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So for those that do not know me which would be most I started crossdressing about 8-9 months ago and really only recently in May started to practice with makeup and showing my face on camera. Just so you understand why this has impacted me so much today. So with that out of the way on to the story.
So Im talking with a girl and seeing if we click and maybe set up a date. She is pretty interested in the idea of dating a CD but we all know that that interest can go away faster than you can say panty gaff. Most girls at this point wants to know what I look like. Well she ask for the photos of me and at this point I always post one of me as Erin and one of me in my guy mode. Just so they know that Im not a full time CD or trans. So after a pretty long time she finally responds with this "is the guy your husband I am not into poly", like, wow, really? She really could not tell that it was me in guy mode I literally had the biggest smile on my face I have ever had. Two pics of me side by side one as a guy and one as a girl and she did not make the connection. I am on cloud nine right now. She may not know it but she just validated all the hard work and practice I have put into my image over the last 3 months and it feels so good!
That is awesome, Erin, and it is what we all strive for. Congrats
Hugs, Regi👸💕
Thats great Erin. I always wonder about that when I'm dressed. How much do I resemble my man self? How different do I look? I get the fact I may not look totally feminine, but would someone who knew me recongnize me as my male self if they saw me dressed or saw a picture of me dressed? I used to ask my wife this question, but she says its difficult for her because no matter how good I look, how feminine I look, how good my hair(wig) and make-up look, she still sees "me". I get that because I see the same thing in a mirror. But with that said a few weeks ago, she was out and about in the morning, so I got dresswd while she was gone. When she came home, she jumped said she was actually startled when she walked in because she didnt rexogn3ize the woman standing in her kitchen, which was of course Chelly. And yes, like you said....... it brought a smile to my face.
Hugggs
Chelly
That's wonderful, Erin.
That IS a wonderful feeling, Sweetie! I'm so happy for you, and I hope this is the first of many such experiences.
Congratulations Erin! What fabulous validation!!
Hugs,
Elise
Yes it does totally made my day and just makes me want to keep improving.
Thank you and yes I am as well. I am planning another outing in a couple of weeks with some friends. We will be totally dressed up all day and going out on a shopping trip so it will be fun to see the reactions of the sales girls we meet.
I guess you right, I see myself in my pictures every time but that would make sense because I see me every day lol. I just think it was a shock to me because all the girls prior have never asked me that.
You know that totally makes sense I mean we are our own harshest critic because I see my male self in everyone of my pictures. Now for you to have your wife not recognize you WOW that is something to be excited about I bet you guys have a pretty good laugh over that moment.
