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Overwhelmed by the pink fogg

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(@robertaf)
Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Been home with my SO for the last 4 months. She had a kidney stone that was impervious to being shattered then became stuck and had to be extracted surgically. Then a horrible UTI put us in the Hospital for 5 days over Thanksgiving as Sepsis set in. All is better now and she is getting back her strength.

Had to cancel a couple of trips to stay and look after her. Dressing has been almost impossible. Had a little time on the water last weekend. That was great but not nearly enough for some reason.

I had an eye doctor appointment this morning and an appointment to get my brows cleaned up a bit at ULTA. I just couldn't help myself. I pulled on a a Bralette and my Hip Pads along with a pair of Gloria Vanderbilt Slim jeans. Pulled on an LSU long sleeve t-shirt and a sweat shirt over that and ran all of my errands. Even stopped at Belk and picked up 4 more pairs of GV jeans for myself. I couldn't resist them at $25. a pair. 

Has anyone had to deal with an irresistible force compelling them to dress. 

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1829

@robertaf I am glad to hear she is on the mend.

The urge to dress....yes and I do stealth dress most days, even if just knickers

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Lady
(@danirost)
Joined: 3 years ago

Estimable Member     Central, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 177

@robertaf Just every day. No big deal! 🤣

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(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2157

@robertaf That is why I am where I am. In March of 2019 I had the OVERWHELMING desire to dress. A few months later I got caught wearing my Ex's old bra.. Now I am presenting as Cassie full time.

Cassie 

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Duchess
(@jennconn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 763

@robertaf yes of course Roberta, I have that desire every day, but I just have to put it on hold sometimes.  I’m sorry you had to go through all the health issues with your wife, but I’m glad it turned out OK.

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Lady
(@lanam)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 36

@robertaf I feel out of sorts and uncomfortable if I'm not at least wearing some lingerie everyday.  I hate having to wear my man clothes all day (I'm grumpy and distracted all day thinking about getting out of them!) and can only look forward to when I can change into something far more comfortable. Yes, I get the fog, maybe more often now that I've opened the door with chatting with you all on CDH.  You are not alone in your desires and feelings. Having Lana come out and play is far more exciting, fulfilling, and natural to me anymore.

Sorry to hear about your SO.  I have had kidney stones and they are no fun and enormously painful.  Hang in there and let us know how you are doing! Heart Balloon  

  

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(@isabella22)
Joined: 6 years ago

Reputable Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 186

@robertaf glad to hear everyone is getting better. The urge to dress is always there and it is most satisfying when it can be met. Otherwise, I underdress most of the time, panties, bralette and tank top as undershirt.

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Lady
(@kimdl94)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Blearmill, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 175

@robertaf I have few obstacles, since I live alone and am out to my neighbors.  I do recall, however, a time when I had to limit myself do to something less than enthusiastic support from my wife.

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@robertaf I know these feelings all to well Roberta. The more I can’t the more I want to. And yes underdressing helps but still need the full femme feelings.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@robertaf Happy to hear that your wife is feeling better.  Kidney stones are an awful situation.

I'm feeling the force as I write this...  I'm in lounge wear right now but today's plan is leggings and a bulky sweater with a pair of riding boots.   It's cold today!

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Duchess
(@elguapo)
Joined: 9 years ago

Reputable Member     The Villages, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 314

@robertaf Roberta - first hope your wife is on the mend and fully recovers quickly.

I greatly admire you for many reasons, just one is 'Roberta the world traveler'. So sad you have had to cancel trips.

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1728

@robertaf Roberta, I'm so sorry to hear of your wife's health issues. I'm glad to hear she's on the road to recovery. Nice that you've found at least a little femme time.

What a ridiculous question 😂. Is there anybody on this forum who hasn't experienced an irresistible force compelling them to dress? xx. 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4016

@robertaf Thankfully, your wife is on the mend. I haven't had kidney stones, but I had quite a few gall stones. I had no idea what hit me.

Because of the way I dress every day, I rarely get pink fog. When I am abroad, I only wear fashions made for women that aren't all that obvious that they are feminine. When at home, I can get to dress more femininely, if I  wish.

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(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Sorry to hear about your SO Roberta.  I once had a large kidney stone that luckily passed so I have an idea how painful it must have been. Such an awful period for her, and you as well. I'm glad to hear that things are on the upswing. 

I wish you both a Happy and Healthy New Year.

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

First, I am happy tto hear your wife is well and good onya for helping her through it all. It is a real challenge.

I never has a burning desiree to dress, but just enjoy dressing when I do. My wife is fully aware, so there really is no time I can't dress if I wanted to. I also dress to various levels when ever I wish, maybe just underdressed with forms, or a pair of yoga pants. I also wear subtle nail polish or lipstick often and that keeps my needs satisfied as well.

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Roberta -

Sorry to hear bout your wife's health issue, it's never easy. Glad to hear that she is on the mend and everything is resolved.

I can relate to your dilemma. It is not easy, especially in stressful situations, not being able to dress. Hopefully you'll have an opportunity soon. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@michellemybell)
Noble Member     Clearwater, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Glad to hear that your wife is doing better.  That had to be a tough four months for both of you.  

I am the caregiver for my wife so I don’t get much alone time to dress so I find myself in a constant state of pink fog.

 

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1728

@michellemybell Michelle, I've read your story before and I really feel for you honey xx.

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Duchess
(@michellemybell)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Clearwater, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 624

@chrisfp99 I feel for you as well.  I think though that we are

playing the cards we were dealt the best we can.

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1728

@michellemybell Thank you Michelle. I think you are right. I have a lot to be grateful for xx.

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(@carolcorbett)
Reputable Member     WNY, New York, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Yes yes all the time 

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