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Hey, I thought that I would share my first time of when I went out fully dressed. I was 25 and living life. Didn't really do the boyfriend or girlfriend thing at the time. One night, I decided to hang out with my home girl. She played a major supportive role when I needed it the most.
She suggested that we go out for the night. Just to get out and enjoy the night. We managed to find a few bars and clubs. The one we normally went to was having a night for everyone, just think of one giant club of love. She suggested that I try crossdressing for the night. I was on the wall at first, mainly because I mostly did it for self, but with some convincing I agreed. I had the outfit part and what worked best for my body down pat, but when she was finished with the make up, I was honestly astonished.
I won't lie. The attention that I got that night, sorta there me through the loop. I don't know if it was because it was mostly by guys that had line openers such as Im straight.... But. Or how I got referred to as a woman for the whole night. Either or, threw me through a loop. I can't lie though. I did enjoy the experience. I enjoy my own emotions and how they make you feel. That was a very emotionally intense night
Yea sis the first time to a club like that is such a rush. No one being judgmental and feeling full acceptance is something so many girls here have never experienced. Sure you will remember that night for a long time. I adored the attention and became a regular at the tclub here loving the attention and acceptance
Thanks for sharing midnite. Always great to hear positive stories of acceptance and the joy it brings.
❤️B
Hi Midnight I am trying not to live in the past but your post brought back so many wonderful feelings i got when i got dressed up and went to a local gay bar. I loved the attention and everyone was so supportive and complimentary . I forgot i did look kinda cute back then, Sex drugs and rock and roll. It was a great time in my life. Thank you for the memories. Now back to reality Luv Stephanie
What a exciting night, thankyou for sharing... its amazing when one is treated with love and respect to how the attention is a warm emotional feelings that you received. Wonderful...🌷
Hi Midnite,
Sounds like you had an amazing adventure. Thanks for sharing.
Alice
The first time out in public is an experience that is filled with many different emotions. Those emotions range from being scared, to nervous or just plain excited. Many of us can remember in great detail the first time we went out out in public. I can personally say that with each time I went out my self confidence grew with my crossdressing. To this day I still get excited about going out.
I have yet to be out yet, but I am planning and hoping my first time is soon, so stories like this always make me happy to hear. Sounds like it was quite the experience and in a way that was truly wonderful. Hopefully all your future stories are like this and the same with everyone else.
Great story. My first time out socially was when I was 18 at a college Halloween Party. I was shocked and amazed at all the attention and compliments i got all evening. It was amazing. I loved it and couldn't wait to dress socially again.
Wow, that sounds like a truly amazing and exhilarating experience. You are so lucky you have experienced this at a relatively young age. You have your whole life ahead of you to experiment and choose the "you" you want to be.
I am 60 and still only dress at home. I am very open minded but most of my friends and family would or could not accept if they knew about my other side. I would love to go out dressed and made up to a crossdesser friendly bar to experience just a night out as a gurl. ........ maybe some day
I grew up in a different time, if you were caught crossdressing most likely you would get your butt kicked, even now the nearest cd bar is over an hour away. I will stick to dressing at home, I enjoy it and it is less stressful and safer. I will stick to Halloween to go out.
Clara,
I know what you mean, I’m 74 and only just really started crossdressing. I would love to be able to glam up and go somewhere accepting for a night out.
Maybe could encourage each to fulfill our dreams.
Hugs ❤️
Leslie
i would love to just dress up and look pretty and pass as a female and be my self. but yes i would get my butt kicked or called names. i would love to go out dressed up and go to a bar or restaurant, have lunch or dinner with some one that under stands the cross dressing world., but i will stick with staying home and dress up and on Halloween. i do dress up at home when no other adult child is not home and at work. wife will let me know that i can do what i liked to do .
I just published a post in the photo section of my first outing fully enfemme. I had to do so there because it of course included a photo of me dressed up for the big occasion.
The casinos I chose to walk around in certainly felt different from the last time I went, which obviously was well before March. Fewer people than I would expect to find on a Tuesday night (and nearly everybody wearing masks, of course), certain areas closed off and every other slot machine shut down were just the obvious things. I had a slight hiccup at my first stop when the temperature scanner I had to walk past coming off the elevator from the parking garage failed to pick up anything, even after security asked me to walk past it again, so they broke out the hand held scanner and pointed it at my forehead and that cleared me into the facility: I had no such issues at the second one.
Despite how nervous I was at the outset it felt good being able to walk around in public as a woman in clothing that is distinctly female (i.e. a dress, stockings and sling backs) and not have anyone so much as glance overtly in my direction save for Samantha (more on her in the photo post). I hope to repeat the experience again in the near future.
Christine
I first went out in public in 1980 I think. I struggled on and off with my dressing and have gone out numerous times in public. I still get a thrill each time I do. Life is short. Go for it.
