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Not fooling anyone

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(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

I had to go into town today to pick a few things up. I parked the car in a multi storey car park, and crossed the busy road to the main shopping street.  I'm in Cerys mode. Boots, tights leather mini skirt, black jumper, and a long grey coat.... My confidence is high, as it has been for the past couple of days.... I'm about 500 yards up this street when I hear someone loudly say "you're not fooling anyone, mate".

My first thought was "f*** Him", then I thought what the heck. I know that I don't fool many people. I slightly turned to see who made this remark. it was a man on his phone.... He carried on his sentence "I know you're lying to me, you said this two weeks ago"...... His "you're not fooling anyone, mate" was not aimed at me ,but the chap he was speaking to on the phone 🙂 This brought a smile to my face. What made me happy was how I reacted to what I though was a direct negative comment. it just bounced off. Having been a bit lacking in confidence lately, I thought that a negative comment would send me spiralling downwards. It didn't! I think the old me is back!

Cerys

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5213

@dazzler 

Brilliant, Cerys!

You've just given me a much-needed chuckle.

Laugh Hard

Hugs

Ellie x

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(@heels234)
Joined: 9 years ago

Prominent Member     Mesa, Arizona, United States of America
Posts: 604

@dazzler Way to go Cerys,You go Girl.

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Duchess
(@jennconn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 760

@dazzler there’s an old Bobby Mcferrin song called “Don’t worry be Happy”.  I think you’ve done that Cerys, congratulations.

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(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1134

@dazzler 

'You're not fooling anyone, mate" 

 Dose not apply! Lol 😆 🥰 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4015

@dazzler That's awesome, Cerys.

Another example of us to not assume things. It could be something as simple as us assuming what people think when they see us. We don't know - for sure - what is going through their minds.

This happened to me yesterday, too. Did they see through how I was dressed? Beats me.

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2192

@dazzler 

In the midst of adversity it's easy to pick up the wrong end of the stick. 

Smile

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2157

@dazzler He probably didn't even notice you. When we are out and about we all tend to be a little paranoid. It is hard for us all to believe that eyes are on us and judging us. Cassie 

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(@janetw)
Joined: 4 years ago

Reputable Member     Caterham, Surrey, United Kingdom
Posts: 297

@dazzler Thank you for so much for a lovely story Cerys! In non Janet mode I have had experiences like that and it is a timely reminder not to let others control how you feel and for me also a fear remover.

 

Janet 

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Lady
(@jessicaskye231)
Joined: 11 months ago

Eminent Member     Michigan, United States of America
Posts: 15

@dazzler So awesome.  Way to go!!

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Great story Cerys. I'm so glad your confidence is back xx. 

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(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

WTG Cerys!

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Cerys -

Thanks for sharing, it's funny how we assume one thing then find out we were wrong.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Brilliant!

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

first most glad to hear it wasn’t directed to ya but as I was reading and in your spot at first i probably would have s**t myself lol 😂 lest ya keep ya head high and continue your adventure very lovely and indeed was a good laugh thanks for sharing with use

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