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Second Time Out (!)

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Well, I seized the momentum from my first time going out dressed on Saturday night, combined with a little patch of beautiful weather this afternoon, to do a second outing today. I went to a semi-secluded and LBTGQ (and clothing optional...) friendly beach and did a little sun worshipping in my one-piece bathing suit I bought a few weeks ago. I wore it under a wind suit and then found a nice spot to be Cassie. It felt nice dipping my painted toes in the ocean. I sat there and reflected on my journey so far. I never, ever thought I'd go to a bar or the beach dressed, yet check and check. I realize, though, that given my home situation this is going to be more of spasms of daring and freedom as opposed to a smooth ramping up. My SO is currently out of town, which is why I've been able to (literally) dip my toe in the water. I will enjoy this while I can knowing the carriage turns back into a pumpkin later this week. Hugs, Cassie

 

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Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
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@cassiesccd nothing like seizing the momentum while it’s there.

And yes, if the carriage is soon to turn back into a pumpkin then you have to take your chances when they come.

I know how that feels. My pumpkin doesn’t currently have a “turn into a carriage” date any time soon 

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@lucyb112 Thank you, Lucy, and sorry to hear your opportunities are even more limited. 😥

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@cassiesccd 

How wonderful! And isn't it amazing how far we progress, finding and beating these challenges. Well done you for making the most of your opportunity.

Looking at the weather forecast for San Diego, it seems you had just the right time for your trip to the beach!

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@jacquelinelarkspur Yes there was a small window of nice weather yesterday. An apt metaphor for my overall experience 😉

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Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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@cassiesccd 

So long as you kept the window closed when the rain came! I gather they were issuing sandbags.

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@jacquelinelarkspur Fortunately we live in a part of the city where there has been almost zero weather damage.

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@cassiesccd Awesome Cassie. Never been to Blacks Beach, but have gone to Moonlight Beach several times ( not in a one piece), shorts, cute v neck tee, and of course flippies.

 

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@caligirl Thanks Kathi. Looks like you know your socal beaches...

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@cassiesccd 

Good for you Cassie! So glad to hear you are capitalizing on these opportunities. I'm very impressed and inspired by these posts. It sounds like you still have some time before the pumpkin appears. Good Luck, Girl! 😊 

Thanks for sharing,
Denise
❤️

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@denises924 Thank you!

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@cassiesccd That sounds like the perfect day 🙂

If I'm ever in California again, I need to get to that beach ...

Hugs

Ellie x

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@ellyd22 As Kathi correctly guessed, it's Black's Beach 😎

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@cassiesccd

Thank you ... I Googled it and it looks like a lovely spot. It sounds like quite a hike to get there though, as well as a fair old ascent/descent!

Hugs

Ellie x

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@ellyd22 It was my first time and a bit of a workout as advertised. Glad I wore water shoes with a good grip and appropriate exercise clothes on top of my bathing suit (which I shed on the walk back). Definitely not a trek to take in flip flops and a bikini 😊

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@cassiesccd

Anyone playing naked beach volleyball at this time of year? That gets mentioned on just about every website featuring Black's Beach.

It sounds perilous.

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@ellyd22 Some were naked, but just sunning. 😎 No volleyball on the stretch I was on.

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I'm glad you followed thru on that Cassie.  Carpe diem!

/EA

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This is so good to read about, well done girl 🙂  And so daring too, in a bathing suit on only your second time out!  You're inspiring me to want to step further out of my comfort zone from the first baby steps I took last week.  Isn't it strange how nice weather is such a factor in both our desires to be out en femme!  I hope pumpkin will become carriage for you again in the not very distant future.

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@finallyfiona Thank you, Fiona, and hoping sunny days and more adventurous carriage rides lie ahead for you as well 😊

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Good for you Cassandra!!

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Cassie -

How wonderful for you. You've had some wonderful experiences recently, I hope you get to have more.

XOXO
Suzanne

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