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She spent a couple hours online today buying me skirts, girl pants, and other accessories. I love her!!!
@kapt My dear
As many of us we would say, you got the Jackpot Lottery winner ticket!!!!
Many of us ,myself included, would die for see and get our wives help us in our crossdressing process., but the reality is different, some wives just says ,why do you like to do that?, are you gay or what?
I got married with a man, what are you?
Do you like the men?
That questions hurt my feelings, and because of that I have to hide it from everybody, except my daughter, and even her, she doesn't want to see me crossdressing when she is in home, she accept see me in photos only but at least is a beginning
So I recommend you treat your wife like a queen !!! She deserve it, it is your special person who loves you by who you are and sometimes put his own happiness aaside to see you happy!!
Kisses and hugs
Odeth
@lujan2099 you have no idea. Her health is bad. Very bad. I drive her all over the state to doctors and hospitals to try and get her better. It's working, slowly. I love her with all my heart. So yeah. I do everything I can to treat her like a Queen because she is my Queen <3
Sorry to hear about her health, I hope she could recover it shortly, I would do it all for my wife also , that's why I was so many years suppressing this side of me , because I love her so much and I don't want to hurt her in any way.
You are a great person with a great heart my dear, I hope one day she can be restored completely, you also deserve it to be with her.
Kisses and hugs
Odeth
@lujan2099 Unfortunately, some people, despite how close they are to you, are not going to be convinced by words. You will have to play the long game and let your behavior speak for itself. ❤️
Unfortunately this is true, and I hope to convince my wife that I am the man she got married 21 years ago ,the very same who made a promise to love her, respect her, take caring of her until dthe death separate us.
And I 'm doing my part with actions,hoping she realized I won't let her go never ever, she is my Queen, like my dear Rikki told us, and I will do all for my Queen!!
@lujan2099 But don't forget the flip side to that, girl - she must return that respect and reverence for her commitment to you. Otherwise the scales get out of balance and I don't feel many relationships can withstand that.
@melodeescarlet you're right my dear , it has to be something in both ways to make stable the relation among us.
And I see my wife until now, she is responding as I expect from our relation. With the exception of the crossdressing, this topic we haven't talked since we got married 21 years ago. We need to talk again about it but I have to create a warm atmosphere
Thank you for your accurated advices my dear.
Kisses
Odeth
Hi Rikki,
You have a winner! Enjoy the new purchases.
Alice
@aliceunderwire Thank you <3
We met in a bar. I was playing darts. She was on a date. She took her date home and came back to talk to me. The rest is history.... Or present? Something like that
@kapt Congrats my dear
We have 21 years of marriage with my wife, she is 7 years older than me, but that isn't a problem at all.
You have 30 years!!!!that mean you already had the Silver Wedding anniversary!!! As far I remember is when you get 25 years of marriage!!
Next step reach the Golden weddings!!!
Regards
Odeth
@kapt thank you my dear!!!!
I hope to reach the 50 years of marriage, but all will depends of the future, the aging, the sickness, my crossdressing, etc.
Kisses and hugs to you and take care of your wife.
Odeth
Rikki -
Congrats on 30 years, that is wonderful.
Hope you are able to resolve your wife's health issues.
She sounds like a wonderful woman who supports you in a very special way. You are very lucky to have her in your life.
XOXO
Suzanne
@kapt Sorry to hear about her condition, but I'm so glad you're getting that acceptance and support! 🙂
She is ice cool Rikki. Shows that love conquers all and so heartwarming to read the care you have for each other. I too wish her the recovery she deserves.
I'm one of the lucky ones. My wife occasionally buys me clothes, usually if she been working away, and she gets chance to go shopping. That said, we regularly go shopping and my wife picks items for me. I'm fully out as a crossdresser, and I spend a lot of time both at home and out in the wild as Cerys. Weirdly, she has never bought Cerys a birthday or christmas present. All my presents are male based.
Having a supportive wife/partner is amazing. I look back on the times when my wife wasn't at all supportive, and it reminds me just how lucky I am.
Be sure you let her know how amazing she is. Don't push things. Keep things nice and easy. Enjoy what you have, and feel very, very lucky.
Cerys
Thank you for all the kind words everyone. It makes feel all warm and fuzzy 
