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(@tiffanycd)
Trusted Member     Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Joined: 1 month ago

Hello girls, Im new here at CDH and loving reading through all the stories. 

I have recently came out to my wife and the last few weeks has been a whirlwind of honest long discussions and questions, personal sharings of my deepest secrets and desires. One of them was my love of wearing bras.

Having my wife see me the first time wearing  bra was a very big step, as a bra is one of the most feminine garments i believe.

So yesterday i wore one around home all day under my singlet and it was just so enjoyable. 

At lunch i was making a sandwich and she came up behind me and cheekily said, Tiffany your bra strap is showing honey, and tucked it away with a smile and kiss.

A little thing, but it meant so much to me

Tiffany xx

 

 

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Lady
(@alanmann)
Joined: 1 month ago

Trusted Member     Walkertown, North Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 34

@tiffanycd Hello Tiffany. Welcome. I am also a little new to the CDH community. But thanks to these lovely ladies I more comfortable wearing clothes out in public and a wig now. I now what I am now. I am a man who loves to crossdress. You are loving arms here and where here if you need us. 💋

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Posts: 255

@tiffanycd Hi Tiffany,  I know exactly what you mean , i feel so good wearing a bra underneath a sweater or similar , just catching a glimpse of my figure helps my transition to Samantha move quicker, amd yes just adjusting my strap helps that journey!! I'm still to venture out in daylight but slowly little things like feeling comfortable around the house demi en femme are such a help .All the best x

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 197

@tiffanycd Hi Tiffany, welcome to the club, glad to have another girl along for the ride.

It's the little things that make the world go round so I hope your day is filled with little things

Sasha 

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Lady
(@jerryn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Michigan, United States of America
Posts: 97

@tiffanycd were you wearing breast forms and if yes, what size were you wearing?

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Lady
(@tiffanycd)
Joined: 1 month ago

Trusted Member     Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Posts: 19

@jerryn Hi Jerri no but I wish i was, I dont have any breast forms yet.

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Lady
(@tiffanycd)
Joined: 1 month ago

Trusted Member     Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Posts: 19

@jerryn I have been looking at them, and the sizing appears to be in weight so Im not too sure what size to buy?

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 586

Tiffany, it seems a bit of a minefield. I'm going to be getting some forms for the first time next month for a very rare ten days en femme. I'll report back with my experience.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Lady
(@jerryn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Michigan, United States of America
Posts: 97

@tiffanycd you should be able to buy them from Amazon in bra cup size

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Lady
(@jerryn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Michigan, United States of America
Posts: 97

@tiffanycd you should be able to buy them in cup size. I like at least a D size cup.

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Lady
(@stephaniewyo)
Joined: 3 years ago

Honorable Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Posts: 448

@tiffanycd Hi Tiffany glad your here.  You are so right about the little things meaning a lot.  This morning I am wearing a new skirt with pantyhose, a little jewelry and a subtle shade of lipstick and my wife just said "stephanie is looking good and pretty this morning".  Always melts me when she says those things.  It is the little things that can make my day.

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Posts: 255

@stephaniewy that's so sweet

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Lady
(@stephaniewyo)
Joined: 3 years ago

Honorable Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Posts: 448

@samanthaxxxx TY Samantha,  I am very lucky in that my wife pretty much accepts me whoever I may be.  When she makes those comments it just makes my day.  So glad she can see through the macho male thing

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Posts: 255

@stephaniewy. I travelled thorough Wyoming many times during my greyhound days , many happy memories of Cheyenne !

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Lady
(@stephaniewyo)
Joined: 3 years ago

Honorable Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Posts: 448

@samanthaxxxx Glad to hear, lots of wide open spaces and a bit windy in Cheyenne.

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Lady
(@ria)
Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Lucky girl!

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Lady
(@carla66)
Estimable Member     Barcelona , Barcelona, Spain
Joined: 6 months ago

Very lucky girl. what envy!

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Duchess
(@emilysouthern)
Reputable Member     Fayetteville, Arkansas, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

Not such a little thing Tiffany.  Nice to hear & thanks for sharing that day and moment.

Take things slow, sounds like you have great communication going..

Emily

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Tiffany,

Bet that smile hasn’t left your lips.

Alice

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(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 6 years ago

The sum of the little things brings joy.

Gisela

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(@d44)
Noble Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Your wife sounds like a neat lady Tiffany! And I know what you mean about bras, I love wearing them. One of the most feminine feelings I get is when I put on my bra and forms. I've worn them many hundreds of times but it still feels special whenever I put them on.

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Posts: 255

@d44 Yes, totally agree !! X

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Lady
(@tiffanycd)
Joined: 1 month ago

Trusted Member     Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Posts: 19

@d44 Yes i love the constant feeling of a bra, its undeniable what they are. I would love to get some forms next. Any recommendations hun? x

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 2242

@tiffanycd I bought a bunch of different types and sizes, to experiment and find out what works and under which conditions. All of them are as inexpensive as I could find, on Wish, before considering buying more expensive ones, some day. These should last for a long time, though.

This has worked out splendidly because size matters, if you want to be stealthy. 😉

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 Leah
Baroness
(@leah63)
Joined: 6 years ago

Prominent Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 649

@tiffanycd   Tiffany,  check out the breast form options from TRueKare  I have bough 3 sets from them  very economical and good quality  also check Amazon.

 

https://truekare.com/

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(@caroline2k)
Honorable Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi @tiffanycd and welcome.

Congratulations on being able to share with your wife. It makes life a lot less stressful and much more fun - as you appear to be discovering 🙂

Little moments like you describe help draw you together over your dressing and keep it from becoming too 'serious'; I think it's quite easy to become a bit po-faced and obsessive about crossdressing (especially in the closet) and it's good to have someone to keep you 'grounded', as it were.

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(@delaware)
Honorable Member     los angeles, ca, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

hi Tiffany ....................Precious moment .................LUCKY GIRL !!!!     karley Smile  

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Tiffany -

What a wonderful experience for you. Hope you have many more days like that. Don't forget to get your wife some flowers.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

What a sweet encounter with a very accepting wife. Lucky you!

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(@finallyfiona)
Noble Member     Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Mmmmmm, that's a lovely moment 🙂  You're a lucky girl!  Thank you for sharing and welcome to CDH honey 😊

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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 Lacy
Duchess
(@rholtman96)
Estimable Member     Lincoln city, Oregon, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

 Wow, what a great topic, thanks for all the great ideas girls.         Lacy

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(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Tiffany, 

What an awesome moment! Thanks for sharing it with us.

Welcome to CDH,

Blow Kiss Lara

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Having an accepting wife is such a wonderful thing. I wish all here had such acceptance.

As for form size, there are many websites with a lot of info about sizing beyond weight. Rhe breast forn store and Glamoure boutiquehave great tutorials, and supergel internation has nice charts.

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