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Such an amazing day. so many firsts. Started yesterday as I was very stressed. My wife asked me what we can do. I said Ill be a girl all day tomorrow and see what that does. She just said Ahh Ok. So this morning after breakfast I got all cleaned up and ready. my wife helped me with my eyelashes and she went shopping. Never had them so perfect and never so early. I poked around for a while. soldered my earrings and had lunch then continued my makeup. I really took my time. Was just finishing up as she came home. And proceeded to dress. My wife was around but acted like it was just another day. After a pile of pictures and tweaking my face. it was near supper time and I had everything in a really good place. went to the kitchen and cooked . wife was popping in like usual but asking friendly questions about my dress and hair. It was a typical evening except with River . first time I cooked and had supper in fuĺl dress. also first time having dinner with my wife as River. after dinner and some more wardrobe changes we all took the dogs for a walk in the woods. yup another first. I just put on some sneakers instead of my heels. once we got home I changed again into a silky night outfit and we sat and reviewed the 100s of pictures together. laughing and shuttering at the bad ones uggh. lol. She just went to bed and im right behind. Ill never forget this day im blessed. Thank you girls and CDH as I don't think I would have ever got this far without all the support and advise. Have a great evening everyone. 
RC
An amazing day indeed, River! This is a great read to start the day with.
Thanks for sharing with us.
Allie x
@river Congratulations, it's great that you are getting the opportunity. Let's hope this is just the first of many to come.
Sasha
@sashabennett Thank You ya at this point I'm pretty confident that it will continue in any way that I let it. she is all good. Have a great day. RC
@ellyd22 Oh your so welcome and thank you for contributing to a place where we can all be free and learn from each other.. such an amazing place. have a wonderful day. RC
@river River, well done to you and your wife. Sounds like a great day you had. Going out en femme must have been exciting. Tell us more about it. Did you meet anyone? You did not mention how being River for a day helped with the stress, but I’m guessing it was beneficial. Again, well done you and kudos (is that the right word?) to your wife. Hugs Christine
@christineth we have quite alot of property and our own trails so no we were completely alone out there. which is fine as I got so warm I had to take off my shirt. so I was walking with just a Bra and my breastplate and spanks lol. not much more to tell there. just a lovely walk with the family. as for the stress. Yes I have been interviewing for a new job and my main issue is my nerves. and stress the next day I had the largest most difficult round of interviews and my nerves were fine for the first time. I dont know If i got the job , or if I want it now as somethings I learned about the company are not that thrilling to me. but Having River there still with me from the day before really made the difference. Thank You. Cheers RC
@river River, that’s the healthy way to look at interviews…they are a two way thing and the interviewee is also assessing if they want to work there - I find this attitude makes a world of difference when I am being interviewed and it makes me confident and it usually results in being offered the job…which I have often refused! Good luck with your interview and I that you make a decision that really suits you. Glad to hear that the nerves are at bay by bringing in River!
Hugs Christine
@christineth And coming here in between interviews to keep me distracted was also key. !! Thank You !! RC
@river I am so happy for you my dear!!
Many of us we would like to have at least a glimpse of what you have lived!!!
@lujan2099 Thank You !! My wish is for everyone to have at the very least this level of freedom and support at home. Have a great day RC
@lyndajones Thank You ! I realize I am truly fortunate to have such a supportive SO. I wish at the very least the same for everyone. Have a great day RC
indeed congratulations sounds like a wonderful day hopefully stress free truly amazing the SO was involved what a plus so happy that everything worked out and hopefully you have many more did the day as River take care of that stress ?
@erinb Thank You. yes there was no stress at all yesterday and today im starting with a clean slate. cant ask for more.. have a great day RC
Brilliant, River, I'm really happy for you!
x
River -
Very happy for you having such a wonderful day and having such an understanding wife. There are times my wife i will invite Suzanne to spend the day. Those are special days when she does that.
Hope you get to have more days like that.
XOXO
Suzanne
@cdsue Thank You... If she ever asks to see River that will be the icing on the cake !! 🤞🤞🤞 Have a great day RC
I hope I don’t sound selfish here River, but are we going to see some pics from part 2 of your adventures girl?🥰
@gracepal Thank you Ya eventually I need to filter them and upload. stay tuned. will be a day or so. have a great day. RC
Congratulations RC! Sounds like a fabulous day. Perhaps, another will come soon.
Alice
@aliceunderwire Thank you.. definitely will be sooner than later been talking freely about it all day. Its all new and wonderful.. Cheers RC
Happy for you having such a greay day and such an understanding wife.
Looking forward to seein more photos.
Hugs,🤗🤗
Betty Rose
@bettyrose Thank You.. Will upload a few into my private photos soon. have a great day !! RC
What a nice “love story” so glad for you that you have your wife’s acceptance. My wife is still processing my CD revelation… hoping for her acceptance.
thanks again for sharing your day of “so many firsts”
xo Leonara 🌹
Sounds like a great day! I’m really pleased for you.
Nothing like a bit of girl-time for taking the stress away.
@joannat And it worked . Had an important job interview the next day and my problem with interviewing has been nerves. I don't know if I got or want the job at this point but I was calm and collected. Thank You. Cheers RC
sounds like an amazing day of dressing with support and encouragement Hope there will be more
@leah63 Im pretty confident there will be more. I was telling my wife how sore my legs were from wearing heels all day. different muscles. she said then you should wear them more often 🙂 Now thats what I wanted to hear!! . Thank You Have a great day
@river I hear you three on wearing 4" heels for a long period of time, Way different than my cowboy boots I normally wear! I will take the heels anyday!
@leah63 I got birth defects in both my ankles and have struggled with it all my life. not much any doctor could help with. always searching for a solution to the pain. I only started wearing high heels a few years ago and for some reason they help more than anything I have found in over 45 years since the issue was diagnosed and many doctors and lots of pain medication. I expect its the angle they cradle my ankles reduces the weight on them and puts it more on my toes. so I dont just love wearing heels I actually need to. 
Cheers RC
What a truly wonderful day, may you have a lifetime of opportunity's to do this over and over again.
Lacy
@rholtman96 Thank You !! It was epic for me. were so open now and our relationship has improved significantly. the truth has set me free.. Cheers RC
It's amazing how the truth can set you free, of course not always the way you want it to. Like Mick Jagger say's (You don't always get what you want, but you get what you need)
Lacy
@rholtman96 Thank You. and yes I agree. Ive had so much stress lately taking this off my plate was a gigantic help. but I was lucky . Its a shame we could never figure out the odds on having support or not. probably 50 50 or is it worse than that ? we will probably never know. Have a great day RC
That sounds like as close to a perfect day as one could ask for! Days like that are what dreams are made of for me. I dress at home often and even go shopping sometimes, but always alone. My wife is nowhere near as understanding or accepting as yours. Consider yourself a blessed lady!
@ashleigh Thank You ! I know I am fortunate and Our relationship has only gotten better. Also Spot on as this was a dream come true. I day dreamed for a very long time about this exact day. Weather there is future progression or not I'm very happy with what I got. Have a great one. RC
