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Nerves about coming out

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(@brandie)
Honorable Member     Lenoir, Tennessee, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

In 2019 my place had a slight house fire the part I lived in got the worst of it. The insurance took everything we had to clean and return including Brandie's stash. When they got returned they gave Brandie's clothes to the only woman of the house my mom. While we was sitting in the living room she mentioned she has some clothes she has never seen and was there anything you would like to tell me? I sat there stunned i started thinking how can I lie out of this. Then I thought just go ahead and admit to it now is your chance. Time to quit hiding time to stop sneaking. I took a deep breath and said to myself in for a penny in for a pound. My heart racing palms sweating Nerves on top of nerves. I finally said "Mom I am a crossdresser." With that short sentence the weigh of the world was lifted off my shoulders I instantly felt better. No more living a double life ,The movies makes it look easy its not, my mom finally spoke up. You feel better now? I have known for a long time and could tell something was bothering you. I waited for you to tell me but you never said anything. I started crying and im not a crier she hugged me and said come get your clothes.

Happy Mothers day to all the accepting mom out there.

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(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5197

@brandie 

Oh, Brandie ... I love this.

I know from experience just how hard it is to tell your Mum.

And YOUR Mum sounds just wonderful. I'll be smiling about your story all day.

Heart

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Lady
(@jack55)
Joined: 9 months ago

Active Member     frederick, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 7

Brandie: Sweet story. I only wish I had the courage to tell my wife the truth when she found out about my crossdressing. I lied and now years later the damage is still evident.

 

J

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Lady
(@candycross)
Joined: 9 months ago

Honorable Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 314

@brandie well brandie honesty is the best policy to those you lovemp, my wife in very accepting in what I do, as l sit here in my nighty posting this, my wife is sitting in the same room watching television. That was great your mother was so accepting,  she is a wise loving mother

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Lady
(@harriette)
Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Holy cow, Brandie! I didn't see that one coming.

What a relief, though.

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(@jamiec)
Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Joined: 9 months ago

Wonderful story, thanks for sharing @brandie. All the best to you and your mom 😊 

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Duchess
(@michellemybell)
Noble Member     Clearwater, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

A great heart warming Mothers day story.

Thanks for sharing.

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(@blondsherri)
Honorable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Brandie, I'm sorry for your fire but the outcome is beautiful, a special Happy Mothers Day to your mom, she's up there with the best of them!

Sherri

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Out of the fire came the Phoenix......What a lovely coming out story.

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(@reallylauren)
Noble Member     Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

Oh Brandie,

Girl, you made me cry and mess up my mascara!

hugs,

Ms. Lauren M

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Duchess
(@rholtman96)
Reputable Member     Lincoln city, Oregon, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

 Mothers seem to know all of our little secrets (and big ones to) but most mothers love us unconditionally. What a relief that must have been to get that secret off of your chest. 

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