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For the last few months I have been spending most of my time en femme. But whilst dressed avoiding any callers at the door. Today I had dressed in skin tight black jeans and tight black jumper large breast forms high heels and lip stick. It was whilst dressed I noticed a delivery lady walking up my drive and decided to answer the door. So cool as cucumber I walked to the front door and opened it fully and took the parcel. The expression on the ladies face never altered. I hope she doesn't have nightmeres. My door opens on to a main road so may have been seen by passers by as well. I keep doing risky acts which feel normal and right at the time but I feel stupid for doing so the next day. My time in the closet may be coming to an end. I need to get the hang of applying makeup especially if I am to attend LFF in August. If there is any one of you ladies that fancy a coffee in drab in north Lincolnshire / Yorkshire area I would like to meet up.
Regards Jennifer Bell
Well done you for being brave enough to be yourself! I suspect delivery drivers have seen most everything so they don’t really take note of them. That being said, you absolutely have the right to do whatever and wear whatever you want in your own home. Enjoy being you more and more as your confidence grows!
After a few such steps toward being out, you will soon find yourself out and about with confidence. We all have our own rates of developing that confidence.
keep it up, soon you will start going out and won;t even think about how you are dressed. just like you do in drab. i always think of it like im undercover or a spy. regular people find us interesting and probably like to ask you questions like where you get your shoes or dress.
I think that Awesome , For the last few months I have been spending most of my time en femme. , Good for you Gurl.
Even better you answered the door today for a package delivery.
See how that make you feel Awesome, empowered, feminine , Amazing ,
Huggs
Stephanie👠
Good for you Jennifer, sometimes that one little step will lead to bigger steps. Congrats girl on taking that first step.
Allison
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Dear Jennifer,
You are a most remarkable woman and thank you for sharing your experience.
Allow me to raise the ante a smidgeon. I contribute a monthly $um to a wine seller. (Who knows, it may be loaded onto the truck from their 'wine cellar'-LOL). Nevertheless, this company requires that the shipment be received by an individual at least 21 years of age. Shipment will not be completed without the receiver providing an acceptable proof of Identification (usually a driver's license or passport). Personally, in order to gain entrance to various pubs and drinking establishments, I have forked over MY ID without trepidation but I have never been en femme when the wine shipment 'came-a-knocking'.
Jennifer, you have given me much to think about.
Sincerely and With Love,
Thea
PS....It's good to be armed and ready, now isn't it?
Well done Jennifer,
I wish i could dress more often, and i wish i could attend Leeds First Friday too, it would be nice to meet up with some of the girls and spend some time as Roz instead of a few fleeting moments,
Love Roz ❤️
Well done you! The outfit sounds nice; I bet you looked great!
Joanna 💕
One of the great things about dressing is getting to achieve all these funs "firsts". It is so empowering to challenge one's self. The feeling one gets after such things is just amazing, and an overall confidence booster in one's daily life, femme or homme.
It's those little mad moments which start the ball rolling and build the courage to step out of the door and it closes behind you without a worry, unless you forget your keys......
Congratulations Jennifer on stepping out of your comfort zone. ALikely as in the US, the package delivery drivers are measured to a strict schedule so is absorbed on the next delivery.
Alice
I know first times I was dressed in public was scary to me. I avoided any kind of crowd and so on.
I noticed that it didn't seem like much of a deal and the reaction seems more to be about being nice dressed (skirt and heels instead of the more common pj in public) than being cd.
I'm now out everywhere and very few even react to it.
/kelly