don't contribute much to these forums, but I don't have any advice to give in this area, and I'm not sure I have many insights into a lot of aspects of it. But I guess one never knows how their own experiences may benefit another, do we?
I know I don't contribute much to these forums
Jaymie, you can contribute as much or as little as you want to, many members get a lot from just being part of this community. Stories like yours definitely help to give a sense of belonging and, for some, a vicarious pleasure, especially those deep in the closet with little opportunity to dress.
It's been said before, because it's true, CDH changes lives 😊. It's great that you're seeing positive change in yours. Thanks for sharing this.
Allie x
Good morning Jaimie and thank you for your Post. You are one very fortunate girl and I hope you know it. You are in the top 1% of all your sisters here at CDH. What you and your wife have is something that most of the girls can only dream of.
My wife and I will be celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary this year. I told her about Trish before we were married, I just couldn’t bring a my secret into a marriage and I wanted to give her the chance to cut and run if that’s what she chose. I tried to do everything right. But even with this it took many years for her to become accepting of Trish. She still is not supportive but does allow me to go shopping with my girl friends every two weeks and attend several Trans functions throughout the year so I do count my blessings.
So my advice is to you is you have someone very special in your life. Treat her well and my best wishes to you both.
Trish ❤️
@jaymiesecrets hi my dear
This is an great story. Don't underestimate your lucky and importance of this wonderful post.
Many crossdressers here , myself included, only in dreams probably would have this connection as you have with your wife for us is the Jackpot Lottery winner ticket!!!
My advice would be treat like a Queen to your wife, se deserve it and you too.
Have fun with your relationship.
Kisses
Odeth
@jaymiesecrets Aw, that's great things are working out.
Posts like yours give some CDs hope, and others reaffirmation that we are not alone!
I guess one never knows how their own experiences may benefit another, do we?
This thread is a significant contribution to this site. It is good to learn of others experriences, especially about a topic fraught with such anxiety for most.
I am happy to hear your SO is so supportive, it is truly a wonderful thing. Take it slow and easy. You have a lifetime together to.explore this fun and fascinating world of dressing options. Most importantly, keep the dialog going. Your SO will come to understand you and your desires, as will you.
Glad to see that your dressing life has taken a turn for the better. Just go slow and don't try to force things, go at a pace your wife is comfortable with.
Such touching stories to read when an SO accepts that’s hard to find so congratulations on that so happy for ya that in a few weeks it blew up so fast just remember tho as I received this message with this saying just cause she giving you a in don’t take it a mile definitely go slow and what’s comfortable for her and alway remember don’t forget about her and put yourself first be accepting and respectful in both ways and you should have a wonderful time in this moment
Jaymie, That's so awesome she is supportive, participating and is into it! Plus will shop for you ! Talk about a hug win. you have found a unicorn. Keep us posted on how things progress.
