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Hi All,
I would like to share my first walk for 20 minutes out in the open today evening.
I brought a few lovely set of bras and other stuff including a skirt and couple of tops.
i dressed all up today with my makeup powder lipstick and all other related items.
I decided to go for a walk. I was scared nervous excited and everything possible. But I decided that I must do it. It was broad daylight with people everywhere on the street. I wanted to make a statement to myself. If it wasn’t now it possibly could never happen.
I slowly walked out of the house. Looking everywhere if anyone is watching. My good I couldn’t spot anyone. Then slowly with my heart beating faster than normal I decided to take a couple of steps ahead. At that point I thought of returning back, but then I just kept walking ahead slowly and crossed the street where I stay. Still nervous and still thinking if anybody is watching. Taking my steps forward.
I kept walking and believing in my self. Slowly my confidence grew. My steps started getting bolder. I started making eye contact with people. I had to experience a few stares but they were not as ugly as I had thought of or I was prepared for.
I found out that most of them didn’t care even if they noticed.
Finally I decided to turn back home. This time I wasn’t really bothered if anyone was watching me. I felt very cool and calm. Once I reached home I shouted in joy. I was so happy that I did it.
While writing this I am still thinking about my experience still feeling and pinching myself to make myself realise that Yes, I have done it and I have returned home successful.
Good for you, Vincy. That first time is the hardest. But attitude and confidence are everything. If you have a good attitude, you gain confidence, and having confidence help you become less noticeable and blend in with everyone else.
Hi Vincy,
Congratulations on your first outing. I find most don’t notice or just smile. You’ll enjoy your next trip out even more.
Alice
Good for you Vincy. That's exactly the spirit and thinking that will let you try anything new that you want to. I'm so happy it was a great experience.
What a wonderful story, thank you for sharing. ❤️
My first outing out dress fully feminine was not including every Halloween since I was six years old LOL when I was about 15 I started whenever I was home alone and I had the family car I would get totally dressed up and drive around for hours it was such a rush for me to have a pair of 4 inch pumps on in my shiny pantyhose when I was stopped at a stoplight in the streetlights with China in the car and I could see him shining off my pantyhose electricity just ran through my body and pure joy
Thanks for sharing Vincy
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Hi Vincy,
Thank you so much for sharing - and for reminding me of the many times I have felt the need to shout for joy following a CD experience.
I am sure that like me, in time, instead of indifference, you will attract smiles and compliments from people.
Love Laura
Way to go Vincy,
Thats the hardest one out of the way, keep moving forward and enjoy being you.
Jump for joy each and everytime.
Vincy
Congratulations. It is a wonderful feeling to be out in full view. I have only been in the world en femme for less than a year. I find that each time I get more confident and less self conscious.
Hi Vincy nice meeting you and You GO GIRL that's fantastic I am very envious of you and all the girls who get that chance to venture out into our big world. And very proud of you for having the courage to take that big step and hope for plans for the next trip again congrats on your outing and let us know how #2turns out .
Stephanie Bass
Well done its such a daunting frightening thing to do for the first time. I was expecting to be struck down by lightening or a large hole would appear in the road and swallow me up. In fact nothing happened no nasty comments or sneers which was great for my confidence. Brianne xx
I'm terrified in trying it as well. The first time I tried getting out of my car and walking to my apartment, past a few people and surprisingly I wasn't that scared. No one insulted me or gave me nasty looks. I was definitely glad. Next time I get a makeover me and my brother are gonna try taking a walk together.
Will never forget my first time out in public, awesome each time after more confident
Ata girl Vincy. Next time should be easier!
Sandy
