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Out as my true self to family and friends for the first time

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(@kimberc)
Trusted Member     Kentucky, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Still remember my first time out as my true self for the first time to family and friends 3 years ago.It was March of 2018 4 weeks after the divorce was final.Knew it was time and treated me good things.My male wardrobe was gone and things were looking great for me.This was on a Saturday and looked in the mirror saying a new chapter in my life as Kimber full at age 39.Had to get ready to meet up with my two older brothers that were ready to meet their sister for the first time.Grabbed my breast forms,bra and panties taking a shower and did get that done.After putting on the bras and panties including breast forms,picked out a red top with jeans and wedges.This was after I did my make up.Did my nails the night before,put in a pair of 2 inch hoop earrings in my ears and finally putting on a light brown long length wig.Grabbed my purse by the front door walking out locking the front door.Finally getting in my car driving off to meet my brothers at a restaurant for breakfast.The confidence was there and they were waiting for me when I got there.Looked at me and said hello Kimber for the first time.Sat down and asked me I was much happier telling them yes.They saw it too knowing their brother wasn't coming back and I was happy as a fulltime crossdresser.Two weeks after this,went to my friend Caroline's wedding I was invited to.Came to it wearing a dark navy dress with black heels,the same wig.My friend Caroline's reaction was OMG,I see you much happier now.Other friends seen the whole better me and have been treated like one of the girls to this day.It has been great ever since and my journey is looking great.

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(@paul73)
Reputable Member     Glendale, Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

That’s a very nice read and thank you for sharing

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(@kimberc)
Trusted Member     Kentucky, United States of America
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My oldest brother saved me from something too,he deals with people that attempted suicide and talked me out of this.Looked me right in the eye and told me I have a life ahead of me,knew he was right.

 

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(@danielle1982)
Estimable Member     Rochester, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

You have wonderful brothers. Thank you for sharing this story.

Xoxo, Dani

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(@qtestephy)
Noble Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Kimber I loved that story. The outfit sounded cute also. Sounds like you have it together. You go girl, Good for you

Luv Stephanie

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(@kimberc)
Trusted Member     Kentucky, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

[postquote quote=498762]
It was and learned from my female friends.

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Thank you for sharing remember about 10 years ago coming out to my family and friends.  Family really accepted myself as Donna. Think they like Donna as their Daughter more then as a Son. Just kidding there they like each.  Know my mother really wanted a daughter. She getting her wish at the end of year.

 

Hugs

Donna

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Kimber what a wonderful story you are so lucky to have supportive and caring family .. Congrats girl so happy and envious also have fun girlfriend ..

Stephanie

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Thanks for sharing Kimber it’s nice hearing good experiences like yours. Much love 💕💋 Katie

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(@kimberc)
Trusted Member     Kentucky, United States of America
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Plus my my brothers supported me even more 2 years ago.Decided to have the trachea shave and breast augmentation done at age 40 which I am happy with the results to this day.Helped me through my recovery.Plan later this year are to change my name and gender on my driver's license finally

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