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Living as a woman even at work.

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(@confused11)
Estimable Member     HARRISONVILLE, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I came out at work and last week was my was first time being a woman 24/7. I no longer have to switch back and forth so I can go to work or any where I go unless I have been asked by my wife.

I find the more I'm out the more comfortable I feel. Now that I go to work being considered a woman even using the woman's restroom. Everyone is to use female pronouns addressing me. This has given me a strong sense of comfort no matter where I go.

I have moved rather quickly since I came out to my wife but guess that is how I have always been. But as I discovered how much I love being a woman I could not slow down. I have come to a point I have to slow down so I can be well informed and work with my wife's adjusting. It was good to her finaLfi understand I am transgender. She even asked me if she should treat me as a woman. I told her I would love that!

But I'm wanting breast and not sure how I will do this yet. I got to get more information. Still want to take hormones but sounds like that may be out for health reasons.

So I have to discover myself now finding out who Jessica is. I feel better about myself and want to take care of myself now.  Don't get me wrong. I still find battle in my mind. As long as I can think how much I enjoy myself as a woman I am winning the battle.

By the way work is going much better than I expected. I have found support with some of the truck drivers and the other girls at work fully support me. I do see shock and I can feel the tension with others but all is great at this time.

🤗😘

Jessica

 

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Hi Jessica, I am so pleased for you.  It is great to hear that people at work are supportive.  Having such a buffer of positivity will help to nullify the doubters.  Your caring nature is obvious, so if you let your wife know she is always a top priority and keep yourself and her fully informed I suspect you will tread softly forwards.

Best wishes for the future, Jasmine

 

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Jessica, I'm so excited for you!

You've had quite a journey getting here - and yet the journey is just beginning.

Enjoy it - and please keep sharing your inspirational progress and experiences!

I made a major milestone leap with my wife last night - and the odd thing is tgat she saw it as quite minor.

We talked in the most open way that we've ever talked about what she previously saw as a hobby, but now understands that it is an urge bordering on a need that has little badis in sexual excitement, and is actually a deep-rooted form of self-expression.

She said that if I wanted to go out dressed, then fine!

Now I really have to get to work on my makeup.

It's reading experiences like yours that is giving me the confidence to be myself, so thank you again.

Love

Laura

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(@marianne65)
Honorable Member     Uppsala, Uppland, Sweden
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi Jessica.

I am excited for you and wish the both of you a long life of happiness. I am out as a crossdresser and transgender at work and all seem to support me, yet I doesn't present as a woman even though I wear mostly female clothes. I think l could go all femme if l wanted to but skirts and dresses just aren't practical in my line of profession. I mostly go for an androgynous look in skinny stretch jeans over a padded panty, a waist chincher and a blouse or top with a women's sweater or cardigan over and started wearing studs in my ears about two months ago. Recently I've been exchanging the studs for small semi hoops. I have about A-cup breasts that give a noticeable bust line when boosted by the waist chincher. If it wasn't for my wife's absolute resistance I would start living full time as a woman.

Marianne Tornander

 

 

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(@confused11)
Estimable Member     HARRISONVILLE, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Marianne,

Sounds like your able to be free and happy. With work I in an office however we work with trucks. Therefore I've been doing jeans sweaters, makeup, and my boots. I'm still looking for the dress I think professional enough and pretty to wear. I currently have studs in my ears waiting the time limit on healing so I can wear my hanging diamonds or other pairs we have.

I'm still trying to figure out and find what will work to help me appear more female. I have a gel red with sparkles for finger nail polish.

I'm so glad for you and thank you for all you've said.

🤗😘

Jessica

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(@confused11)
Estimable Member     HARRISONVILLE, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Jessica, I’m so excited for you!

You’ve had quite a journey getting here – and yet the journey is just beginning.

Enjoy it – and please keep sharing your inspirational progress and experiences!

I made a major milestone leap with my wife last night – and the odd thing is tgat she saw it as quite minor.

We talked in the most open way that we’ve ever talked about what she previously saw as a hobby, but now understands that it is an urge bordering on a need that has little badis in sexual excitement, and is actually a deep-rooted form of self-expression.

She said that if I wanted to go out dressed, then fine!

Now I really have to get to work on my makeup.

It’s reading experiences like yours that is giving me the confidence to be myself, so thank you again.

Love

Laura

Hi Laura,

Your message is exciting. You mentioned the sexual excitement. I thought my dressing was based on sexual fantasy before I was out. After my wife dressed me and getting to feel free I found it doesn't have to do with sexual desires but it is who I am. I have discovered I now actually like myself and care about how I look. I also find freedom in being able to express my emotions which I would hid and just cause me more dislike of me. I truly find me being Jessica is so natural and seems to be the best change in my life.

These feelings is why it is so difficult for me to slow down and important to be open with my wife how being a woman truly makes me feel.

Thank you for your message and I hope the very best for you always and a long life with your wife.

🤗😘

Jessica

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(@confused11)
Estimable Member     HARRISONVILLE, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Jessica, I am so pleased for you. It is great to hear that people at work are supportive. Having such a buffer of positivity will help to nullify the doubters. Your caring nature is obvious, so if you let your wife know she is always a top priority and keep yourself and her fully informed I suspect you will tread softly forwards.

Best wishes for the future, Jasmine

Hi Jasmine,

Thank you for wonderful words of encouragement. I've really been hoping just as you have said will be true.

🤗😘

Jessica

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(@ambermaria)
Estimable Member     Avon, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Omg I think of doing the same thing to work and live my LIFE as a woman would be a dream come true even if I had to change my career .to wake up every day put on some gorgeous LINGERIE and a BEAUTIFUL dress and makeup yes that's the way I'd LOVE TO BE. ITS NOT JUST CROSSDRESSING ITS ALL ABOUT BEING HAPPY AND HONEST ABOUT HOW I AM

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(@fiona06)
Famed Member     Bolton, Lancashire, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi jessica. oh! that's lovely,I'm so happy for you. I would love to be in that position, i suppose most of us would. I wish you all the very best for the future jessica 🙂

Love Fiona xxx

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(@confused11)
Estimable Member     HARRISONVILLE, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Fiona, yes I believe I'm very fortunate my company does not discriminate and does not allow for such.

I do hope you all can find the same. It just isn't right we have to hid holding true feeling deep inside of us. Wish people everywhere would accept us.

Thank you

🤗😘

Jessica

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(@confused11)
Estimable Member     HARRISONVILLE, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Omg I think of doing the same thing to work and live my LIFE as a woman would be a dream come true even if I had to change my career .to wake up every day put on some gorgeous LINGERIE and a BEAUTIFUL dress and makeup yes that’s the way I’d LOVE TO BE. ITS NOT JUST CROSSDRESSING ITS ALL ABOUT BEING HAPPY AND HONEST ABOUT HOW I AM

Hi Ambermaria,

I found the investors voted for company to change. It has been about a month now and the company truly living up to their statement. I'm a lucky girl. I stay professional in my dress and make up. I was thrilled the other day having a truck driver tell me my transition has been good on me.  Then told me I looked nice. This felt so good.

🤗😘

Jessica

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(@ambermaria)
Estimable Member     Avon, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Omg how lucky can you get I know you must be SO proud and happy. So nice to be one of the girls to .I ALWAYS HAPPIER in life as anbermaria. When not Ambermaria I'm not a happy camper for sure.my wardrobe is FINALLY getting bigger which makes me feel more womanly then ANYTHING else. Mother ALWAYS told me girls never have enough clothes and LINGERIE. How right she is

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(@confused11)
Estimable Member     HARRISONVILLE, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Omg how lucky can you get I know you must be SO proud and happy. So nice to be one of the girls to .I ALWAYS HAPPIER in life as anbermaria. When not Ambermaria I’m not a happy camper for sure.my wardrobe is FINALLY getting bigger which makes me feel more womanly then ANYTHING else. Mother ALWAYS told me girls never have enough clothes and LINGERIE. How right she is

Ambermaria she was so right. I share with my wife and we have a full closet. However, there is always something I see I would love to have. You just never know how you feel and the clothes that will meet that feeling. The same is for jewelery and makeup.

It is very liberating to be myself as the woman I am.

🤗😘

Jessica

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(@phil)
Reputable Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Jessica-

Amazing! I am so happy for you. That's terrific. I work in a place where everyone has a uniform so there's no skirts or anything. I do wear pretty femme earrings and have put just a touch of make up on. Oh and of course a bra and panties, but those are all sort of hideable. If not well it's not the end of the world.

I bet you were really nervous the first week huh? I think I would be.

 

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(@brittney2016)
Prominent Member     Cincinnati, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello Jessica; Congrats on your transition at your work. I hope it has continued with great success.

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