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Life can include some regrets , some of which can stick in your mind.
Mine was a girl I went out with in my early twenties . She was a very sexy and pretty liberal individual.
The first chance I missed was one occasion when I was considering staying over and I jokingly said I couldn't because I didn't have any clean undies or a toothbrush with me. Quick as a flash she answered there was a new toothbrush I could have and she would loan me a pair of her knickers . I joked I didn't want the boring cotton ones to which she grinned and said wouldn't do that.
I wrote that off as a joke comment and conversation but it stuck in my mind particularly when a couple of weeks later one Saturday night we were getting ready to go out.
She couldn't decide what colour tights to wear including a "new" colour shed just taken out of the packet . She wanted me to try them on so she could see the colour . Being firmly in the closet and oh so macho I declined and immediately regretted it.
We split a while later and I have moved on but I have always wondered in the back of my mind "what if" .
Think we all have had a what if moment in our life at some time , as I get older I try to give things a go , not going to hurt anyone else .
Unless your refusal in these cases was the root of your breakup, it seems unlikely you missed out on your 'destiny'. It may have been a fun thing to explore, perhaps speeding up your self discovery, but such is life and the paths we choose.
Just as likely you'd have stayed in that relationship for the wrong reasons and while learning more in this regard, had some negative outcome in another way. (shrug) The grass is not always greener 😉
Hi Kay!
Some regrets & missed chances?
I would guess by the time we reach our senior years there are many. Some people call it reflection on our life.
The path not taken, the job offer turned down, the lost phone number given to you by that pretty girl you'll never see again, an opportunity to meet someone missed, etc.
Worse yet, we will never know, at least on this side of eternity, how these chances would have turned out?
For us, as CDs, the crossdressing always plays into our lives along the way. I shared the secret with a few GFs, prior to getting married. Some women are very much into it, some are not, and everything in between. We see the stories on CDH all the time.
One GF guessed correctly I was a CD, an intelligent girl, she easily read the hints I gave. The relationship was intense but did not last, and I was not the first CD she dated. She purchased some of my female clothing for me. I could not handle her controlling personality which led to the termination of our relationship.