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I just got casually dressed up and went to a Wendy’s drive through. I was inspired by a meme I saw earlier and decided to go for it. The man at the window even called me “miss” when addressing me!!
Awesome Abbey! Good for you! Small steps, it all becomes easier once you put one foot in front of the other so to speak. I am happy for you!
Hi Abbey,Its Michelle.It gets easier every time you go out.Small trips,as going thru a drive thru or the post office or your cleaners to drop off a special garment.Pick a day when you have time and go grocery shopping.Thats always fun and soon you will realize that people are too busy to notice what goes on around them.Just smile,be courteous and be the lady that you are and if somebody does notice you a comedy come back,such as"Is my slip showing or is my lipstick faded" usually deflates the situation.Be cautious and be self aware and it will come in time. Enjoy your femininety,Michelle.
Hi Michelle! Thanks so much for your encouragement and advice! My adventure was very exciting and liberating. Grocery shopping sounds like a great next step with my growth. I love your use of comedy to deal with a situation.
Well done! The first few times are always the most challenfing and nervewracking. As said, it just keeps getting easier. Another fun and easy option is a shopping mall or center. It is fun to just browse and window shop and you can just look without interacting with anybody. Once you feel confident trying on and buying things means you have to interact with SAs, but that part is acrually quite fun when you are ready for it. In all my experiences the SAs are great and more than willing to help.
Thanks!! It was exciting and now I'm more confident to take it further. I love every suggestion you wonderful ladies have given me!!
Yes small steps Abbey and well done. More to come no doubt
That’s great Abbie, I can’t wait to hear about your next adventure!
Congrats Abbey, You will be amazed how comfortable and confident you will be wearing women's clothing in public a year from now enjoy the ride you are in for some very memorable times.
Good for you! Way back when, my first contact was via a fast food drive in. The next step is to stop and fill your car with gas or go to an ATM. Before you know it, the Mall or a Supermarket won't be so daunting. One thing I have found is that people are so into their own stuff that they hardly ever notice others. I remember one time walking in the mall that I felt anonymous. Nobody reacted to me. As a girl who just wants to blend in, this has helped me so much.
Way to go Abbey. Get ready, going out is now going to get very addictive. Enjoy.
That’s great Abbey.
My first time out was a drive thru Starbucks this time last year.
I was buzzing as I drove home.
I repeated the trip a couple of times, leaving the car and walking across the car park to dispose of the empty coffee cup in a waste bin.
By the third time I felt confident enough to go inside.
Congratulations on your adventure, Abbey!
I am sure that the person at the window has seen a lot more shocking things than a crossdresser.