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March 24, 2017 9:19 pm

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When it comes to what others think about my love to dress as a woman, society just doesn't understand. This desire is natural and it is who we are, it's how we were made. It's not a sickness, it's actually a blessing as we combined the best from both the male and female world. I'm a cross dresser. I'm a man, I want to stay a man, but, if I could, i would live and dress as a woman full time.

Why is this desire natural? For me it goes back to 4th grade. Before I saw girly magazines, so I know it's hard wired in us. My fourth grade school teacher was young and would dress in short skirts and shinny vinyl pumps. I really like the way she looked. Every chance I got, I would look at her 3" block vinyl heels. I fell in love with her dressing and I could see myself wearing her pumps.

When I was 11, my mom purchased some black 3" heel boots and I was in love with the boots. My mom and sister would go shopping and asked if I wanted to go. I would always say no, i will stay home. Once they were out of sight, I would put on my mom's panty hose, the high heel boots and a black slip (very silky). I found a wig she had in the closet and added this. Then I explored her makeup and I was a girl. I loved this feeling. Every chance I got, I dressed as Charlene. At times I would switch from the boots to high heel pumps, but it was the same love. I love the silky feel against my body from the panty hose and the slip. I loved the feeling of slipping my stocking covered foot into heels. It was who I was. This was before I had any body hair so I thought I was a complete girl.

In a way, this is how Charlene started and I believe this is the way we were created. We received this strength of being a woman in the womb. It 's our destiny. I feel I'm more softer and feminine that other men. I'm a good listener, I do not get mad, I care about the little things. I love to touch as a way of communication and I loved to be touched. I'm feminine and I love it.

Charlene

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March 25, 2017 12:36 am

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Very well said Charlene, I agree with you completely. My wife didn't understand at first and sent me to a psychiatrist and she expected me to come home with a magic pill to take this "sickness" away.When I didn't she was even more upset so I took her to the doctor and she explained this to her. I t has taken a long time and a lot of talking but she understands now, doesn't always accept but understands me.

I also like the duality of seeing things from both sides of the fence, as a man's and woman's point of view. I have two daughters ad this came in very handy when they were growing up, especially the teenage years, boy that was fun. LOL I have been complimented many times by men and women on my openness and my ease of communication with people of all genders, ages and races as I did a lot of training before I retired and I dealt with all kinds of people.

So carry on Charlene at just being the best you' you can be.Take care Heather.